I have learned the hard way. Do not play with men's hearts. I have hurt my boyfriend in so many ways. Just by being dishonest. All I had to do was tell him I was confused about us and that I needed time to myself. Well, I did that, but I let him talk me into taking him back. What did I do that for? Now he's left me. I told him that a guy I liked had broken up with his girlfriend. I wanted to date the guy, but I had to feel out the situation before I decided to stay with my man. Well...my big mouth cut that time short. So ladies, keep your mouth shut. And your mind on your own man. The grass is never greener on the other side.