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"Truthfulness is the foundation of every human virtue."*-- Baha'u'llah
"If I am not I, Who will be? "
---"Henry David Thoureau
"I tried to run... Oh, how I tried! When finally had to stop-- stop telling myself all I needed to tell myself, to go on living this framented life... Soon, a great gulf opened and all went dark... but in that place there was a narrow strip of land, and on that land I made my home...
....And as time went on, it grew, and flourished, and swallowed up all that had been before...
I was made Whole..."
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Discover TruthfulHeart Healing's Proven path ...
PRIORITIZE... See the" big picture" of your life and focus on what really matters.
RECONNECT ... tap the inner power of your own spirit, valuing and nurturing the truth of YOU-- the good and the tough as well...
LEARN ...Healthy ways to deal with difficult people (even yourself!) and situations.
HONOR... your needs and successes, including your "problems" for the challenges and gifts they bring.
DIRECT...your own powerful self-development, in rhythm with your own uniquely positive results in whatever area you choose.
RECEIVE... Wholeness, Wellness & a Life in Balance
....Heart's comfort:& the rewards of knowing you are on your most "Truthful path"; a life well begun and systematically supported for ongoing success.
Some Qualities of “Adult -Children”
Test Yourself:
1. Have you been challenged with your own compulsive, perfectionistic or addictive behavior?
2. Do you have a problem in making plans or decisions and/or following through on them?
3. Do you seek approval & affirmation from others, but it never seems to be enough?
Do you fear criticism & fail to recognise your achievements ?
4. Are you uncomfortable when life is going well, looking for the next crash or struggle? Do you feel more alive in the midst of crisis?
5. Do you overextend yourself, feeling responsible for others, caring for them easily while ignoring many of your own needs?
Are you super-responible or irresponsible, super- controlled or over- impulsive, OR switch between extremes?
6. Do have trouble communicating and often chose to isolate yourself from others?
7. Do you cling to relationships for fear of being alone?
8. Do you have trouble with intimacy, possibly attracting or seeking people who tend to be abusive or compulsive?
Have you confused pity with love?
9. Do you find it hard to identify and express your emotions? Do you find yourself mistrusting your own feelings & those expressed by others?
10. Do you have issues or fears of authority and/or angry people? (May include religion, the "god idea", etc).
11. Do you guess at what "normal" is & sometimes feel like a kid in a world of grown -ups?
12. Do you often feel that individuals and society in general are taking advantage of you?
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of "adult children" from a distressed or dysfunctional family of origin, characterized by
poor parenting or emotional skills or are over-controlling, possibly abusive
or addictive, even if they do not engage in overtly addictive or compulsive behavior.
If you were part of a childhood home of distress or dysfunction, then you were affected:
understanding its dynamics can give you a new handle and a new freedom from the behaviors that once entrapped you.
Welcome -- to a voyage of self- discovery that will take you into
your own truthful authentic heart -- the only place we can ever actually feel safe--
a healing that makes a difference in all areas of life.
Recogniton is the first step in changing...
To move into a sweeter, closer walk with your innermost being and peace of heart, call for a free introductory consultation.
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Lucky Joy Wells
Consultations available by phone 808-346– 2460. I will get back to you free of charge.
Your contact & other information are always kept confidential.
. Lucky Joy Wells
Email truthfulheart@truthfulheart.com
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