~Love~

~Love is often described as a "always wanting to be together" feeling~
~In Part,this is somewhat true, but not total~
~I do not propose to tell you what Love is~
~Love most certainly is caring~
~for the well-being, safety, security, development~
~and whole being of our Love object~
~as much as we care for ourselves~
~and sometimes even more~

~If we place our own needs~
~above the needs of the one we are supposed to love~
~I think very possibly that you're not in Love~
~but in lust~
~Very likely or even perhaps~
~you are in like of the person~

~Love is not demanding
~it is not controling~
~it is not abusive~
~it is not what they do to us or give us~

~It IS many things~
~It is sharing~
~it is supportive~
~it is respect~
~it is honor~
~it is loyalty~
~it is completely all encompassing~
~and it is euphoric~

~Love is not only desire~
~it is admiration~
~it is breathtaking~
~it is a relationship that is nurturing to both or all involved~

~Love is inspirational to all these~
~it is emotional~
~it is in some manner spiritual~
~for this is the very core of life~

~We give birth because of Love~
~we were given heaven because of Love~
~We are saved because of Love~
~Love is the most valuable thing created by God~
~Love is the only thing that you take with you~
~when your body dies~
~Love goes with you into heaven~

~Love must always be nurtured~
~must be taken care of~
~must be fed~
~must be appreciated~admired~pampered~cuddled~
~and Love must be given freely without a price~
~It must also be accepted freely~

~Love does not demand~
~is not envious~
~and does not insist unless it is a moral issue~
~Love is gentle~
~Love is kind~
~Love is given and received~
~Love is patient and tries to understand~
~even when it does not~


~" WE ARE ALL HALF PART OF A BLESSED MAN OR WOMAN~
~WAITING TO BE FINISHED~
~BY SUCH A HE OR SHE~
~AND HE OR SHE~
~THE FAIR DIVIDED EXCELLENCE WAITING TO BE FINISHED~
~BY THE SUCH A SHE OR HE"~


~We need each other~
~and the all together~
~and the all they are~
~to be total PEACE and LOVE~

~Remember in a fight of wills~
~any fight~
~no wins who fights~
~The only way to win~
~is to Love~

~When in doubt what to do about him or her~
~Love~~Love~~Love~
~That alone is the key to all~
~even in ourselves and our total peace~
~in all we are and will be~

~Love is not lust~
~Love is Love~
~Lust may come into this also~
~Love is also like~
~in the person whom you have selected~
~Are you in like of the person you are with~
~It is possible to love someone and not like them~
~but most of the time~
~it is lust not Love~
~it is a self serving Love at best~
~and always destructive for both~

~You must and need to like them for who they are~
~not what you think they could be~
~It is the point of being rather than becoming~

~Do you really like them, for themselves~

~If you Love them~
~you know that they are Love~
~you are Love~
~you are stronger together than you are apart~
~That Love is eternal~
~and lights up the whole world with its warmth and beauty~

~YOU CAN MAKE THE RELATIONSHIP~
~A HEAVEN ON EARTH OR A REAL LIVING HELL~
~THE DECSIONS ARE IN BOTH OF YOUR HANDS~
~Which do you choose~

~LOVE~LOVE~LOVE~




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