re: BBQ continued
still ticked
everyone is long gone (hubby still drinking in the kitchen)
I have tried talking to him and nothing works
I am so sick of this.
we don't sit in the same room
and sleeping in the same bed what a joke
well we sleep in the same bed but never at the same time, he takes a nap early so when I go to bed he is getting up thats at any time day or night,
if I'm sleeping and he is ready for sleep he sleeps on the sofa he claims he doesn't want to wake me
so here I sit alone again but not feeling sorry for myself I don't have time, If I can get this written out maybe I can come to some understanding (I guess)
for myself to myself I don't know

family bbq and drunk husbands
Topic: Ticked
I love seeing family and friends
and the sun!!
But you notice the hubby has had more then his fair share of booze and swaying around like crazy,
(I understand having a few beers on a nice day or on a friday night)
I do that myself
but when hubby is half crocked at 10 am before company comes when they show up hes all funny and joking around and all huggy kissy to me
(this is what gets me the most)

(after they leave or no one is around he won't sit in the same room with me never mind a hug there is nothing)

and then he needs a nap by 1:00 pm
then wonders why everyone is leaving around 4 to go home he just doesn't get that they had been here all afternoon.then hes mad at me because of it

his drinking is really starting to bother me,
I always knew he drank but these days just seem never ending

mothers
at any age can be a pain in the @ss
I'm so ticked at mine it's not funny!
I am starting to plan my daughters 16th B day party.
it's in a 16 months right on top of xmas so I am starting early well,
we (hubby,daughter, mother and I)were talking
about it and my mom pops up oh you need an escort
...ooook, fine and dandy,
but does she mention the boyfriend ....no does she mention her father ...no or any of her 3 brothers...
no once again
she comes up with her cousin.
who recently was asked to be in one of sons wedding
hes says sure fine doesnt show up for tux fitting and then doesnt even show up for the wedding!!!!
no call nothing...
he hangs with a local gang.
my sister has had to send him out of town a few times

so let me think about this hmmmmmm
should I ask him
thats a heck no!
there is no way I will not have to rush around at the last min. to replace him
with someone that should have been asked first!

some how I feel a battle brewing over this
wish me luck

here it goes
Mood:  quizzical
my first blog post. I am so nervous, what do I say
what do I think, Am I crazy?,
do I feel like a nut?....
~great~ now I want a candy bar