Pluto in the 7th House
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  Pluto in the seventh house is an indication that you are trying to learn the lesson of 
  how to achieve balance in a relationship. This requires a strong sense of self-esteem 
  and an understanding of yourself and your needs in a relationship. If you have 
  planets in the seventh house under stress from other planets, this often indicates a 
  form of dependency. If you appear to be a more dominant person, you could be too 
  dependent on a submissive person for your activity. On another level, you may 
  become excessively involved in too many relationships, where you are dependent 
  on the points of view and value judgments of others, so much so that you lose sight 
  of your own individuality. The key to growth here involves learning to be objective, 
  listening, and giving by recognizing the needs of another. Pluto under stress in this 
  house indicates that balance was not learned in a past life.  

   
  It is possible that you are obsessed with marriage, which will lead you to painful 
  emotional problems in close relationships. You may not want to give your partner 
  any freedom, and if you exhibit an excessive neediness, it will cause considerable 
  strain. Cooperation will then become difficult, and the relationship will be threatened 
  if these problems are not addressed.  
   
  If you manage to learn the lessons of this placement, you will be able to give to 
  others exactly what they need. In addition, you will learn how to give and receive and 
  how to participate in relationships in a way that is not itself dependent on 
  encouraging dependence by your partner. If Pluto is well-aspected, you should be 
  able to give valuable support to others during periods of crisis and change. You may 
  even be in a position to influence society in general, and you will probably take up 
  an occupation as a healer or work in the judiciary or in psychology.