Have you ever wondered which hurts the most? Saying something and wishing you had not...or not saying anything and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say. They are the things you get ashamed of because words diminish them.
Words shrink things that seem timeless when they were in your head...to no more than living size when they are brought out.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them...if you do, they may break your heart...but if you don't you might be in love
but never in "a" love..
Have you ever decided not to become a couple because you were so afraid of losing what you already had with that person?
Your heart decides who it likes and who it doesn't, you can't tell your heart what to do, it does it on its own...When you least suspect it,
or even when you don't want it to.
Have you ever wanted to love someone with everything you had...but that other person was too afraid to let you?
Too many of us stay walled in because we are too aftaid to care too much...for fear that the other person does not care as much
or not at all...
Have you ever love someone who had absolutely no idea whatsoever..or fell for your best friend in the entire world and then sat
around and watched him, fall for someone else?
Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?
We tell lies when we are afraid...afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others think, afraid of what will be found out about us.
But every time we tell a lie...the thing we fear grows stronger...
Have you ever stopped before going into a relationship frightened about heartbreak later on? Heartbreak
will come eventually but if the person your risking it for is worth it, then go for it! Life is all about
risks and it requires you to jump. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what would have or could have...
No love waits forever...but friendship does.
By Jenna Kahanu
