N. Node in the 7th House
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  This suggests a need to develop an appropriate focus on being friendly yet 
  independent. Soul growth can occur when you develop your interaction with 
  others to embrace cooperative and balanced relationships.  
   
  Say hello to relationships and good-bye to doing what you want when you want 
  it. This is the life where you learn to look before you leap, not that you have 
  always been very good at it. You need to balance out your energy with a partner 
  who has enough in common with you that you can share many wonderful 
  experiences, perhaps even leading to marriage, if the aspects favor it. For too 
  many recent lifetimes, you have been self-sufficient and independence has been 
  important to you. That's fine if you want to be alone for the rest of your earthly 
  existence, but the real growth comes when you consider the wants and needs of 
  others with whom you form more than a casual relationship. You want very much 
  to be loved, possibly because you did not get a whole lot of affection as a child 
  or maybe you didn't think you needed anyone else. Well, the times, 
  they-are-a-changing. If you want to be a part of something, you have to learn to 
  compromise and adjust to what other people accept as appropriate social 
  behavior. You might take dance lessons or join a social organization so that you 
  can begin to integrate into the great society (at least, that's what LBJ called it).