Hi Left Out,

Well first off your not alone and i do care :.) Telling your family is going to be hard hon. I will not lie. It is best that you tell them what you feel comfortable with first. Then build from there give them time to adjust.

You may lose family and freinds or they may accept you, thats what is hard about comming out. I do not think its something that you have to do or even should do unless yoour 100% sure its right for you. As far as your attraction goes you may be bi sexual most "gay" people are. You habve to experament and find out what makes you happy hon and go from there.

I would also check your yellow or white pages for support groups and other helpful organizations for support in this troubleing and scarry time. I know from experiance and wish I had done that. Its scarry to think and feel your all alone and these groups can help.

I also would like to say that this idea of comming out or else is a real problem in our comunity. No one has a right to say who is and who is not TS TV or CD its just wrong. People come to terms in thier own way and at thier own pace. Its wrong to shun a closet TV or TS. They need our love support and understanding.

I know it took me along time to come to terms with who and what I am. I could never have done it witj people forceing me to chose or telling me what I am, I needed support and love and thats how I finally came out.

So lets all love and respect each other and show some support instead of hurting each other :)

MollY

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