Typically, something has to trigger our moods, but is it possible to randomly be in any particular mood? Can nothing effect us both possitively AND negatively? When a person is in a mood they don't really want to be in, how do they figure out what might help them get out of that mood?
When people say that love is blind, do they mean that it will go after anybody without regard; or that it has no way of identifying itself? The more I think about what I want in my "dream girl", the more I'm not sure what to look for. Is it really this complicated, or am I just putting too much into it? All I want is to know what I'm looking for. Am I asking for too much with this, though?
What makes a person a hero? Is it when they save a life? When they risk their life for a noble cause? Does it take more than one "factor" to make them a hero?
Why do people talk about certain topics as if they are the "absolute authority" when they have yet to experience it? We freely give our opinions away, but when someone "returns the favor" we get offended or defensive.
I was once told that love knows no bounds. True enough, I've seen inter-racial relationships work, I've see people meet long distance and have it work out, and I've seen people; that were completely different; find common ground and fall in love. None-the-less, I find myself worrying, needlessly, about if I'll find my love. I'm not even ready to support a family. I claim to be a follower of God, but I still end up living my life by the world's standards. Why don't I do what I know I should? Why can't I give my worries to God, who is willing to take them so that I can be blessed in return?
Someone posed the question to some guys recently, "What do you consider to be a man, and do you consider yourself one?" This was my responce:
I view a man as guy that takes initiative, stands up for his beliefs, shows respect to everyone (without regard), knows when to stop and when to keep going, and does all of this with everything that he is. Sometimes I live up to this, sometimes I fail. This is my struggle; and I will not ask a woman to put faith in me until she KNOWS that if she ever can't find work, that I will be able to support her.
Around 12:00 pm I added: Different guys will think differently about what makes a man a man. Same with women's view of what a man should be like. A man should decide for himself what standard he will hold himself to, and a woman should decide on a standard to hold a man to. I have my heroes in life, not all of them are men though. You just can't cut it clear enough about "this is a man and this is a woman" when it comes to attitudes and personalities.
