I am afraid...
I sit and cry...
I don't know what will happen....
Please come hold my hand....
Often, more than not, patients enter the hospital not knowing what the outcome will be. Those that enter the hospital for a surgical procedure, hope the surgery will go fine and that discharge will be around the corner. But there is that fear and uncertainty in the back of one's mind.
The emotional aspects of patient care go unnoticed by many nurses. Is it due to the shortage of nurses? Is there really a shortage? Do nurses have more tasks to do now than 15 years ago? Why are the psychological aspects often ignored?
Families encounter fear and apprehension when a loved one is in the hospital. Again, the fear of the unknown arises and frequently remains at a high level. A kind word, a pat on the back, a touch on the shoulder, to let one know there is support.
The most devastating experience is the sudden emergency that brings one to the hospital. Either themself to be admitted or a loved one. The fear is highest during this period as opposed to routine/schedule treatments/procedures/surgeries.
Watching the nurses and doctors hustle about trying to deliver whatever care and treatment is needed in the emergency situation. One looks on with fear. Is there someone to say, "I am here for you." Where is the helping hand to keep one from falling apart?
Speak out and ask for help. Tell the nursing staff, receptionist, doctor, whoever is there, that support is needed. Being overwhelmed is mentally exhausting, as well as physically endangering. It is okay to ask for support and to have someone during this emergency