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This Activity Checklist should be filled out by both Dom/Top and sub/slave. sub/slaves should provide it to their Dom/Top before playing with them. This will provide a quick list to identify limits, and interests and highly enjoyable play ideas. Dominates May want to reorganize the List to get a better handle on Their specific interests. Switches should go through the list twice, both as Dom/Top and as sub/slave. One persons Dom and sub interests may be very different.

For each item you need to provide two answers:

  • * For experience. write Yes or No to each item to indicate if you have ever Done that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
  • *For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about doing that activity by rating it on a scale No or 0 to 5.
    • ? = means you Don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
    • N/A = Non Applicable
    • No = means you will Not do that under any circumstances (A Hard Limit)
    • 0 = indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (In fact may loath it) and ordinarily object to doing it. but you would permit the Dominate to do if they really wanted it. (Sometimes called a Soft Limit)
    • 1 = means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you to perform.
    • 2 = means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal to you.
    • 3 = means you usually like doing this activity at least on an irregular/occasional basis
    • 4 = means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis
    • 5 = means this activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible


  • * Mark with an asterisk (*) for those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners.
  • There is some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the sub is the recipient/target of the activity.
  • *Note* I do not necessarily participate in all activities listed below. This list has been developed to see where your interests lie.

Personal Info (Optional)

Your name here :
Your e-mail here :
Your location :
Today's date :


Experience Yes/No 

 Willingness No or 0-5 
 Age Play    
Anal Sex~    
 Anal Plugs (Small)~    
 Anal Plugs (Large)    
 Anal Plug (Public, Under Clothes)~    
 Animal Roles~    
 Arm & leg sleeves (Armbinders)~    
 Auctioned for Charity    
 Ball Stretching (Male Only)    
 Bathroom Use Control~    
 Beating (Soft)~    
 Beating (Hard)    
 Being serviced (Sexual)~    
 Being Bitten~    
 Breast/Chest Bondage~    
 Breast Whipping~    
 Breath Control~    
 Boot Worship    
 Bondage (Light)~    
 Bondage (Heavy)    
 Bondage (Multi-Day)    
 Bondage (Public, Under Clothing)    
 Brown Showers (Scat)    
 Cages (Locked Inside Of)~    
 Castration Fantasy (Male Only)    
 Cattle Prod (Electrical Toy)    
 Cells/Closets (Locked Inside Of)~    
 Chamber-Pot Use    
 Chastity Belts~    
 Chores (Domestic Service)~    
 Cockrings/Straps (Male Only)    
 Cock Worship    
 Collars (Worn in Private)~    
 Collars (Worn in Public)~    
 Competitions (With Other subs)    
 Corsets (Wearing Casually)~    
 Corsets (Trained Waist Reduction)    
 Cuffs (Fur-Lined)~    
 Cuffs (Leather)~    
 Cuffs (Metal)~    
 Diapers (Wearing)    
 Diapers (Wetting)    
 Diapers (Soiling)    
 Double Penetration~    
 Enemas (For Cleansing)    
 Enemas (Retention/Punishment)    
 Enforced Chastity    
 Erotic Dance (For Audience)~    
 Examinations (Physical)    
 Exercise (Forced/Required)    
 Exhibitionism (Friends)~    
 Exhibitionism (Strangers)~    
 Eye Contact Restrictions~    
 Face Slapping (Hard)    
 Face Slapping (Soft)~    
 Fantasy Abandonment    
 Fantasy Rape~    
 Fantasy Gang-Rape    
 Fear (Being Scared)    
 Fisting (Anal)    
 Fisting (Vaginal)    
 Flame Play    
 Following Orders~    
 Food Play (Cucumbers, Sorbet.....)    
 Foot Worship    
 Forced Bedwetting    
 Forced Dressing    
 Forced Eating    
 Forced Homosexuality~    
 Forced Heterosexuality~    
 Forced Masturbation~    
 Forced Nudity (Private)~    
 Forced Nudity (Around Others)~    
 Forced Servitude~    
 Forced Smoking    
 Full Head Hoods~    
 Gags (Cloth)~    
 Gags (Inflatable)~    
 Gags (Phallic)~    
 Gags (Rubber)~    
 Gags (Tape)~    
 Gas Masks    
 Gates OF Hell (Male Only)    
 Genital Sex~    
 Given Away To Another Dom (Temporary)~    
 Given Away To Another Dom (Permanent)~    
 Golden Showers    
 Gun Play    
 Hairbrush Spankings~    
 Hair Pulling~    
 Hand Jobs (Giving)    
 Hand Jobs (Receiving)    
 Harems (Serving With Other subs)~    
 Harnessing (Leather)~    
 Harnessing (Rope)~    
 Having Food Chosen For you~    
 Having Clothing Chosen For you~    
 Head (Give Fellatio/Cunnilingus)~    
 Head (Receiving Fellatio/Cunnilingus)~    
 High Heel Wearing (6" or More)~    
 High Heel Worship~    
 Homage With Tongue (Non-Sexual)~    
 Hot Oils (On Genitals)    
 Hot Waxing    
 Housework (Doing)~    
 Human Puppy Dog    
 Humiliation (Private)~    
 Humiliation (Public)~    
 Ice Cubes~    
Including Others~    
 Initiation Rites    
Intricate (Japanese) Rope Bondage~    
 Knife Play~    
 Leather Clothing~    
 Leather Restraints~    
 Lectures For Misbehavior~    
 Licking (Non-Sexual)~    
 Lingerie (Wearing)~    
 Manacles & Irons~    
 Manicures (Giving)    
 Massage (Giving)~    
 Massage (Receiving)~    
 Medical Scenes    
 Modeling For Erotic Photos~    
 Mouth Bits~    
 Name Change (For Scene)`    
 Name Change (Legal, Permanent)    
 Nipple Clamps~    
 Nipple Rings (Piercings)~    
 Nipple Play / Torture~    
 Nipple Weights~    
 Oral Anal Play (Rimming)~    
 Over-The-Knee Spanking~    
 Orgasm Denial~    
 Orgasm Control~    
 Outdoor Scenes~    
 Pain (Mild)~    
 Pain (Medium)~    
 Pain (Severe)    
 Persona Training (In Scene)    
 Personality Modifications (Real Life)    
 Phone Sex (Serving Dom)~    
 Phone Sex (Serving Dom's Friend(s))~    
 Phone Sex (Commercial Provider)    
 Piercing (Temporary, Play-Pierce)~    
 Piercing (Permanent)~    
 Plastic Surgery    
 Prison Scenes~    
 Prostitution (Public Pretense)    
 Prostitution (Actual)    
 Pony Slave~    
 Public Exposure~    
 Punishment Scene~    
 Pussy/Cock Whipping ~    
 Pussy Worship~    
 Riding Crops~    
 Riding The "Horse" (Crotch Torture)~    
 Religious Scenes    
 Restrictive Rules On Behavior~    
 Rubber/Latex Clothing~    
 Rope Body Harness~    
 Saran Wrapping    
 Scratching (Getting)~    
 Scratching (Receiving)~    
 Sensory Deprivation~    
 Serving As Art~    
 Serving As Ashtray    
 Serving As Furniture~    
 Serving As Maid~    
 Serving As Toilet (Urine)    
Serving As Toilet (Feces)    
 Serving As Waitress/Waiter~    
 Serving Orally (Sexual)~    
 Serving Other Doms (Supervised)~    
 Serving Other Domes (Unsupervised)~    
 Sexual Deprivation (Short Term)~    
 Sexual Deprivation (Long Term)~    
 Shaving (Body Hair)~    
 Shaving (Genital Hair)~    
 Skinny-Dipping (Alone)~    
 Skinny-Dipping (With Friends)~    
 Skinny-Dipping (With Strangers)~    
 Sleep Deprivation    
 Slutty Clothing (Private)~    
 Slutty Clothing (Public)~    
 Spandex Clothing    
 Speech Restrictions (When, What)~    
 Speculums (Anal)~    
Speculums (Vaginal)~    
 Spreader Bars~    
 Standing In Corner~    
 Stocks (In Front Of Crowd)~    
 Straight Jackets~    
 Strap-On-Dildos (Sucking On)~    
Strap-On-Dildos (Penetrated By)~    
Strap-On-Dildos (Wearing)~    
 Strapping (Full Body Beating)~    
 Suspension (Upright)~    
 Suspension (Inverted)~    
 Suspension (Horizontal)~    
 Supplying New Partners For Dom~    
 Swallowing (Feces)    
 Swallowing (Semen)~    
 Swallowing (Urine)    
 Swapping (With One Other Couple)~    
 Swapping (With Multiple Couples)~    
 Tampon Training (In Ass)    
 TENS Unit (Electrical Toy)~    
 Thumbcuffs (Metal)~    
 Triple Penetration~    
 Urethral Sounds (Metal Rods)    
Vaginal Dildo~    
 Verbal Humiliation~    
 Vibrator On Genitals~    
 Violet Wand (Electrical Toy)~    
 Voyeurism (Watching Others)~    
 Voyeurism (Your Dom With Others)~    
 Video (Watching Others)~    
 Video (Recordings Of You)~    
 Water Torture    
 Waxing (Hair Removal)    
 Wearing Symbolic Jewelry~    
 Weight Gain (Forced)    
 Weight Loss (Forced)    
 Wooden Paddles~    

 Willingness Quick Key

  • ? = Don't Understand This Item
  • * = I will do with current sex partner only
  • N/A = Non Applicable
  • No = I will NOT do this under any Circumstances (A Hard Limit)
  • 0 = No desire, don't like, will permit if special to Dom (A Soft Limit)
  • 1 = Don't want to, but will.
  • 2 = Willing to do, but has no special appeal
  • 3 = Usually like doing, on an irregular/ occasional basis
  • 4 = Like doing, would like it on a regular basis
  • 5 = Wild turn-on, would like as often as possible

More Personal Info (Optional)

Phone # if Local:
Birthday :
Hair & eye color :
Height & weight :
Occupation :
Marital/Relationship status :
submissive experience :

 Additional Need to Know Notes:

* Please Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom/Domme or potential Dom/Domme to know in the space provided.









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