Only the Best Advice + Quotes

Page Index:

Quotes:

-On Life
-On Love and Relationships
-On Happiness
-On Music and Raving
 -Miscellaneous  

Advice:

-On Love, Relationships, and Sexuality
 -On Life and Miscellaneous

"QUOTES"

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...on life...

"Dream as if you'll live forever, Live as if you'll die today." -- James Dean

"Often the test of courage is not to die but to live." -- Vittorio Alfieri

"Love wholeheartedly, be surprised, give thanks and praise then you will discover the fullness of your life." -- David Steindl-Rast

"To live without loving is not really to live." -- Moliere

"Be slow to speak and slow to anger." -- Proverbs 1:19 (?)

"When I filter the sunshine in my life, I bask in the light of a transforming and inspiring reality." -- Thomas Kinkade

"Steeping my life in beauty brings color to my days and a song to my heart." -- Thomas Kinkade

"Get wisdom. Get understanding." -- Proverbs 4:5

"Though we travel the world over to find the beautiful, we must carry it with us, or we find it not." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Time heals all wounds." -- Unknown

"The man who tries to be good, loving and kind finds life, righteousness and honor." -- Proverbs 21:21

"To laugh often and love much, to win the respect of intelligent persons and the affection of children; to earn the approbation of honest critics; to appreciate beauty; to give of one's self; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived -- That is to have succeeded." -- Harry Emerson Fosdick

...on love and relationships...

"Do to others what you would have them do to you." -- Matthew 7:12

"Love is blinding. That is why lovers like to touch." -- German Proverb

"Love doesn't make the world go 'round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile." -- Franklin P. Jones

"One kind word can warm 3 winter months." -- Japanese Proverb

"Love is the river of life in the world." -- Henry Ward Beecher

"Love is the master key which opens the gates of happiness." -- Oliver Wendell Holmes

"It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye." -- Antoine de Saint-Expery

"To love another person is to see the face of God." -- Victor Hugo

"Love is the stepping stone to new beginnings." -- Thomas Kinkade

"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." -- Helen Keller

"Romance makes a radiant sunrise out of every moment." -- Thomas Kinkade

"The only way to have a friend is to be one." -- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Let all that you do be done with love." -- 1 Corinthians 16:14

...on happiness...

"Life is made up of small pleasures. Happiness is made up of those tiny successes. The big ones come too infrequently. And if you don't collect all these tiny successes, the big ones don't really mean anything." -- Norman Lear

"WARNING : Humor may be hazardous to your illness." -- Ellie Katz

"There is no cosmetic for beauty like happiness." -- Countess of Blessington

"The purpose of life is the expansion of happiness." -- Maharishi Mahesh Yogi

...on music and raving...

"Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life." -- Berthold Auerbach

"Music should make you move and at the same time make you think." -- Junior Sanchez (House DJ)

"Not everyone understands house music -- It's a spiritual thing, a body thing, a soul thing." -- Eddie Amador's "House Music"

"Oooh, baby - I feel like the music sounds better with you. Love might bring us back together. I feel so good; I feel like the music sounds better with you." -- Stardust's "Music Sounds Better With You" (note - the lyrics sound much cooler in the track, but since they are very emotional and how I feel whenever I go dancin [thinking about how lonely I am], I included them here)

"If you feel that you can't take no more, and your feet are headed for the door; Gotta keep on dancin', and prancin'. Groovin', keep on movin'. Flyin', stop your cryin'. Choosin', while you're cruisin'. Music is the answer, to your problems. Keep on movin', then you can solve them..." -- Danny Tenaglia's "Music is the Answer"

...Miscellaneous...

  "A three-legged dog is still a dog." -- Micheal Stipe

  "Ignorance has taken over... We gotta take the power back." -- Rage Against the Machine

  "It's better to be pissed off than pissed on." -- Eddie Vedder

"Hope is the feeling you have that the feeling you have isn't permanent." -- Jean Kerr

"The eyes are the window to the soul." -- Shelby Gull *Dedicated to my friend Will*

"Early to rise, Early to bed, Makes a man healthy but socially dead." -- (The Warner Brothers) Animaniacs

"Freedom is the right to do what you ought to do." -- Bishop Fulton J. Sheen, American religious leader (1895-1979)

"Fear can hold you prisoner, hope can set you free." -- Unknown

"He who wonders discovers that this in itself is wonder." -- M. C. Escher

"The truth will set you free." -- John 8:32

"Hope is hearing the melody of the future. Faith is to dance it." -- Rubem A. Alves

"The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials." -- Chinese Proverb

"That which does not kill us, makes us stronger." -- Unknown

"If thou slayest not the dragon, thou shalt die!" -- Anonymous

"You're a little naughty, a little bit aggressive?" -- Crocodile Hunter Steve Irwin

"If God had intended us not to masturbate, He would have made our arms shorter." -- George Carlin

ADVICE

These are some of the most important things that I have learned through my own (as well as my family, friend's and relative's) experiences. Help yourself out and please fully concentrate on my advice. This is all free and you don't have to do anything (though I ask that you please check out my site in its entirety, including my Get Paid to Be Online and my Get Paid for Surveys, and Get Paid To Play Games and for Other Fun Uses Of Your Computer pages... After all, with the 30 or so BRAND NEW programs I have on those pages, you can be making tons of money just while reading these, or with just a FEW extra minutes of your time!!) -- I'm only trying to help people out in any way I can by posting here the MANY, MANY things that I have learned through my rather complex life. I will continue to add pieces of advice as soon as I learn them, so that hopefully, my lucky visitors don't have to suffer through the same problems I've had and can have a much happier and more satisfying life!! As always, I tried to add some humor and wit to my writing, so that you don't get too bored :)

...on love, relationships, and sexuality...

Be careful not to overreact. Try to be calm, reasonable, and mellow; but at the same time, be sure to be honest and talk about things that bother or worry you. It is always best (and very important) to be honest and truthful to everything - that way you never have to worry about what you said when you lied, and you don't have a trail of lies you have to cover up. And you build up trust and faith in a relationship -- a must to keep either of you from spazzing out on the other.

If you're in a relationship and you want it to "work", make sure that you call frequently (daily), and to call when you say you are going to call. Forgetting, or simply not calling can leave the other person "on the edge", and also lead them to assume some very awful things...

I do not believe there is "love at first sight" (Though you do need a certain physical attraction to persuade you to be near the person in the first place). Love grows over a long time of getting to know the person and being near them, and getting used to being near that person. When everything reminds you of them; when you are ALWAYS thinking about them; when you get butterflies in your stomach when you see them; when they inspire you to write or create art; and when you miss them when they are gone, etc... chances are, you're in love. And when you are, don't be too analytical trying to decide if you are truly in love (you should be able to tell), and also don't be afraid to tell the person (whom you are in love with that) you are! They will be flattered even if they don't love you, and that gets you in a good position to pursue something further at a later date.

People who are in a relationship -- it is inappropriate to dance/grind with other people different from your boy/girlfriend. No matter what. It doesn't matter if they are your 'friend', and it doesn't matter if your boy/girlfriend doesn't see it. Word will (probably) get around. And no matter what the character or personality of the person, if they care at all about you, they will be jealous! This will seriously hurt or damage your relationship, as the other person will always have in the back of their mind this image of you disrespecting them and the possibility that you might be cheating on them. It is very hard and takes a long time to patch an incident such as this up. (I have gone through this myself and a good friend of mine has also gone through this, and it seriously damaged our relationships.) Please don't do this!

If you are in school, write notes constantly to your boy/girlfriend. This is a definite mood booster and can very well make school that much more tolerable when you know that down those academic hallways there is a person who cares enough about you to sacrifice their proper education by blowing off class and thinking about you :)

Some people need to be close at times; others need their space. It's very important to keep a delicate balance of this. Consider the availability of the other person and how often you get to be physically together. If you get the chance to be physically together more than once or twice per week (other than merely for a few minutes), you can sacrifice a few dates to let the other person chill with their other crews.

When you have a group of friends that go online and chat, especially if they are online together, do not expect anything you say to be kept private. Most likely the person you are talking to other than your boy/girlfriend is also talking to your boy/girlfriend. And if you say anything interesting about your feelings or attitudes about the other person, it will probably be told to them. It is best just to tell them anything that bothers you than to blab it to one of your other friends and who'll blab it back to them and cause all sorts of weirdness between you two.

About kissing: it can be confusing at times, not knowing what the other person is expecting. I don't have that much experience, but contemplating everything, I think the best way to kiss is to just start with a closed-mouth kiss, slide around for a little, and then follow the other persons lead and include tongue if you both feel so inclined. If you close your eyes, any lip-to-lip contact feels so otherworldly... like your faces are being sucked into the nexus of the universe or something... very cool!

For those who haven't kissed anyone yet, don't worry. I know you're scared you are going to screw something up... however, there really isn't anything that you can screw up. If you truly care about the person, go someplace nice (i.e. garden, etc.), lean in, close your eyes, and go for it. Remember : Flavored lip junk always hits the spot; don't worry about other people seeing, or what they may think (unless you can't stand that idea), it won't make or break a relationship; smile (before and after); act like yourself before and after the kiss (and if something bothers you, talk about it! It can almost always be worked out!), and follow that natural rule (next segment)...

Conversations between people going out should always include little loving compliments and sweet-talking. A lack of this may cause the other person to assume horrible things...

(As far as sexuality in relationships...) Don't go too fast. Don't go too slow. This very much depends on the person! How fast or slow you go is up to you and your conscience - however, you must 'feel the other person out' (no pun intended :) to tell how far you may go. For a person who hasn't done anything (kissing, etc.), you should build a good relationship before doing anything too erotic (month or more is good). Going slow builds up pressure and anticipation for more, and I believe is much more fun and satisfying; however, some people need to go much farther much sooner to stay satisfied. I have experienced both sides of this, and can say that a girl who has done stuff with guys may expect you to do stuff after a date or two, and may leave you for the sole reason that you didn't go far enough in a certain amount of time (I had three chances before she dumped me, while I was going to do more the next time I went out with her :( And that brings me to another point - Don't tease someone without some sort of satisfaction. Sure it seems like a sly way to leave them lusting for you, but it may backfire and cause them to think that you'll never follow through and then they'll leave you. An appropriate balance must be found...

Gifts - for no reason, and when they are not expected - help make a good relationship. Of course, only do this after you've been going out for a little while, and if you really like the person. This is an affirmation of the fact that you have something special, and it really gets you brownie points (and giving is better than getting, of course :) ...

If you like a person, don't EVER breakup with them first, no matter how much it seems like they want you to! I made this mistake, since my ex-girlfriend made it seem SO much like she wanted to break up, but pressured me into some sort of response to the difficult question -- "Things aren't working. I think something drastic needs to change. Maybe it would be best if we broke up. What do you think?" An appropriate response if you still like the person, since this is a lot of pressure and is a very tricky question, is (and very lyrically), "I know things aren't perfect, but I love you and will do anything for you. I believe in us, and I want to work it out." Always try and work it out. If they want to break up with you, they'll do so. They'll tell you it's not your fault, there's nothing you can do, they don't like you as much as they used to, and they want to still be friends. God, I bet those sentences bring back a lot of memories to any of the people who've been in relationships out there! BTW (by the way), those are the typical, irritating-as-hell, BS 'end-of-the-relationship' quotes. I hope you hate them as much as I do!

There will always be weirdness after two people break up. Most likely, there will be things that are said that aren't truly meant, and are said from a temporarily insane point of view. Don't take any of this seriously, and don't let it bug you. To borrow a quote from Baz Luhrman's song "Everybody's Free (2 Wear Sunscreen)", -- "Remember the compliments you receive... forget the insults." How true this is...

(The following are from an e-mail that was circulated by a girl, and some are common sense, but for all the guys that care about girls, Learn 'em!)
A real man would do these things for his girl :

1. Call her the next day. 2. Always laugh at her jokes. 3. Tell her (truthfully) that you can't wait to see her again. 4. Offer her a backrub, without asking for one in return. 5. Call her just to say you were thinking about her. 6. Bring her a teddy bear and chicken soup when she's sick. 7. Write her a poem. 8. Slow dance with her (not only on a dance floor). 9. Bring her flowers for no reason. 10. Send her a (handwritten) letter just to say hello. 11. Always remember your anniversaries and bring her something sweet. 12. Kiss her in the middle of a sentence (depends on the sentence!). 13. Take her for a walk at sunset and stay to look up at the stars. 14. Tell her something about you that no one else knows (be careful with this one). 15. Remind her that you still think she's beautiful. 16. Take a bubble bath together. 17. Watch a sappy movie with her. 18. Surprise her with a candlelight dinner. 19. Never stop trying to impress her. 20. Tell her you love her. 21. Never forget how much she means to you. 22. Give her great big hugs for no reason.

...on life and miscellaneous...

  (I DO NOT CONDONE OR RECOMMEND THIS!! BUT) If you are overwhelmed with schoolwork or you just don't feel like doing a certain pain-in-the-ass assignment, AND you decide to "borrow" someone else's words (in whole or in part), CHANGE THEM! I got caught for this, and I'll give you tips for not getting caught... If you use someone else's work, be sure to CHANGE THE TITLE!! And be sure to change the words to fit your writing style!! For example, if you find a report and it is from a Harvard University student, you MIGHT want to make it less technical, and translate the words into those which may have been written by a high school student! Of course, if you change the title and some of the main words, the teacher shouldn't be able to prove anything, because they wouldn't be able to search for it and then find it easily. And you probably also shouldn't take anything off of the commonly searchable and checkable sites that teachers know about -- like SchoolSucks.com -- because teachers could easily find the document you "borrowed."

 When going to a rave or any all-night or intensive recreational event where you will be physically active for long periods of time possibly without resources like food, water, etc... Always get an extended, quality night's sleep the NIGHT BEFORE! (So that you can stay awake and full of energy and dance so that you can enjoy yourself!)
Always eat a large, healthy, multi-course meal BEFORE LEAVING! (So that your body has all the minerals, vitamins, and energy needed to go all night long!)
Always do any drugs (if you are into that sort of thing) BEFORE ENTERING THE EVENT! Security at almost any recreational activity - concerts, raves, etc. - almost always incorporate frisking nowadays, and you don't want to lose or get arrested for your shit! (And doing drugs inside any event gives a bad name to whatever event or crew you were a part of in the public eye!)
Bring snacks that can't melt or get all sweaty in your pocket from dancing (like a bunch of loose Pixie Stix or Chocolate candy), and try to bring other things more nutritious other than just processed sugar-based candy, because your body WILL feel empty from just running off of unhealthy sugar all night! AND lastly, be SURE to remember a camera to be able to record your experiences!! And see the advice "About photography and recreational memories" below...

 (About photography and recreational memories...) I've learned that trying to take pictures of lasers doesn't really work because of the speed they are traveling. Your camera only captures a split-second of that movement and a large shape turns into a simple line or streak... And if you are trying to capture the awesome lights (or lasers), then DON'T use flash! Because then the whole area will be lit up by powerful white light, and not the colored cool ones that you wanted to show! So the best thing to do is take some pictures WITH a flash - like of your buds, where you aren't trying to capture any special lighting, and then some pictures WITHOUT a flash - like when you want to show the cool lights, lasers, blacklights, etc.!

Make the most of what you have when you have it (i.e. a new group of friends, a party, or an opportunity) - you'll miss it when it's gone...

Follow your conscience and do what feels natural ... it's probably best that way.

Any behavior can be addictive - smoking, sex, always listening to a song, etc., etc. Do not constantly do the same behavior in any given situation... Do not always use something (like cigarettes) to relieve stress or to relax (like always smoke when you are on break from work, or always smoke in social situations). This is really the reason people are so addicted to things like cigarettes, sex, or ANYTHING! If you always do something in a certain situation, whenever you DON'T do that behavior in that situation, you are going to feel like you NEED to do it! If you alter your behavior and don't always use a substance or behavior to relieve stress, to relax, or in social situations, you can easily control (and never START) being addicted...

Several books about dream interpretation have suggested the following -- to only try to interpret the dreams that come out of nowhere and hit your mind... not the common thoughts about what you'd like to do the next day, or your daily job, etc. Your dreams are your subconscious trying to work out problems in your life, and it often does so with strange, but logical metaphors and plots. One thing I've learned is that you don't really need a complex dream interpretation book to find out the meaning of a dream. I do believe that dreams can foretell the future, because your subconscious picks up and contemplates a lot more information than you can tell. It pieces all this together and twists it around and creates a possible occurrence, or it gives you a solution to a problem, or it shows you in a different light what's going on, or might be going on in your life. To understand your dreams can really help you understand yourself - or others - and any time spent doing so is not wasted.

Don't shave ANYWHERE if you can help it. Your hair WILL grow darker and thicker, and there is little to nothing you can EVER do to permanently reverse this! -- This is not a myth! If you do shave, the best way to get long-lasting smoothness is to use a thick shaving cream, first shave up (against the grain), then shave down (with the grain), then if desired across the grain.

When you do anything on the computer, be it an e-mail, a letter, a school document, etc., save often!! -- About every 5 minutes, or after a complete thought like a paragraph. CTRL-S is the Windows standard keystroke. You'll hate yourself if you don't, and you lose everything!

(About photography...) 1. A really good thing to pick up is the CVS Photostar Camera. It's a very stylish, cool, good quality camera, and they will give you free film for life (or double prints if you develop your pictures with them) and install it in your Photostar camera for free. 2. Always make sure that you don't have your finger over the lens - that will piss you off if every picture you take has your finger over it. (I recommend using your middle finger to press the button rather than your second that way you eliminate the possibility of fingering up your future pictures. 3. Always buy and use cameras with flashes, no matter how much light you think there is. Even indoors with all the lights on isn't enough. The only way you can safely not use a flash is if it is a bright, sunny day and you are outside.

Always write journal entries or important things down ASAP! Make the time to do so, or else your initial joy or hostility or true feelings and thoughts may be lost forever (and you'll regret that you didn't when you try and look back and ponder them further at a later date)...

When you go on a trip (to anywhere) make sure to get the turn-by-turn directions from http://www.mapquest.com. This is completely accurate and gives you the quickest route and even keeps track of detours! Remember that one time... when you were driving and didn't know exactly where to turn and then you went in big loops and wasted your time going the wrong way? Well, with Mapquest, you don't have to worry about any of that anymore... Very important if you have an important event to go to in an area that you have never been before!

Make sure you preview everything you want to get off of www.Mp3.com. Don't even waste your time downloading a track in less you are SURE you like it, and you have previewed it. It's amazing how much pure CRAP there is on there...

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