Understand the break. What did each of you do to contribute to the rupture? Most relationship problems do not emerge unexpected, but accumulate over time. The odds are good that it was not a one-sided problem and that there were signs that it was coming. Take your time and do some soul searching before attempting to regain your ex. You want to make sure that you are not wasting your time or energy on something useless.
According to research, the number one cause of the breakdown of romantic relationships is lack of communication. [1] If your relationship was otherwise happy, this problem can often be fixed by setting clear expectations and openly discussing frustrations before things burst into a big fight. Other issues may be more difficult to overcome, such as infidelity or jealousy; But with work and advice, even these types of problems are possible through.
Remember who initiated the break. It was you? If so, did you do it after careful thought or an angry fit that you now regret? Was your ex, and he or she has specific reasons? Was it a mutual decision?
It is vital that you understand who controlled the break and why it happened in the first place. If it was you, and your ex was against breaking, getting back together could be easier than if it was started by your ex in the first place.
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