FEAR
Some people are afraid of things that others are not. There's really nothing in the world to be afraid of. Along the growth of human history there came hate and anger and abused children. Children whom wanted attention. Instead of learning to deal with their problems, they let all the hate and resentment build and became control freaks. They bossed people around to feel good. Now adays, this runs rampant, there's many people whom want to control, for various reason, but mainly because they're afraid of people. You must be a free individual and not allow people to control you.
Prejudice people are afraid of the people they are prejudice against. It begins as being afraid of what is different, and for many reasons they are unable to face the different, so their own ego makes them feel bad about being afraid, which makes them angry, which makes them hate what is different. The thing is we must learn to face what is different, not run from it. Instead of making everybody look alike, which many believe will eliminate prejudice, we must encourage everybody to be their individual selves. Then teach people there's nothing wrong with being different. Only by allowing individual uniqueness can we function as a group.
Don't fear what your parents say you should.
PEOPLE WHO CALL OTHERS LOSERS WILL TRULY LOSE IN THE END
SELF-HATE
A strange stigmatism has affected society, which is to shut people out as outcast that do not live up to society's vision of what is beautiful. Hate, jealousy, envy, prejudice, and ignorance can make even the most physically attractive person ugly.
What we must learn is to not judge ourselves by other people's standards. Don't compare yourself to so and so. You have a unique beauty all yourself. So you don't like your face, you don't like your body, so? Stop complaining and do something about it. You don't know how? Search for how. You were given everything you need to survive when you were born. Some may say somebody looks physically better than you, but what do they know. Don't listen to them, they will try and silence you with bitterness and lies. Again this is the control freaks whom turned to the negative instead of the positive. Listen to your heart, believe in yourself. Above all be a joyful person, smile and laugh. You will always be beautiful.
Don't you know, highly intellegent people have a good sense of humor. At first, the more intellegent you become, the more foolish you will feel for acting childish, but you need to be playfull to have a happy and more fullfilling life.
What people say about us is not important. When somebody is ill with you, instead of picking up their negativity, just look at them like they have a problem and ignore them. Somebody will say you're a chicken for turning away, but it takes a brave person to walk away and know they're stronger. Those tormenting people suffer from an out of control ego. Somebody with an out of control ego contantly has to prove themselves to people who challenge them. Somebody who is confident in themselves doesn't need to prove anything. Show them you're bigger than they are.
The sad thing is the people who torment you are tormented themselves. By taking their frustrations out on innocent people, your fear gives them a false euphoric feeling of power. Instead of fearing them, or hating them, you should feel compassion for them. I'm not saying just stand there and let them say anything or do anything to you. Absolute peace does not exist and is the easy way out for freightened people. If they step over the line, and there's only so much we can take, feel free to bunch their lights out.
HATE FOR CHILDREN
Children whom were bullied or treated bad by other children sometimes grow up and hold that against all children. As adults they'll say, I hate children, I can't stand them being around me. It's not good to hold all children accountable for the actions of a few whom have hurt you in the past. In a way, you're still afraid of these children. You're bigger than that. The bullies whom have hurt you are themselves troubled. You must understand this and rise above the pain they would like to afflict upon you.
NON-LOVING PARENTS
Some people will beat themselves up because their parents don't love them. They will have this unnecessary feeling of guilt and say, why don't my parents love me? Is it something I did? Is it the way I turned out? Is it the way I look? Is it this or that, and so on... If your parents can't love you for who you are, it's not your fault. If they can't love you, the problem is within them, not you. Stop the self-abuse.
SELF DOUBT
Never let people intimidate you. Never let them make you believe you are any less than they are. That sort of self doubt has made many a culture subserviant to other cultures.
There will be many people who will doubt what you intend to do with your live. That comes from the point of view which is, if they can't do it, you can't either. You will tell many how you intend to live and they will laugh and say 'sure'. You will be discouraged by many, even your parents, which is why you need to believe in yourself. You can't live according to others' beliefs, so believe in you and achieve your goals. If you fail, forgive yourself, nobody is perfect, then try and try again.
You're never too old to live your dreams. Keep going, no mater how old you are. Again, the outside world will discourage you for many reasons, but don't listen to them. Listen to your heart. Live!
DEPRESSION
Reason 1: Comes from when your thoughts and what the outside world says you should do, colide. The people of this world have come up with some strange set of rules to live by. Mainly created by control freaks. Again fear is used to keep people in line. So your're afraid to live the way you want to and you get depressed.
Solution: Live your life the way that makes you happy. Refuse to let people make you afraid. Finishing your education is a good way to deal with this. People that drop out are easier to control because they don't know as much as they think they do. Why do you think the governments don't do much to stop drop outs? Control freaks seek position of authority so they can tell you what to do. The strange thing is people that care avoid positions of authority.
Reason 2: We don't get what we want, so we get upset, then fall into depression.
Solution: The thing is this world is a place of unlimited potential. If you can't get what you want, do something else. The thing is do and do again until you're happy.
Reason 3: The mind is an ever active organ. If you run out of things to do soon your mind gets bored and you get bored and you get depressed because there's nothing to do.
Solution: This is an ever growing population. People are always creating something for others to enjoy. The thing is when you get bored with something, it's time to find something else to occupy you. There's plenty to learn and much to entertain you. The thing is you have to go and get it.
Reason 4: Some people can just be tired from working hard or other activities and get upset over not having enough energy.
Solution: The recent invention of vitamins is good for keeping up your energy. If you have sensitive skin, I would avoid the vitamin iodine.
Reason 5: Over indulging in recreation can make you lazy, and after a while you can sink into depression.
Solution: Keep active. Even if it's just walking 30 minutes a day.
Reason 6: Something tragic may have happened to you in your past that you can't deal with. Some people will drink, and/or turn to drugs to get away from it then end up feeling depressed. The thing is it never goes away like that.
Solution: You have to face your problems and deal with them. Running from them won't help, it will only make it eat away at you more and more. Some people actually look forward to getting old because many old people are looked at distinguishedly. So then they have the "right" to say what they want without feeling embarressed. We don't want to wait and waste away our lives. Speak your mind now. Besides most of the time, what happened to you in your past wasn't your fault, especially if you were a child.
HERITAGE AND TRADITION
Many people enjoy having big families. They also enjoy tradition handed down from family member to family member. But some people just don't care about that sort of thing, and that's their right to. The problem results when family try and force them to accept tradition. The family will even threaten to disown them for it. The bottom line is, when heritage and tradition start harming you, you have every right to leave them behind. Even if you leave your family behind. This is your life, nobody should live it for you. To suffer these things and say nothing, will cause self-hate and depression. They're just not worth it.
SEX AND WAR
The main driving force of human nature is sex. Because of hormones, we want sex. It is true you can resist urges with discipline, but it's hard to do for alot of people. The main hormone is called testopheorone. Women's bodies make this in a small amount. Men's bodies create it in large amounts because of their testicles. It is a release of builtup hormones that cause men to run after sex, besides it feels good. Alot of people get very upset when they can't get sex, they get angry. They don't know why, but because of the hormones they feel this. One of the main driving forces of war is because of sexual dissatisfaction.
Let's look at this. Throughout history people have sought after all kinds of sex. Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, and masturbation. Who's to say these people are wrong for their type of preference. The denial of this has caused all kinds of wars and fights and trama. For us not to allow people their own chose means there's a control issue we have to deal with. To hate these people whom have different sexual practices from you means there's something about yourself you hate. You must deal with it.
RELIGION, DOGMA & GUILT
Comments on the recently created religions.
Religion is the most destructive force ever created. Most religions function on the bases that you must suppress your sexual desires. Suppressing sex is very dangerous. How many Holy Wars have there been, and how many more will there be because of it?
Jesus was an ordinary man with extraordinary visions. He preached to many people and they loved him. Soon they became his followers. Jesus was willing to die for humanity. That's how much he loved people. His followers swore they were ready to die for humanity too, but when the time came his followers were to afraid to admit that they were his followers, and therefore lived. Jesus was crucified like many other people whom got in Rome's way of world domination. There was such intense guilt over this, that his followers turned his teachings into a religion and named it after him. Christianity. Over the decades that passed it became more. It became more than comforting troubled people. It became a way of controling them. To get their money, to get their land. The idea that if you do anything the bible says is a sin, you will go to hell, is a lie. Originally the word Hell just referred to an open grave. You are not a sinner from the word go, and there is no reason to feel guilt for anything you do or for the way you live your life. Reason this, according to the christian bible god created everything and everything is part of him. So that means he is part of you, and to send himself to hell would be as illogical as creating cancer in his own body.
There is a universal consciousness, but not as the religions of the world have classically defined. God is neither male nor female, and does not punish people for living their life the way they want to. Why do you think such atrocities happen in the world? God loves regardless. Any religion that punishes you for living your life the way you want to is a lie. True God doesn't need worship or praise. God just is. How can that be? How do you explain the unexplainable?
There is no reason to fear death. When you die you shall return to the beautiful light which you are a part of. So drop the fear, we go on.
Religion is the most destructive force ever created by humanity. Religion will always be perverted into controlling people.
If you want to be allowed your believes, you have to allows others theirs. People can follow whatever religion they want to, but they shouldn't push it onto you. Some people need something to believe in, but they should believe in theirselves. They shouldn't sit around waiting to be saved, they should save themselves.
Final remark on religion: The devil didn't exist in religion until christians came across witchcraft. A religion which has god as two entities. Male and female. The male god had horns and a tale. True Witchcraft is not evil, {only people whom get into it for selfish reasons to hurt others}, and it was in the way of christianity, so they gave it a bad name and it has stuck so far.
WHAT IS THE REASON FOR LIVING?
The long asked question. The Reason: To live! To experience life to the fullest. To feel everything. To have a good time. So enjoy it.
GOOD VS EVIL
Good and evil are determined by your morals. What's bad to one person may not be bad to another. The only real evil is not allowing somebody to live. Governments should not be ruled by moral or religious leaders. Anything not morally fit for them will be a crime. Many innocent people throughout history has suffered for moral nieviety.
Ace says you must deal with this negativity before you face Blackwell, for he is all the negative within ourselves.
Not related, but still important.
PARENTING
What do parents get when they scream at children? A child which misbehaves more. What happens when you discipline a child out of anger and not when you're thinking rationally? A child whom will be afraid to tell you there problems. Just because a child is a child doesn't mean they're not smart. Don't let your anger or ego hurt your growing child. Some children will be independant, and others will be very dependant. You must learn to help them at the right time and teach them how to deal with life. Remember nothing in life is free, you must support and love your child or you're dooming them for failure.
To have children is a privalege some people don't get. Children are a gift not to be abused. Don't treat them as possessions. They are free beings of love to care for. Of coarse, I'm not saying let them run over you. Nuture with wisdom.
With this in mind, you adults that have been physically, mentally or sexually assaulted should do your best not to do the same to yours or other's children. If these words reach you too late, then the only thing I can suggest is to beg the child for their forgiveness. Is that an insult to your ego? Be free of it. After all you allowed it to happen, so take responsibility for your actions before their wounds turn into unhealable scars. If you don't you'll most likely feel miserable and worthless the rest of your life.
The preceding on this scroll is for your general knowledge and for a better life. None of this is telling you what to do. You may or may not live according to any of the above. The choice is up to you.
Much Love, Ace
