New Relationship Tips, Marriage Tips, You Name It... Confidence Is Key!
By Elle ~ http://www.relationship-advice-bootcamp.com/new-relationship-tips.html
New Relationship Tips, Marriage Tips, You Name It... Confidence Is Ke…Oh,
we couldn't have said it better than Carrie from Sex and the City...
“I admit it's tempting to wish for the perfect boss - the perfect parent - or the perfect outfit. But maybe the best any of us can do is not quit, play the hand we've been dealt, and accessorize what we've got.”
I love it... "accessorize what we've got".
So
basically be confident in playing up the goods you got ~ Right? Soo many
people underestimate the power of confidence... After all, how we
"present" ourselves on the outside is a really good reflection of how we
feel about ourselves inside... yes?
So, this isn't going to be a long laundry list of the usual "how to be more confident", "stand up straight", make eye contact etc. We're gonna give it to you straight off the street... stuff you see everyday, and think to yourself "you've got to be kidding me"...
So here it goes; Far to often we are seeing the the following offenses and wonder to ourselves... What kind of confidence is this person projecting? What statement is this person making? And they wonder why they can't get a date?
If you're workin the market for a date, or maybe just getting a little "too comfortable" in your relationship... Read On:
Ditch the Frump:
alright people... the baggy worn out sweats with the crotch hanging down. OK, maybe Angelina could pull it off, but the rest of us just need to leave that look at home.
Your Car:
Yes, new relationship tips at it's finest here; If you're taking a date out, your car just can't smell like the deep fryer from Jack in the Box, and be knee high is Starbucks cups. Yeah, we're all busy, but if you can't take care of your
car
, you're likely leading your date to wonder just how just bad your house or hygiene is... Right?
Bad breath:
yes, chronic halitosis can be a serious deal-breaker. Brush, floss, gargle, chew gum... whatever it takes. No matter how cute your smile and one liner is, that grande caramel latte breath just isn't doing much for your game.
Wrinkled Stuff:
again, sporting that "just rolled out of bed" looks, just gets the minds wondering; if you we're in such a hurry with that outfit, clearly you skipped that shower and teeth-brushing too.
The Cell Phone:
would you be texting and taking "that really important call" if you were on a date with Kim Kardashian? Hmmm, we think not. So if you're doing this, what are you saying to your date?
Gutter Mouth:
yeah, we all have bad days, and sometimes no other descriptive word will do. However, when every other word is a colorful &%$#@, it's just not attractive... married, dating, whatever the situation. Again, if you were sitting across from Brad Pitt would you be swearing like a sailor? Hmmm, we think not.
The Bragger:
Yes, a new relationship tips winner here: WHY spill all your candy at the door? If you truly are
that
impressive with your "VP" status, hot designer couture, cute little Convt BMW and extravagant trips, you shouldn't need to brag about it. Bragging says one thing loud and clear: I'm insecure...
Actions and silence speak louder than words people... Letting someone find the "candy" (in other words, the good stuff or really impressive stuff about you)themselves over time, as they get to know you is powerful stuff and MUCH more impressive. Rather than you selling yourself like a used car salesman. Right?