Astrology is a means of self discovery, and understanding. Everything on your natal chart is not necessarily written in stone, however; events in our lives change and shape us. It is up to the interpreter of the chart to determine what now applies, what maybe once made up a part of the personality but no longer applies, and the parts that never applied to the individual in question. This takes a degree of understanding, and intuition on the interpreter's half. Astrology is a very, very old art, and like most arts, takes some degree of practice. If you're just starting out and don't think yourself very good, just keep at it. For some it comes naturally, for some not. Blessed Be