1' LET'S TALK
ABOUT MARRIAGE:
Women want to get
marry because of sense of insecure.
If you ask:” why women
often feel insecure?” I can only tell you that women are born to
be insecure than men because they’re affected by time more.
Women afraid of aging,
worse of all, they afraid there would be no one to love them when they
get old. Marriage—could tie a man next to her, as it requires him
to love her forever, take care of her.
A marriage license
can’t guarantee anything, but to a woman, have a marriage license is more
secure than having nothing on hand.
Women often have dreams
about marriage. Some women are married because they wanted to.
At least once, although it might end up in divorce, at least they know
what it is like.
Men don’t want to
get marry, the reason is simple, most men like to be single. Single
means that there is freedom in their lives, and there are not many commitments
to tie them up. Once married, there would be many responsibilities
and commitments. If they could delay marriage, they would try to
wait as long as possible.
If a man didn’t want
to get marry, his woman would feel that he doesn’t love her. But
if he really didn’t want to get marry, she shouldn’t force himself into
a marriage, for that if he married her today, when there were problems
in the future, he could blame her for wanted to get marry today.
No doubt that love
includes sacrifices. How much does a man love a woman? Does
he love her to the point that he could give up his freedom for her?
Can he give up his single statue for her?
Everyone could be
selfish, men are selfish, so are women. Love means that there is
someone who can change us, so that we won’t be so selfish.
Do you love your woman?
Can you live without her? Have a second though about it. If
you feel that there’s no way you can live without her, I am sorry, then
you’ll have to say good bye to your freedom and marry her.
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