Details of our relation till date
I will start this from 7th August 2008 which was my week off & I was supposed to visit my friends because one of their common friend was cheating them on monetary & emotional grounds & I was supposed to expose him. In the morning I reached R.K.Puram & spent some time with my friends & got to know more details about that guy & decided to trash him today.
I picked my friend from Gurgaon & came back to r.k.puram & that was the time when I first saw the girl named “Kim”. I heard about her a long time back as my friends always used to talk about her only all the time that she is a good looking gorgeous simple & sober girl. I was very curious to know what is this person who made such an impression on my friends that they are talking continuously about her only at any given time. When I first met her I said hello to her & shook hands but didn’t saw her face even because I thought that she is a very chaaloo girl. After greeting her I took that guy to a corner & opened everything of his in front of all my friends & one of my closest friend “Menaka” started crying after listening that reality & this was something I was not able to control myself on this moment & trashed that guy very badly but then realized that I have done it in front of girls which was against my rules so I said sorry to Kim & that was the first time I actually had a conversation with her. I thought I would get a chance to exchange the phone number with her but she was very clever in that I think & didn’t gave me her number.
Then day after that day I was supposed to meet my friend “Ritesh” in pool café & she was also there. She was hungry & asked ritesh to accompany for dinner but he denied & sent me along with her. While talking to her I got to know her nature & her simplicity & decided to be with her if at all was possible & we also exchanged our numbers on this day while accompanying her back to hostel. On this day we talked the entire night nonstop on phone & we both had to go to shifts next day but we didn’t cared about it. Next day we decided to meet in morning & I reached her place at 7AM in morning itself & we spent some time together & when It was my shift time I asked her if she would like to come to my office along with me & she agreed with a little force. We spent the time in office & ordered pizza which we shared & that made our bond stronger. We talked too much about us & we both started to like each other but no one wanted to start it off. While going back she slept in my car itself & when we reached her hostel I was not able to wake her up coz I wanted to see her innocence while she was sleeping so I kept the voice low & didn’t woke her up. By this time I was sure to be associated with her. When she woke up she said that she can’t get back to her hostel as its 4AM so we decided to go to my home which is in rohini. She went to my home & volunteered to prepare tea & I felt like my own wife is working in the kitchen which was my ultimate dream which I always wanted to see & hence was not able to control myself & said to her “Pata le pata le apni saas ko” to which she just blushed & said nothing. We had our tea & then I took her back to her hostel & while on the way back I started to say to her that I like her & she was also giving importance to me so I felt good about it. By this time I was sure that this girl can change the person within me who has grown to be so harsh that people started leaving my hand in almost every part of my life. I thought that now I am changing & realizing what is the meaning of softness & tried to change myself as far as I can although I know it was a very small bit of change but somewhere down the line Madhy was changing & was coming back to what he was at one time “Gurpreet”. I was happy to see the change in me because I thought that no one in this world can now change Madhy but after seeing her confidence & her efforts even Madhy changed somewhat & became what he always wanted to be. I am very happy to see this now & always wanted to be with her as her love is changing me in all those 9 years.
We continued talking on phone & we kept in touch & then I proposed her finally in less than a week which she accepted & then we officially proposed in front of friends as well on the 14th August 2008. On that day we went to the office of radio mirchi to announce that proposal. We both were too happy to be with each other & we made it clear in our mind that we would be together for the entire life. We kept meeting more & more which lead to a situation where we didn’t had any bar between us. We wanted to get along with this relation so we decided to tell everything to our parents & she called her mom & we revealed the same to her & she gave a positive response to it which made us feel that now we would get married for sure.
Things were good & everything was fine apart from the fact that sometimes we used to fight on some small things/issues which was normal & we both were ok with that. On 14th of October 2008 we celebrated Kim’s bday where she first met my mom in the morning & then we went to Gurdwara which was our plan. I planned a surprise for her by giving her some time to spend with kids who are abandoned by the society which is something she likes the most, she felt as if she got the best thing ever & then we came to r.k.puram where we had arranged her cake (thanks to menaka & ritesh for this cake) & celebrated the cake ceremony in CCD. She was very happy on that day & I was happy to see her happy.