Empowered Females Club

Welcome to EFC, the official website for the empowered female!
My name is Misty and I started this club in hopes to educate you, my
fellow female students and to help you be more comfortable with your sexual self.

The main focus of this group is sex.
GASP...Did she say sex? YES PEOPLE I SAID SEX!!!!!!!!!!!!

I want you all to feel comfortable having sex in any position, whether it just be plain old missionary,
doggie-style,cow-girl, backwards cow-girl...especailly ORAL SEX, etc.

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E-mail me with any questions or comments, especially if you want to join the club. If you're intrested in membership, please tell me a good time Monday through Friday that you would be able to meet at ECC. I am also thinking about having the meetings in my home so that we will all be more comfortable to open discussion. For right now, I would like to hold meetings on Thursdays, 1 o'clock pm to 2 o'clock pm on the upper floor of the MP building, but it's very likely that it will change...

"Ask Mysti"

"My boyfriend said that no one had ever gotten him off by giving him head.
I've been pretty confident in the past about my abilities, but now I'm worried I won't be able to. Any advice?
~Leslie

Dear Leslie,
Never fear, I can help you with that. The problem may be that he's too anxious, feels guilty, is worried about taking too long, or any number of things. First of all, have you asked him what goes through his mind when someone is giving head? Secondly, here are some things you can try:

~My blow job kit, mentioned below.

~Talk with him and tell him that you want to make this a pleasant experience for him. He needs to know that getting a blow job is not about getting off. A blow job is about pleasuring his cock!!

~When you are going down on him, make eye contact from time to time. Don't stare at him, but don't squeeze your eyes shut tight the whole time, praying for it to be over with soon. <
br>~Ok you've made eye contact, now wink at him and grin. I promise it will do something for him.

Try making him focus on what you're doing. Tell him, "Watch me, watch my mouth." Take long, slow strokes, and when you get to the top let it almost come out of your mouth. This way he will get the full sensation of you coming down on his cock each time you do it. If he stops looking at your mouth, stop what you are doing. Wait until he looks at your mouth again, or tell him to watch your mouth. He will totally get off from watching it enter your mouth, especially if you let him see your tongue sliding over or around it.

~Tell him to let you know when he is close to coming, or watch his body language. When he gets to that poing, back the fuck off. Stop everything. Don't touch him, lick him, or suck him for at least 30 seconds. Then start back up again. Again, I can't stress this enough. HE NEEDS TO KNOW THAT YOU WANT HIM TO ENJOY THIS, AND THAT THIS IS ABOUT PLEASURING HIM. If you make him wait to cum it will let him know that.

~You have to feel sexy while you are giving head. It helps if you know what you're doing, and you have to give off the impression that you KNOW you know what you're doing. That's always what has worked for me in the past.

~Don't get frusturated if you can't get him off right now. If your mouth gets numb or you don't feel like you can do it any more, it's alright. Just climb on top and ride him till he explodes. You can always try again later. It may just be that he needs more time to get comfortable with you, with the situation, or with himself. Just let him know you enjoyed going down on him and tell him that you want to try again very soon. Don't worry, it will happen soon enough. Good luck, Lesile and thanks for submitting a question.

DISCLAIMER: No one representing or affiliated with EFC is a liscenced counsoler, nurse, or doctor. We are simply young women sharing our oppinions,knowledge, and advice with you. All statements should be confirmed by your family doctor or counsoler.

Items In My Blow Job Kit

4 ties. (One for each hand and ankle. They're great for tying someone to a bed.)
A shower puff and a paper towel. (Run them along his body while he's blindfolded and the 2 different textures will drive him crazy)
2 soft scarves. (One for blindfolding and one for running lightly over his body.)
A large plastic spoon. (To run over his body, he won't have any idea what it is, but it feels cold and really awesome.)
An ace bandage. (It's great for bondage. Get his hands close together and wind it around, he will NOT be able to get out.)
A large whip. (For total dominatrix effect)
A small whip. (For a light spanking.)
A belt. (still for whiping. Hey what can I say, I like it. It can also be used for choking)
A warm washcloth and an ice cube. (For combos of hot and cold that will shock him.)
A willing heart, a wet mouth, and a generous tongue! ;)

Check out these links! Don't be afraid!

Sex, etc.
Guide to Sexuality

Email: efc@rock.com