I was 28 years old and finishing my sociology degree when I had to make this rinky-dink website. I am now 35 years old and SO much has changed. I am married to the most wonderful woman to ever walk the face of the earth. We have a blended family with 6..yes 6 kids! The classic yours, mine, and ours. I just want to say one thing to anyone who might stumble upon this sorry excuse for a website: "Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. I have not ever read anything more true pertaining to love. If you find yourself losing patience with your significant other, if you are rude or speak down to your significant other, or if you resent or get irritated towards your significant other easily, you are not in love. If these feelings are coming your from your "loved" one, they do not love you. There is no doubt in my mind that my wife loves me as much as any human can love another and I love her the same.I have misinterpreted many feelings and emotions for true love and by doing so have caused a lot of pain. My wife and I both will have to deal with the consequences for our bad relationship decisions for the rest of our natural lives and our prayer for you is that you find true, God-given love before you take the step into holy matrimony.