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The Kingdom Of Kastlegar Courting Guidelines

The King and Queen are surrogate parents for all who reside within this realm.

Courting should not be taken lightly.

For many in here the heart does not distinguish this world from any other.

Members must be resident of the Realm for fourteen days before
requesting permission to court.

A Courtship will last no less then 4 weeks and no more then 8 weeks

New members who are already courting prior
to joining the Realm, may continue their courtship provided
it has been ongoing for at least seven days,
otherwise the settling period will be adhered to.

If a man seeks courtship of someone not of the Realm
then he must first seek permission of the Crown.
If she is of another Realm, he must then also follow
the rules of the Lady's Realm.
Once permission has been granted,
he must bring the Lady to The Kingdom of Kastlegar
and present her to the Court.

If a lady wishes to court outside the Realm,
permission must be sought from the Crown
before she may enter into the courtship.
She must bring her suitor to the Court
so that they may ask the Crown
for permission.

During the first 5 days of courtship the man
must ask his Lady permission to link with her AV.
Subsequently, he may link without permission.
The linking is always undertaken by the man.

Marriage may be proposed and a wedding date may be set
after completion of at least one month of courtship.
The proposal is to be made after permission
has been sought from the Crown.

Courtesy and politeness shall be in all things between them.
Should a dispute arise, they should retire to a private area.
Private rooms are to be reserved only for Married couples
With their spouses unless accompanied by another.

When in a room with others, courtesy and politeness
should be extended to those present.
A kiss of greeting and embrace is permissable.
No one shall interfere in a proper courtship.

Be ye respectful of the privacy of others.

Keep yourself faithful to one another,
for fidelity is the basis of a courtship.

One may only enter into one courtship at a time,
and should that courtship fail, there must be a period of 14 days
before another courtship is sought.

A courtship may be dissolve by either party stating
their wishes to the Crown. No reason need to be given.

Before a marriage may end, dissolution needs to be granted
by the Crown with both parties present.
If one of the parties desert,then dissolution
Will be granted after 14 days of absence.




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