YoU kNoW ..... yOu StOp AnD wOnDeR
A friend mentioned something to me that made me think. He said that a girl always remembers the bad thing that her boyfriend/ex did. But what they dont like to reflex on are the good things that they did.
Ok, for instance, he became a jerk and you broke-up with him. Fine. I would have to. But listen to this part... That same day or the next day all your friends are like "OH MY GOD WHAT HAPPEN...WHAT HE DO!?" and odviously most girls would be like "He's a jerk he did Blah Blah Blah (whatever he did) and Blah Blah Blah (and some more)."
From that day on you repeat the story a million and two times till the world and their mother's know. Then everyone refers to the guy as a jerk and he's the one that ends up looking bad for something any human being would have probably done. Fine. Depending what he did. But here's the thing...
Notice how you didnt mention any good things that he did. Didn't mention how he held you in his arms in public showing that he's honored to have you as his girlfriend. Those late night calls just to tell you good night. When he gives you a kiss when your feeling down. Maybe even a present that he gave you of something that you always wanted. When he goes to your house, meets your parents.
Those and so many more little things you never really appreciate. Think about it. But i bet your saing...."But he is a JERK!!!" Ok Ok Ok. He's a jerk for something that he did. Get over it and go on. But dont go on saing he's a jerk cause it was only that one time. If he was a jerk from the start why did you go out with him in the first place. Cause that would only make you the guilty one. Not him. You are the one that should have known better.
It's funny how you think you know everything after like one or two heart breaks, but in reallity you never really know it all. In every relationship your always going to go through something you never went throught and your just going to learn from that for next time. Its all a text book with countless pages of problems and solutions to learn and remember incase you encounter that same problem again.
Just remember that this is just my opinion. Think for yourself but think smart. Here's a quote that my science teacher said this year and i thought it made a lot of sence...
"If you have a problem solve it. But if there is no solution, there is no problem problem."