What goes on when they go to their father's? I hear stories, and I feel pain when they return only to say they don't want to go again.
What is wrong with that man? Is he sick? Why would you put your children in dangerous and unhealthy situations? Why would he put them in the middle of a fight between his girlfriend (which is married, by the way), her husband and him? A fist fight, broken noses, Domestic abuse towards woman and a gun being pulled?
I went to the police today and filed a report on him. They won't do anything but make the report, because it's my perception of what happened and I didn't see it personally. They did talk to the children, however, and got their side of the story. I was told to hire a lawyer, because this is a civil matter.
The safety and well-being of my children are on the line, fear in their eyes, nightmares in their heads, with me biting back and holding in my anger towards him, so that I may calmly go about this. The point is, I live paycheck to paycheck, supporting 2 girls with little or NO child support to help. Saving up money for this is going to be hell, but Those are my babies and they are what I live for each day.