A Page Dedicated To Women
Who Have Loss Their Babies To Ectopic Pregnancy And Miscarriage
A little bit more about me...
I am 31 years old.
I am married to a wonderful man.
He is 36 years old.
I have 5 children. One is in Heaven.
My other children are 30 months,4,7, and 9.
My 4,7, and 9 year old are all girls.
My 30 month old is a boy
I am a Stay At Home Mom and A Homeschool Mom.
What Makes A Mother?
I thought of you all, I closed my eyes and prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a Mother and I know I heard him say, A Mother has a baby.
This we know is true.
But God can you be a Mother when your baby's not with you?
'Yes you can!' He replied with confidence in His voice,
'I give many women babies, when they leave is not their choice.'
Some I send for a lifetime and others for a day.
And some I send to feel your womb but there's no need to stay.
I don't understand this, God, I want my baby here.
He took a deep breath and cleared His throat and then I saw a tear.
'I wish I could show you what your child is doing today.
If you could see your child smile with other children and say,
'We go to earth to learn our lessons of love and life and fear.
My mommy loved me oh so much I got to come straight here.
I feel so lucky to have a Mom who had so much love for me.
I learned my lesson very quick.
My mommy set me free.
I miss my mommy oh so much but I visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep on her pillow's where I lay.
I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek and whisper in her ear,
mommy don't be sad today I'm your baby and I'm here.'
So you see my dear sweet one, your children are OK.
Your babies are here in my home and this is where they'll stay.
They'll wait for you with me until your lesson is through.
And on that day that you come home they'll be at the gates for you.
So now you see what makes a mother.
It's the feelings in your heart.
It's the love you have so much of right from the very start.
Though some on earth may not realize that you are a Mother until their time is done, they'll be up here with me one day and know you're the best one.'
written with love for all Mother's missing their baby. -Author Jennifer Wasik
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Dear Mommy and Daddy
I just wanted to let you know,
That I made it home.
The journey wasn’t an easy one,
But it didn’t take too long.
Everything is so pretty here,
So white, so fresh and new.
I wish that you could close your eyes,
And that you could see it too.
Please try not to be sad for me...
Try to understand.
God it taking care of me...
I’m in the shelter of his hands.
Here there is no sadness,
No sorrow and no pain.
Here there is no crying,
No hurt for us again.
Here it is so peaceful,
When all the angels sing.
I really have to go now-
I’ve just got to try my wings!
-Author Unknown
My Mom is a Survivor
My Mom is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mom,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My mom tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mom,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving mom has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal.
-Kaye Des'Ormeaux
In the wrong place at the right time
Hoping, praying for such a long time
for the someday baby who would be mine
Month after month failing the test
trying so hard refusing to rest
But then came a day when the lines became two
at last my dream was about to come true
With my hand on my belly I was touching my baby to be
and looking forward to the day when you I would see
But then came the pain so sharp and so strong
I couldn't believe that things could go wrong
My baby is growing the heartbeat echoes in my heart
but baby was not where baby should start
How could this happen, when for so long I had dreamed
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