Daddy Playing the Mandolin,  He played the Violin, and Harmonica and what they used to call the juiceharp.  He also had a beautiful Singing voice and I loved to hear him sing some of the old songs like "Little Sailor Boy", and "Come All You Young Companions"  I have a tape of Andy Griffith singing and when I first heard this tape it reminded me so much of daddy that I cried.  The voices are so similar.  It seems that there are always some things that have a way of locking themselves into our memories and remembering them always makes us feel meloncholy and sometimes sad.  Such are some of the memories that I have recorded in the following poem that I wrote for my dad almost 20 years ago.  He was an avid lover of baseball, fishing, and although he liked to hunt he didn't like to kill any animal.  This has a way of restricting your hunting.  I am so like him in this way.  I love to hunt with a camera and although I feel it is hypocritical to eat meat and still maintain that it is wrong to kill an animal, I do enjoy a good steak, chicken, or fish along with most people.  I just do not have it in me to kill anything.  I will leave this to those that can.  My dad was raised on a farm and loved horses so much.  He had some that he talked about until the day he died.  He was the most honest person I have ever known and had the strength and integrity to stand for what he believed to be true.  I did not always agree with him in theory or ideas but I always respected his honesty and straight-forwardness.  I do not ever remember my dad ever using  a swear word.  If he ever did it was not in my presences.  I do not ever remember him doing or saying anything that would hurt another person.  I think his greatest love next to his church, wife and family was his great love for music of all kinds though he was always more inclined to play western.  When I think of him I think of "That Silver Haired Daddy of Mine"  A song that I have heard him play many times and my Mom sing many times.  "Rocking Alone In An Old Rocking Chair" was another of their favorites.  He was a very loyal husband and caring father.  When I was very young I always thought of him as being very strict, and I guess he was.  But through this I learned self discipline and responsibility.  I will always be greatful for this.  He was not always right, which ones of us are, but he always did what he thought to be right and good for us.  My Father in Heaven must have loved me very much to have given me such warm and loving parents.  

TRIBUTE TO DADDY

Dear old friend the time has come for me to say things closest to my heart

To tell you how I feel today, but where do I start?

I guess at the beginning in the long years gone by,

when I was just a toddler and you a tall giant of a guy.

there are so many memories of you, Dad, as I was growing up

So many tender moments, to fill my life with love and hope.

I always felt you needed someone to share your love for sports,

so I tried to be your tomboy, and I guess right from the start

you sensed that I was trying cause you took me to the games

to watch the great ball players in the old ball stadiums.

If I tried to tell of all the ways you've influenced my life

I would take a book thick enough to make a pillar to the sky.

I remember when I was sick in bed, I waited for you to come home.

You always brought me fountain coke, but dad it was you, and you alone,

that gave me the needed medicine, that always made me well.

The comfort from strong working hands, and I could always tell

your love was there beside me, I could see it in your eyes,

and I know you've never known these things and you never realized

how your firm and constant discipline gave comfort when it was needed

to a growing girl, sometimes confused, but your words I always heeded.

I think often of the Sundays and Holidays that have come and gone

I can hear you playing music on the violin and us singing along

My love for music grew and grew as you encouraged us to play

and sing the songs which we all loved and enjoyed along life's way.

I'll bet you don't know how your love of the little ones of this earth

the animals and such, has given me an appreciation of their worth

I can think of all those stories of your life on the farm

and the love for your livestock shown through kind, gentle, and warm.

Your honesty was displayed in each word and every deed

and I can't think of a time when your life was ruled by greed.

You might look back and wonder what things you've done in life,

and ponder what you've left behind in this world of toil and strife.

but I can tell you Daddy and good and faithful friend,

that your strength and strong convictions will never, never end.

For the generations yet to come will still know the good you've left behind.

And all the things I've learned from you will be passed on down the line.

Your love of God and constant faith has never ever wavered

Your trust in his goodness, and belief in our Savior

has pulled me back into his arms so many many times.

as you've reached down into the depths of all the dirt and grime

and pulled me up to stand beside you and brushed away the cares

and made me face the love of truth and be very much aware

that you'd fight for this family or crawl each step of the way

that we might be together on the great  and final judgment day.

Now maybe this might tell you and and help you understand

why in the beginning I called you  old and trusted friend.

I know God has prepared a place for spirits like your's dear dad

a place of peace and happiness and no one is ever sad

And I can only promise if it's possible for me

I'll be right there beside you and mom throughout eternity.

By Shirley Winters

"Daddy left behind a legacy of truth and integrity for which he stood for each day of his life.  He loved his family and served them daily.  He was always there for us

to encourage us and share with us a love for music.  Thank you Daddy, I know you can read this and understand as you look down on us from your home above."

" We love you Daddy."