The fine line between selfish and caring
I've missed it. Quite a few people might think of writing as more of a job then a fun activity, but not me. I don't know what I'd do if I couldn't write. Whenever I get frustrated, I have something to do to sort my thoughts out, and it really helps, and lately, I've been doing a lot of just that.
I'm starting to think that I have total possessive problems. Well, maybe not starting. It's more like finally allowing myself to think about it fully, and now that I have, I'm convinced I do, or am. Whatever.
See, a certain someone, who shall remain nameless, has started taking part in an extracurricular activity that takes up a bit of his time. This is something that's totally foreign to me, because practically since I've known him he's been mine and mine alone, which I honestly could not have been more happy about. Now though, I'm being faced with having to share him along with his time and attention, and to say the least, I'm just a tad bit jealous/irritated. The thing is, I honestly don't think I have any right to be, jealous and irritated that is. I do things, so there is absolutely no reason he shouldn't be free to do things he enjoys too. See, I know that, but my mind just wants nothing to do with such a notion. No, it's determined to make me feel agitated and angry every time he has to leave. It's really driving me nuts beyond belief. On the inside I'm happy he's getting out and doing things he enjoys, and I wouldn't want to do anything to hinder that, but my outside refuses to cover up my irritation so he could think nothing of my stupid attitude. I'm so utterly lost and fed up with it all. Can ya tell?
Ah, not to mention a certain someone at school has been wearing down on my already touchy nerves. Krista, a freshman in my German class. At first she seemed 'ok'. A bit loud, but otherwise handable. Then, I got assigned a seat next to her, and now it's holy hell get the fuck away from me you dirty, skankly lil rat. I don't usually react to people that way, except at certain times. A specific kind of person who tops the list of pissing me off is preppy lil freshman who try to dress in skimpy clothes that they have no business wearing due to their -cough- weight, and flirting non stop with upper classmen that shouldn't want anything to do with them, but thanks to that male hormone dubbed testosterone, they flirt right on back. Well, Krista is just one of those girls. She doesn't stop hanging all over guys, even if she doesn't get much of a reaction. But heaven forbid some naive sole actually pays her some attention and gives a little back, however small it may be, watch out. She grabs and runs like bloody hell with it. Until recently, I've been able to deal with her pettiness, just focusing on my work and talking to a close friend of mine, Tina, that sits right infront of me. But then, she did the unthinkable. She started flirting with the one single guy in class that I'm actually pretty fond of, and what's even worse is that, he was 'guy' enough to have a teeny tiny little reaction to it and actually talk back. IDIOT!! A little fuse just blew inside of me, and I swear somehow she knows it makes me crazy to all end when she flips her hair at him and giggles like an idiot at every little thing he says. Even Christina, who used to be pretty close friends with her, wants nothing to do with her anymore. I mean honestly, she really needs a reality slap. Maybe a few. Between her constant ramblings about getting drunk, her boyfriend and all the crap she does with him, and her incessant stupidness, I really don't know how much I can take. And get this, on top of all that, she's picked up a new habit. Since she's just too busy talking and paying attention to everything and everyone except our lesson in German, she actually has the nerve of helping herself right to my answers. When she's not copying my work, she's asking over and over again about what we're supposed to be doing and what we're turning in and things like that. If I wasn't such a controlled person, I would really give her a punch to the nose, stomach, mouth, chin, heck, whatever I could get at. But of course, that won't happen. I'm too "nice" to do that. -deep sigh-
Anyway, I'm done for now. Expect more soon. :?