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I came across an excellent essay on Punishment and Reward, written by Eric Inman. I'm not going
to re-print his article; instead you can read it here
or here.
Eric suggests the idea of 2 jars - one filled with punishments and the other rewards, all to be written by
the submissive and approved by the dominant. The submissive then selects from the appropriate jar,
as the occasion warrants. I showed the article to Master. He thought it an excellent idea, so
I had to write 10 punishments and 10 rewards to fill the jars. When your ass is on the line,
both literally and figuratively speaking, this isn't as easy as you'd think. And you'd also think
that filling the reward jar would be easier than filling the punishment jar. It wasn't. They
both required a great deal of thought. The following is what we ultimately put
in my jars:

Punishment Jar
- The switch - make me go and bring it to you knowing exactly what's coming. I hate that
thing. Its about an eighth of an inch in thickness, it stings like hell and leaves nasty welts.
- Sit still & quiet in a corner, facing the wall, for a fixed period of time determined by
you dependent on my misbehaviour. No talking or fidgeting or the time period doubles.
- Revoke my internet privileges for a time to be determined by you dependent on my misbehaviour.
If I complain or act up about it, the time will be doubled.
- Make me wear the big butt plug, the one I don't like, together with the rope
chastity belt.
- Public humiliation in the form of me having to tell everyone in one of the groups
we belong to what I've done and asking for their assistance in determining my punishment.
- Time on the pony.
- Pussy whipping with the crop.
- Write an essay on my misbehaviour and how it displeased you. It must include an examination
of my motives, my feelings on both the event and the outcomes.
- Revoke tv privileges for my favourite shows for one week.
- No use of toys for a period of one week.
Reward Jar
- A full body massage.
- Over-the-knee paddling.
- Go to the movies.
- Sweets for dessert.
- Breakfast in bed.
- No housework for a weekend.
- Go out for Sunday dinner instead of having to cook it.
- An extra long bubble bath while someone else does the dishes!
- A new toy (reasonably priced).
- An extra long foot massage.


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