I know what you guys might be thinking, so before you go and get excited about your package finally being big enough... I'll let you in on the secret. One thing that guys hardly ever realize is that they only have to do little things to make a big difference. I have had the same boyfriend for 4 years, boy oh boy, he still has no clue! So for the guys out there that are staring at this screen wondering what the hell I'm talking about, here goes! Pay attention, seriously! A little love goes a long way, live by that! Send a card, send an email (this is less romantic, try to send a card)... send roses/tulips/bouquets, leave a love note behind, sing a song confessing your true love and leave it on her voicemail, call her for no reason at all, tell her you miss her when you are apart (even if it's only for hours), make her a creative gift, dance with her, play with her hair, kiss her forehead, lift her up when you kiss her, and hold her hand when your alone, hold her heart when you are apart, be sensitive, be sweet, let her take you shopping, and interest her in your likes (baseball, football, computer technology, whatever!), make time for her... and if you have the chance to be with her... TAKE IT! You never know when you will regret it. Guys, I know the male species is almost incapable of understanding what makes a woman happy... and some of these things suggested might not win your lady's future... but it will atleast let her know that she means a lot to you and she is special, after all that's all girls want to feel... special! So instead of reaching for the TV remote next time, grab the phone, while checking the scores of last nights games, send an email, when you get a minute use those creative skills and make a card, write a poem or sing a song, and most importantly next time you think I can do whatever I want and my girlfriend will always love me... think again!!! Without giving your relationship will fizzle as fast as it sizzled! The way I see it is guys get two chances in a relationship... a chance to screw up and a chance to make up for it... If you really love your girlfriend you won't need chances. More to come soon Gents... hope this helps. dedicated to Shawn, my loving bf!