Mood:  crushed out

Many questions goes through your head when someone who you love breaks up with you.  What did i do wrong?  what could i have done to prevent it?  how can i get her back?  that is one of the most important question that everyone will ask himself.  You will get plenty of advice on how to do it right.  listen to those advice with a grain of salt and never think you'll get her back in one shot.  that would be our down fall.  here are some things i did to get my ex as a friend and start over again.  you must understand she needs recovery time and if you get back with her right away, you're just going to go back to your normal routine and will be left once more.

step 1.  do not attempt to call her unless she calls you

this is especially important because what you're actually doing is giving her space and time to think how she truly feels about you and how much she misses you.  it may all seems like a game, but it's absolutely necessary for this to happen.  the more you attempt to contact her, buy her roses, show up at her work place, her home, the more irritated she'll be of you.  at this point she is still upset and needs time to think things over and go out and party and maybe even meet someone else.  you have no say in it.  you must be patient, and wait for her to contact you.

 in the meantime you should......