A number of things may have gone wrong...
If you are really surprised that you didn't get a card, email us. We'd hate to think that an invited friend didn't come because they didn't get the invitation!
If the worst comes to the worst, please don't miss the Wedding Webcast. Hopefully we can persuade technology to help us share our special moment with many who otherwise would miss it...
Thanks for your understanding...
And by the way: The reason you didn't get invited to the evening dinner is very simple - there isn't going to be one... Ah, budgets, budgets...