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Healing is at hand-- with Truthfulness as the "Must- have" Foundation --

for Heart, Mind & Body




  • First, the Heart must Awaken to itself... to find the truth of Who it is, and Who it is destined to be....


  • ..Only then will the heart

    Awaken to Mind, that which surrounds and encompasses it



  • ... The Heart will then Awaken and begin at last to care rightly for its chalice, the vessel of the body, which carries it through its mortal life...



      • All these Awakenings must be nurtured, for this is the very Foundation of our lives on this Earth....


      In all this the very truth must be sought, regardless of what attachments have been formed-- personal tastes, ideals, opinions or prejudices...

      Much of the richness and purpose in life can be found in this personal exploration, growth and integration-- without these, even the fullest life will be unsatisfying.



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      Lollipop Mom says:

      May you awaken to your true Lollipop, your inner heart and healing, for yourself
      and for our world. Together we can do what we could never do alone.

      -- Lucky Lolli & Lollipop Mom





You can ... Own all that you are... Tapping the Great Powers that Lie Within...





What is an “Adult Child” or a "Feelings’ Child" of unmet needs or dysfunction ?

Are you an “Adult Child” -- someone who carries unresolved issues from childhood? Psychologists recognize that just about
everyone does, though most are only dimly aware of it. For many, this creates challenges that can affect all of life.


… "Test Yourself":


Have you been challenged with your own compulsive or perfectionistic behavior?

Do you fear criticism & fail to recognize your achievements ?
Do you feel more alive in the midst of crisis, but feel uneasy or unsure when life is going well?
Do have trouble communicating and often choose to isolate yourself from others? Or cling to relationships for fear of being alone?
Do you have trouble with intimacy? Have you confused pity with love?
Do you overextend yourself, caring for others easily while ignoring many of your own needs?
Do you find it hard to identify and express your emotions? Do you find yourself mistrusting your own feelings & those expressed by others?
Are you fearful of authority figures and/or angry people? Do you guess at what "normal" is & sometimes feel like a child living in a world of grown-ups?
Are you super-responsible or irresponsible, super- controlled or over- impulsive, OR switch between these extremes?

If you see yourself here, take Heart!
Recognition is the first Courageous step-- There is a Solution!

To learn more go to: AdultChildren.org Nationwide groups, great literature & fellowship

Personal Coach at: TruthfulHeart Healing
"Name it, Claim it, Heal It" -- Challenges, Gifts & healing for "Adult Children" -- and all of us !

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Reclaim precious, healing Connection with True Self....




Many childhood issues are actually traumatic for a sensitive young heart.
Fear or threats of abandonment, “put – downs” and the like, for example
if not healed, are likely to create tests or be re-visited in later life. Unrecovered
“adult- child” issues are a great cause of man’s inhumanity and human suffering.

Hurt, fear, shame, abandonment, unmet needs and abuse can tap into all our faculties.
If not counterbalanced or cleared through the range of human sensibilities,
including remembering, thinking, feeling & the ways of Spirit, healing is incomplete
and effects can emerge years later. With support, these areas can be re-visited and
re- tapped in healthy ways to obtain freedom in a true and lasting healing.


If our inner work bypasses the feeling aspect, we may remain stunted and
once again find ourselves once revisiting unhealthy past scenarios.





Lollipop Mom, Lollipop Girl & Boy all Know

that there is no "quicker fix" or spiritual "bypass"-- and that’s OK !

There are lessons in all of this, and the sooner we connect to the truth of it,
the sooner we recover!

We must-- and we can-- feel it to heal it! We've already lived it-- what could be worse ?

Support gives us the courage and ability to withstand and heal in all that life gives us.




Lollipop Mom says:

If you are a “Feelings’ Child” – a survivor of unmet needs--
then you can know that you are strong, as I am…
We've lived through the depths and can tell and talk about it-- and that helps others too,
with hard & difficult feelings. We can heal ourselves & Our World

with Truth as our only sure Foundation for Body, Mind & Spirit--
When the Foundation is Strong, the Heart will Bloom Forth...


helpful Links above & at: AdultChildren.org Nationwide groups, great literature & fellowship

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* ACA’s, ACoA’s The label "Adult Children" was first applied to those from homes of alcoholism or addiction ,
thus ACA, AcoA, etc. ("Adult Children" of Alcoholics) monikers came into being.

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