Finding out your partner is Bisexual doesn't mean it's the end! Ask yourself...
Hi! This page was created because my partner recently came out to me as Bi and I have been hard pressed to find any POSITIVE information or support for ME! There are lots of websites for him to check out and explore what being a Bisexual means, but not a lot for the straight girlfriends/wives of bisexual males, at least not a lot that I enjoy reading. Most of the sites are support groups for women whose partners came out as Bi and told them that they had been seeing men on the side, that they now wanted an "open relationship" (permission to see other people at the same time), or who didn't feel like they could stay in the relationship because they needed to explore their newly realized sexuality. My boyfriend and I are very serious, have been dating for years, and I don't wany ANY of these things. They are just not for me. I can't imagine him cheating on me (or vice versa)as we both feel that is not part of a healthy relationship and shows a lack of respect for your partner. I am also not up for an open relationship. I am 100% commited and would not want to be seeing other people, and he assures me he does not either. I would also be heart broken if he ended our relationship and I would not end it because he is bisexual as I love him no matter what. I love every single thing about him, sexuality included. Anyways, that's basically our story. He recently realized/admitted to himself that he is bi, told me a day or two after he was sure, and we have decided to work through the implications on our relationship together, openly. We both love eachother, we both want to be together, and we both feel satisfied by our relationship. I just get so frusterated when I cannot find a SINGLE success story on the web about a couple where one partner realized they were bi and then they stayed together, didn't cheat on eachother, and didn't feel the need for an open relationship. So I am creating this website in an effort to encourage the sharing of these postive outcomes/success stories and hopfully to provide encouragement for couples who are trying to get through this same thing. I believe we are going to make it!
*While I would like to provide a forum for people to share their positive stories, I realize that not all relationships have happy endings and if you would like to share your story (positive outcome or not) please feel free to do so.
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Websites:
Bi resources
Bi org
Some terms, definitions, and Q&A
Bi net
SHARE YOUR STORIES HERE! BLOG!
Article on Bisexual Monogamy! Highly recommended reading!
