Ahhh yes.... This relationship from emotional manipulation land.....this one went way to fast. He was a sweet guy, my senior by 4 years so naturaly he had kids, wife, house on the brain. And well, needless to say I have : Money, school, job on mine.
It was the perfect love story at first, boy meets girl, love is in the air....and it got, well, tiring. I mean, having a guy worship the ground you walk on IS nice, but, after a while, you want someone with a goddamned backbone. So, I tried plling away slowly in March.......
Then he started the "you dont talk to me" "you dont know how much pain I have been through" or "God, if you leave me I will never love anyone again.. I'll be ruined for life...." and so on, and so on, so I stayed. I didnt want to do that.
It finally came to an end in May, when, I finally got the nevre to say "TJ, you need to get over yourself, and you need to learn to love yourself, and be happy by yourself. Stop measuring your self worth if someone loves you" And that was it.
Needless to say, we are still friends, but I warn every girl about this jerk.....he is manipulative and will use you for everything you got...