Expectation's

Expectation's is not only for You as my Master, but also myself as Your sub/slave.
Its about who we are as a team, one that leads and the other follows.
It is a very strong part of who i am, as well as who You are.
Things change in a relationship where you find and know there is areas in which
you are weaker and stronger and i feel as my "Total submission" to You that these
expectations will help for me to grow to my fullest potential.
 

I expect you to respect me as a person, and understand that my submission is not
an admission of inability.

 I expect to you explore limits, sexually, emotionally and mentally,
if and when you feel it's appropriate.

 I expect to be reminded of my submission to you when you feel that I need to be
                    reminded. I expect to have the right to remind *you* of it as well,
when I feel as if I'm un-anchored in myself, and feel a need to be reigned back in.

 I expect to bend to your will. I expect to serve you for your pleasure,
which brings me pleasure in return.  I expect that if I should fail to obey you, or please you, that
 you will punish me in ways you see fit.

 I expect you to administer pain in whatever form solely for your pleasure,
should you feel this desire.  However, I expect that you'll draw a clear line between
 punishment and 'play'.   I expect you to understand the level and type of
 pain/control/stimulation I want to feel as discussed between us.

                I expect you to issue orders that will force me to examine and push a limit I may
                    have, which would bring you pleasure for me to submit to. I expect you to accept
                    that I may shudder and tremble, and perhaps even defy.

I expect you to be understanding in some of the subjects we have discussed, that
is was not a no answer, but a needing time to adjust and get connected with my emotions
that goes with it.

                I expect to serve your pleasure in all ways.
I expect you to use whatever tools you see fit, and I expect you to work with me
toward complete and total submission to you.
This is what I desire deep inside, and it's what I feel that I need to feel completely whole.

                    I expect you to set guidelines for me as you see fit. If I should ever break a rule,
or try to top from the bottom, I ask that you don't let me get away with it, unless you
 find it entertaining or amusing.

I expect you to give me assignments that will enchance my growth as your sub/slave, with
the understanding that at times there may be a delay due to circumstances.

                    I expect honest communication, rather it's good, bad or indifferent.
 I expect that this will be a relationship built on more than sex and submission - but also on
                    mutual respect and trust.  I ask that you communicate with me about likes and dislikes, and
some intentions you may have.  I ask that I am allowed to feel the freedom to do the same
with you.

 I expect play time as well as work.  I expect to laugh as well as cry. 

I expect you to grow and change as I do, in your own way.

I expect you to know that as i grow and learn that these expectations may change
as i do.

                    I expect you to understand these expectations, and if you don't understand them,
expect you to discuss them with me. I expect that you will accept what I've said, and
 be honest with me about your feelings about them.
 

These expectations are the ones that i as your sub/slave can think of as now.
 
 
 

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