So, your boyfriend or husband sent you... Great! We've recruited some of our best members that way. Do you already reenact another tme period? Super. Then you already know some of the basic ideas about living history. Don't have a clue where to start? Join our chat room or come to an event and we'll help you "kit up" for your first time out. We recommend you research before buying anything. Just because a piece of clothing or uniform item fits doesn't mean that its appropriate for the time period or specific situation. As eager as your significant other may be to purchase items for you to wear, his idea of an Army Nurse outfit may or may not be accurate. If you have any questions, PLEASE PLEASE ask. We work very hard at not only being taken seriously, but also to have the most accurate impression possible. On the subject of men in the hobby, don't expect that an event will turn into a romantic getaway with your sweetie. It might happen, but, depending on the event and his unit's schedule, you may not see much of each other at all. Some events will find you segregated in different barracks, while others are more laid back and allow time for "walking out" with your soldier, dancing and evening socializing. What to expect? A bunch of intellegent, dedicated women who love the hobby and are willing to help out any way they can. Unless you are boring as lint, you'll have some sort of interest that will translate into the hobby. Do you like old movies? Swing dancing? Vintage cars or motorcycles? Sewing? Cooking? Play an instrument or like to sing? You'll be in good company.