Divorce

What the Bible Really says about it (Part Five)

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The following descriptions are still under construction and may include thoughts that are a little disjointed and incomplete. (It is still in the process of re-write, so please check back weekly). Also, some of thoughts may sound a little harsh depending on your circumstances, I don�t mean them to be, but it�s my understanding of the Gospel of forgiveness.








Priest where forbidden to marry a person who was divorced (Lev 21:7) and the High Priest was forbidden to marry someone who was a widow (Lev 21:13,14)









The Last (i.e. Lords) Supper


This is the blood of the New Covenant....acting unworthy (1 Cor 11:27-32; 12:3). He has shown us the way...He is faithful to the end...









Saul Attacking David


he�ll fall by...I�m not going to touch him (i.e. do something negative). IMHO if a person is still alive they have not been judged and there is always hope of a restoration of relationships - unless God has told you otherwise. David waited for God to judge the situation. He was God�s anointed, not a mistake. God put him there. David didn�t just �move on� until there the first �covenanted partner� was ...Didn�t just �dump� him and set up his own kingdom.. Ladies take note. Your husband is in authority over you. Be like David. Also remember that there is always hope in God. (See 1 Peter whose advise on winning over a partner without a word). Don�t judge situation by divorcing / remarrying. If we judge God judge us. We can �leave� like David did (i.e. separate), but not remarriage (click here for more on all this). Husband has authority over you. You don�t want the following type of thing to happen to you, which can if one causes trouble in a covenant. (Compare these 3 verses... Genesis 31:19, 32, and 35:18 also see Sauls curse of Jonathan). When David left Saul and fled to the wilderness that was permissible, but when he tried to do something against Saul that caused trouble(See Philistines wanting to attack Saul and David wanting to join with them! ) David lost everything.

Don�t violate your covenant. The issue is not whether God has really brought you together. The issue is that you made a covenant with the person and it must be respected. You are under your anointed. Your head covering.

In reference to Abigail / Nabal (first husband) and David (second husband) in 1 Sam 25. She was married to someone who was not very good, so much so that his actions where to bring death on her entire house. Abigail - by her actions - saved her household, but she told her husband about what had happened (vs.37) and her husband died. She became a kings wife after but one wonders if she would have been better off keeping her mouth shut (she saved her household, why did she wait until after his numbness wore off? was there a point? ) for she then married into a relationship with a man whom she had to share with other people and... Baathsheba (sp), who came after...was Abigail�s life any happier... she was already rich...could have had someone all to herself. I�m not so sure she did the right thing.







A Man with More than One Wife






Final Thoughts - The Book of Hebrews says��Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.� (Hebrews 13:4). The definition of a fornicator is someone who has sex outside of a covenant (in other words there is nothing binding on anyone, and this is not such a good situation for a woman to be in if she gets pregnant). The definition of an adulterer is someone who is within a covenant (that is a closed or limited covenant), and they go outside the covenant for sexual relations. Brothers and Sisters, irregardless of the number of wives one has there are still parameters (or margins) one must operate within, especially in light of the warning in the above verse that marriage is to be held in honor among all. There must be a covenant if sexual relations are to take place. It�s not only honoring to God but to one another.

It has been argued that a �back door� existed (or exists), in regards to the concept of a concubine (or mistress). Let me say again that sex outside any covenant is wrong , and it�s wrong for a multitude of reasons (and not only for the potential of pregnancy). According to the judgment God spoke to David (when another mans wife went outside her covenant and had sex with him), the penalty was to have David�s WIVES given to someone else. If you read the story, it turned out that David�s concubines were the ones that were violated. In other words in God�s eyes David�s concubines (or mistresses), were indeed his wives, and again were though as such in the eyes of God.

If you want to know the difference between a wife and a concubine you�ll have to research it yourself. But, I think it may have had something to do with the mans estate and who got what when he passed on (off hand I think the concubines may have brought nothing into the marriage other than themselves therefore their children may have gotten �gifts� but not an inheritance).




The Bible view on Divorce (Part One)




Thoughts to Ponder


God's Mercy and Forgiveness (Home)

The Victorious Christian Life (Part I)

The Victorious Christian Life (Part II)

The Victorious Christian Church (Part I)

The Victorious Christian Church (Part II)




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