All of a sudden, i woke up one morning, and I was in the middle of a divorce process, closing my business, and three younger kids craving for security. Toughest questions arrived to me
Why Me, Why This, Why Now?
My name is Malena and I like to share a little piece of me, with all the women and men in the world because my story helped me grew up. I learned so many lessons in so little time… and today, all this, had lead me to a today of happiness .
AFTER DARKNESS THERE IS
ALWAYS LIGHT..... FIND IT
.......my inner despair took me into deepest places of myself, looking for answers, searching for peace, trying to see at least a ray of light....
Then many understandings came to me and little by little I started to flow and
accept. I opened myself to new truths that lead me to a place I will never imagine it would exist...
We have to understand that changes means only an opportunity to grow. So, when a change is inminent then we have to accept it. And not only accept it, but accept it with
love. Because it is an opportunity we are given to grow.
Do not waste your energy in complaining and suffering, instead, try to focus your energy in trying to learn the
lesson that will make you grow higher.
It is okay to be divorced as it is okay to cry and to laugh. It is okay to go through changes otherwise our lifes will have no meaning.
Have the courage to grow, grasp all what you have... embrace all your inner self and look for support and
strenght inside you!...
When you find your higher self, you will never feel lonely again, you will find the power you need and most of all, you will find and inmense LOVE that cannot compare to anything else in the
world, and all is inside you.
I went through toughest changes, as divorce, moving to another
country, changing my career, and to make it worse, i went through a near death experience... all happenned within a year.
I repeated this prayer to myself, until, I was able to see the Light again. And i will share this prayer with you:
"God grant me the Serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the Courage to change the things I can, and the Wisdom to know the difference".
I started to awake into deeper thoughts and hungry to discover my inner
self…..MY JOURNEY BEGAN!.....
Today, I can say with love and gratefullness, that I overcomed all, most
important : illness. I went through 8 critical days between life and
everyone said it was a miracle!, but I say it
what i learned?
I learned that TODAY, is all what we have. Today is all what we own. Today is the most valuable gift! Today...it is all
I learned that we go through changes in our life and
sometimes those changes come with pain.
I learned that tragedy does not exist, all are experiences that we are given that helps us grow and each time we grow, we get closer to the LIGTH of Love.
I learned to forgive....
I discovered my Higher
self, my inner power, the universe inside me. I discovered that God is inside me
happiness is not to be
looked outside, but inside.
I tell every women and every men in this world that are going through divorce, or other mayor changes to accept it as it will
only open gates to an inner truth.. a truth of Love!
Please know that we need to release things and events, so we can receive
new things or new people, or new…
We cannot judge, criticise,
hate or revenge…
But please, first and top of all... forgive yourself!
Assume responsability for each and every action and proceed to forgive and to learn. We can never imagine what it is in the other side of the mountain …
Believe me, if you find the truth, deep in your inner self…you can be sure that all the love of the world is there, awaiting ...is awaiting for you to awake!
Little by little all the the pain will be released to open your heart and return to LOVE.
Greater understandings, expedited the process of healing and expansion. We have to admit that our wound exists and it is necessary to heal.
My spirit is constantly growing and i become a student of body, mind and spirit- seeker of the Truth.
Today, I am full of energy and full of life, with many dreams and many
I found the passion of my life: the architecture.
I went back to university to finish my career of architecture. I
finished in 1999, and become an architect. The lesson here is that in order to get something new in any aspect, we need to release... release "the old".
In this case i released my old career of tourism to give space for the
architecture to fit in
I feel my heart opened and healed, to love unconditionally, and this is the greatest gift, I could ever received.
I RETURN TO LOVE! How?
Coming back to my inner self...
I had a purpose in my life and I have a mission to accomplish. My purpose directs all my energy to focus until I see my vision
and mission come true.
I am pursuing my dream, my vision, my
purpose....and all for the betterment of mankind.
And to all parents and single parents, and to my children:
Carlos, Isabella and Diego:
" I can only be a guide to understand and nurture your hearts...we climb the mountain side by side, providing direction wherever I can and offering constant support. As we near the top, and when you, kids, become teen ager and adult, I will stay back and let you pursue your dream, asking not even for credit for how much I helped you all along the way"
Please feel free to email me if you think I can be of help, at anytime. All what I can do is help you find all the LOVE that is inside you...I can help you Return To Love....And will show you that there is always a light when all is dark, and that there is always an end to a time of chaos.
LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL! LOVE IS ENDLESS! YOU ARE IMPORTANT!
Life goes on... now, you stop and stand up...move on and re-birth...enjoy the change...it is worthy after all...changes open you to gates of joy !
Please enjoy and relax my hotlist links. Those links supported me during changes. Sit back and relax and open your heart and let it free!
I am Sending you an ocean of love! Feel a big loving hug, feel all the loving energy that this space could handle. I love you... and I love you all!
Favorite Authors: Brian Weiss, Deepak Chopra, Louise Hay, Marianne WIlliamson, Richard Meir, ...I love to read !
Favorite Architect: Richard Meir, Le Corbusier
Favorite Music: Yanni, Kitaro, Enigma, Enya, Supertramp, Christopher Cross, Enrique Iglesias
Interests: Egypt and Inca civilization...Cuzco, Urubamba
Hobbies: Paint and Photography
"You must shine your own Light
Follow your own Path
And don't worry about the Darkness
For It is when stars shine brightest!"
ANGELS ARE AMONG US!
OH, I BELIEVE THERE ARE ANGELS AMONG US
SENT DOWN TO US ... FROM SOMEWHERE UP ABOVE.
THEY COME TO YOU AND ME... IN OUR DARKEST HOURS
TO SHOW US HOW TO LIVE...
TO TEACH US HOW TO GIVE...
TO GUIDE US WITH A LIGHT OF LOVE!
May you have an angel by your side!
I wish you happiness you so well deserve ,
Loving friends and family,
And the best of health.
May all your dreams come true ,
And may God's blessings always be with you
down the pathways of your life.
sending you healing energy
I am MALENA....
and to my friends, I am SONRISAS (Smiles)