Previous posters have asked me to comment on this unique pairing, so this post is dedicated to the Virgo man and Gemini Woman. First and foremost, as a Gemini woman who is married to a Virgo man for the past 22 years, I can personally attest to the potential that this couple has. So, let us get to it. Below is the love compatibility for the Virgo man and Gemini Woman.
To best understand the love compatibility of this couple, we must first understand them as unique individuals.
**The Virgo Man**
The Virgo man is a creature of intellect, mental stimulation, organized chaos, and above all, perfectionism. You can often find him focusing on his career, trying to find the next best path for either himself or his family. The Virgo male is often thought of as the architect behind the moons. His mind is always wondering, always working, and always criticizing. Don't be surprised if you find your Virgo mate to be up early in the morning, ready to get his day started. This is attested not to the fact that he is always on the go, but rather, because his mind leaves him little time for sleep and rest. Gentle, helpful and sympathetic by nature, the Virgo man often faces criticism for being finicky as they are very particular about how they want things to be and also expect others to stand up to their expectation levels.
Virgos analyse nearly every step of their life, ensuring that their perception can become a reality. As a result of this, Virgo's are often seen as critical and over thinkers. But this is a double edge sword, because a man who is critical does not commit very easily.
The Virgo man sees things as they are, with no sugar coating. He sees through deception and lies, but may often keep his opinion to himself. He sees no need for unnecessary outpouring of emotion. It take's the Virgo male a while to fall in love. But once he's truly smitten, he is in it for the long haul.
Finally, Virgos treat everyone equally. They respect and provide attention to those who are in need. They are kind hearted men who would act against injustice swiftly. They may easily put their own safety and interests at stake in order to help and save others. While Virgo's are over critical of a lot of things, they pour most of their attention into themselves. Their minds are often plagued with thoughts of "is this right?", "should I have done this?" and "how can I make this better?" It is these qualities that have lead to the Virgo males to their so easily identifiable perfectionism that all other signs envy.
**The Gemini Woman**
The Gemini woman is an active butterfly who is represented by the twins. Often having the ability to see both sides of the coin, they too are stimulated by intellect and conversation. A Gemini woman is best described as light, fun, and perhaps carefree. They are extremely clever, curious, and exceptional conversationalist. However, as with other highly intellectual signs, the price for her mental firepower is a relative lack of emotion and a very low tolerance for boredom. A Gemini woman thinks too much, but feels so much less, and this can have a number of consequences in her life. Remember, a Gemini woman appreciates theory more than practice. If her mind is stimulated, so too will she be both physically, and spiritually.
As an enthusiastic, charming and clever woman, a Gemini will be rather flexible throughout her life. She's good at almost anything she puts her mind to, and can make anyone laugh, which leads to many falling for her. You can often find her in the centre of a social gathering, as they love hearing peoples opinions, forming their own, and ensuring that her mind is kept busy. Gemini woman tend to see the best in almost anyone, yet, are always waiting for their perfect knight in shining armour to show up and sweep her off of her feet.
In her day to day life, she is kept busy by doing a variety of things, but at times, leaving things unfinished. Despite this, she is often at her best when she is swamped with things to do. She is a busy woman with endless accomplishments. Given this, she can often be forgetful, but who wouldn't be with a Gemini lifestyle? She does more in a week than many do in a month!
Finally, a Gemini woman is kept very up to date. She is often "in the know" with the most up to date fashion, politics, and news. She loves debates and discussions on nearly any topic that can set her mind free. A Gemini requires variety, and this reigns true to her twin sign.
**The Virgo Man and The Gemini Woman - Love Connection**
When a Virgo man and a Gemini woman meet, the rest of the signs of the zodiac begin to take bets on their relationship. It is perhaps the most unique connection in all of the zodiac, and for that, it can be either doomed from the start, or perfection throughout their lives. The answer to this lies somewhere between communication, interests, stability, and of course, intellect.
The earthy Virgo and the airy Gemini can make an exceptional match for each other. The heart of their relationship lies in what they are able to offer each other: the exact things the other lacks. The Gemini woman loves to discover every possible thing, meanwhile, her Virgo counterpart prefers to be around tested areas.
What makes this couple spark is Gemini's need for intellectual conversation and theory, and Virgo's ability to deliver this unlike anyone else. Sit these two down, and be prepared for conversations that leave others jealous and in awe. This forms the attraction that lasts throughout the years, as the two of them have the ability to discuss anything and everything. With this, they are able to overcome nearly any obstacle.
A Gemini woman supplies to her Virgo man a much needed zest for excitement and stimulation. A Gemini woman can make anything happen, and she does not believe in "I can't." Similarly, her Virgo man will encourage her, but keep her close to reality, ensuring she is safe and picking her up when she needs it. The Gemini woman will always charm her Virgo lover with her qualities, but never feels dependent on him. She never bores him, but rather, delights and amuses him, which keeps the spark and brightness in their relationship. The Virgo male will undoubtedly have realized that his Gemini woman brings a new aspect to his life, and for this, he is thankful.
Likewise, the Virgo man provides his Gemini woman with the stability she needs. You see, while Gemini women love to interact and are often the outgoing life of the party, deep inside, she seeks stability, security, and safety. Her knight in shining armour is the quiet Virgo who stands back, but is always looking out for her. If you see such a couple at a social gathering, you may find the Gemini woman chatting with various people while her Virgo keeps a distance with close friends only. However, he will always keep an eye on his lover, ensuring she is safe, happy, and most of all, appreciated. This theme continues throughout their lives, as a Virgo man's loyalty is unlike any other in the zodiac. Likewise, while the Gemini woman can often see the good in any male, and her eyes may even be tempted to look, this should not be mistaken with infidelity or cheating. She is a devoted lover, and once her mind and heart are taken, there is nearly nothing anyone can do to ever change that.
In the bedroom, Gemini woman likes a variety of light, sensual touches. The Virgo male who is often analytical with his life needs to understand that his butterfly is playful and passionate. They both have a strong and stable passion for love, and this will keep their fire lit. She likes to keep things delicate and play games, and he is quick to understand what makes his lover weak. Of course, once the Virgo male sees what it is his woman wants, he will stop at nothing less. Behind the love making, however, remains their passion for each other. He has found his exciting, playful, and never dull match, and she has found her knight, who provides her with stability, safety, and years of intellectual stimulation.
**The Danger Between the Virgo Man and The Gemini Woman**
The danger for this pair is very obvious. So much so, that the two intellectual couple will have recognized it early in their relationship, and will either have to adapt to it, or let it lead to their demise. The potential difficulty comes from the mind of the Virgo man, who requires a constant acknowledgement of his lover. In contrast, the Gemini woman is often a busy, social, independent woman, who may simply not have the time to satisfy Virgo's thirst for love. This should not be mistaken with feelings of jealousy. On the contrary, the Virgo male is amongst the most secure signs of the skies. Rather, the Virgo male prefers to know that his lover is constantly thinking of him, and wants to be reminded of such. This keeps in line with his linear method of thinking, his path to "a perfect life", and a reminder that he does not have to be too critical of himself.
On that note, the Gemini woman requires constant change, and her Virgo man must accept this. She will require him to be much like a chameleon, someone who can adapt to a variety of situations and things. While a Virgo man seem too strong minded to fulfil such a task, he will often have came to this conclusion himself, and very likely, a solution too! Don't be shocked if you see a Virgo man who is able to keep up with the likes of a Gemini in a social gathering. While he is not doing it for his own enjoyment, he does it because he insurmountably figured out what his Gemini woman requires, and he will not stop at anything less. Remember, this is her knight in shining armour, and he does not take failure easily.
Perhaps the simplest way for the Virgo male and the Gemini woman to overcome the above, is to discuss it. After all, these 2 are the masters of conversation, and that is what will keep their fire fuelled. The Virgo man needs to understand that his beautiful Gemini has a life of her own, but would never sacrifice their relationship. Likewise, the Gemini woman needs to understand that little gestures go a long way with Virgos. A simple "I cant wait to see you" or "I love you my dear" will provide the Virgo with his daily dose of sanity. Further, Gemini needs to understand that Virgo's are self destructing beings (meaning, they are their own worst enemy!). He will not miss a beat, observing everything and forming his own conclusions. So the next time your Virgo writes you a love letter, makes you dinner, or calls you to tell you he misses you, remember to do the same in return. It goes a long, long way with a faithful Virgo.
With this in mind, and their ability to intellectually stimulate each other, this couple has the potential for fireworks throughout their lives. Both come to the relationship with big hearts, big expectations, and if played right, big results!
**Parenting: The Virgo Man and the Gemini Woman**
Parenting is perhaps the most interesting aspect of this couple. A child born to a Virgo man and Gemini woman will be fortunate to have "the best of both worlds" when it comes to many things.
The Gemini woman is an eternal youth. She is, and will always be, a kid at heart. She is often seen as the "cool" mother who knows a bit about everything, and is always up to date, even when it comes to her kids! Her children's friends may come over at times, just to talk with the Gemini mom, who loves the gossip and the life her children and their friends protrude. If you have a daughter, expect her and her friends to be in your closet, wearing your clothes which they actually like.
Gemini mom's also tend to educate their children very well. Because they are an intellectual sign, they don't brush off questions their children may have, such as "Why is the sky blue?" or "Why do we have seasons?" A Gemini mom will do her best to provide her children with real life, valuable answers. The education of her children is of utmost importance to a Gemini mom, and you can often find them at the book store while pregnant, researching different aspects of giving birth and parenting.
A word of caution to most Gemini mom's, however. Your sign is the twins, so it is very natural to seek your missing "half," but be careful to not blur these boundaries with your child. Your child is their own individual, and Gemini mom's have a tendency to craft their children into "mini me's." This is not to suggest that we should not influence our children. But rather, recognize them as unique individuals who will grow to become their own beautiful selves. But you see, Gemini, in your unique case, you do not have to worry about this, because as their father, your children have the Virgo man.
Virgo's have a natural tendency to have big hearts, big feelings, and a need to help others. As such, it's no shock that Virgo's make exceptionally great fathers. Virgo, you are both the symbol of perfection and criticism, and with this, you are able to father your children in what many would call as "traditional." A Virgo father is quite tough on his children, because he wants the best for them. He will shower them with love and affection, but will never leave them thinking he is their friend before he is their father. He will ensure that they ate their vegetables, finished their homework, and took their vitamins before bed. He will not allow for communication gaps amongst his family, including the Gemini mother.
Virgo fathers keep their mind on the final outcome, or final goal for their children. You can often find him making the necessary sacrifices for his children and family, ensuring they are happy. With that being said, Virgo, you must not be critical of your children's mistakes. For after all, they are children and they are learning. You, too, at one time, made a number of mistakes. And while you are able to be critical of your own, it is sometimes best to let your children make the necessary mistakes that will craft their character.
After all is said and done, the Gemini woman and the Virgo man make an exceptional team as parents. Once again, we see one couple making up what the other lacks, and this is what will make give this family a beautiful and memorable connection.
*In Conclusion*
In conclusion, this pairing is unique but has extreme potential. The couple must use their similarities and interest to overcome their concerns. The Gemini's need for constant change and excitement, and the Virgo's need for stability, can both be satisfied if the couple is willing to put forth the effort.
I am now 22 years into my marriage, and have 3 wonderful, beautiful children. My Virgo is truly a perfectionist, and I could not see my life, or children, with anyone but him. Treat each other well, with respect, and be mindful of each others feelings. With this recipe, you can not fail.