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Drunk, mean and easy


The below links are going to take you to stories that are (taking into the gravity of the situation)short and to the point. They are told to give you a brief glimpse into what kind of person we are talking about. Do not think for one second that these are the only stories under each heading as they most certainly are not. There are many more. They are true to the best of my memory, If after reading this you know who I am talking about, here is some great advise. What ever you do do not let her into your home or near your family or friends, she can and will drive a wedge between you and everyone you love and leave you in debt
What is the saying now? "F@#* me once shame on you, f@#* me twice shame on me. Well shame shame shame and many many more shames on me, what can I say? I made a really bad choice and now I am paying for it.

Issues I will touch on.

I thought I would start off with a positive, Why the hell not.

The things I like.



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  • Sex. She has this great way of getting off
  • you could guarantee that you would be in bed asleep by midnight, as she would be easily passed out by then.
  • The fact that she left.

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Favorite places to do as little as possible, then get fired for being a drunk.



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  • Sales Director OK, she didn't get fired from here but it was coming. The only reason is her boss felt the need to save her and had done for the last 10-11 years or so. Congratulations to him for finally seeing the light. Feels good doesn't it Greg when you stop banging you head against that brick wall.

  • Producer A pumped up telemarketer as the ticket here. After a voice mail from NZ saying that a family member was in jail for murder she felt the need never to go back. The voice mail was deleted, hmmmm. The message was passed on through slurred words, hmmm again.

  • Office manager and sales chick. This was a wonderful little number. She was a pimp. She had to hard sell dating services. Seeing as Tanya had been a professional dater in the past I was sure this was something that she would succeed with out problem. Up jumped that family problem thing again. By the way, this person is not a problem. The problem is with her, it's a run away kind of world "ya" know.

  • Sales person She was supposed to be in the area she could thrive in. Using all her old contacts and methods of gaining business This one was done is rare style. The offer of staying at the bosses house when the boss was away on business. She didn't show for work. 200 on boose went that belonged to the boss. 100 dollars on international calls and 300 on a broken phone. Then found passed out by another boss and a friend covered in her own vomit and other stains that were on the couch she was lying on. From this point on she vanished into thin air. Classic, one for the books without a doubt. I defy anyone to call and say "I am thinking of hiring Tanya for a position at my company, could you give me a reference please" and see what they say.The contact numbers and emails to the people there are in the contacts of the web site.

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New York.



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This is a huge point of contention. She basically goes away on business with Greg (the boss) and he books one room at the hotel. She does nothing about it and then calls me and said that something has happened that I would not be happy with. At this point she refuses to tell me what it is. She then said not to call her again and hung up. I have nearly 50 pages of notes on what went on during that 6-day period she was away and beyond that. When I find the disk it is on I will load it all on. This really is the tip of the iceberg. Until then I will leave you all to think how you would feel when your wife is sharing a room with her boss who also happens to be the ex boyfriend and is not even hiding it. She denied that she knew about the rooming situation and she only found out when she got there. The fact of the matter is that I called her when she was still in the airport about it. She afterwards told me that her and Greg laughed about it. I also found out they did share a bed for a period of time. Cold people. I do not wish to generalize however Greg and his traveling companion are not the best ambassadors for their home country at all.

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Greg and the special relationship.



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She hid me away from this little relationship. She would tell me that Greg was insanely jealous and that he had several times recently asked her to marry him. She said that she did not want me to go into he office where they worked as it would cause Greg too much pain and she didn’t want to hurt him that way. She even refused to tell anyone we were married. The only reason people found out we were married was because someone did find out and let it slip in front of everyone else. One weekend my very special wife and I were going to one of her work colleague’s house. I was only invited as Greg said he was not going as he had too much work. My daughter was there and so we were taking her along. At the last minute Greg decided that he was going to go and was very upset when he found I was going, he then changed his mind and decided he did not want to be around me and stayed away. Little miss special then turned to me and said the only reason I am going and not Greg was because she didn’t want to let down my daughter. However if she had not promised my daughter a party then she would drop me for Greg in a heartbeat. She told me time and time again that I would never measure up to Greg. She would come home and tell me that he was in a great mood and gave her many hugs during the course of the day. One week after New York she told me she was going out with Greg to build her bridges as she had upset him. There is so much more but these free web sites have limits.

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The Londoner.



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She spent so much time here. This is a place where she is no longer allowed in. Most people are asked to leave or not allowed in a place because they caused trouble but to not be allowed in a place because you make men fight over you? It seems as though this was enjoyed. She did seem to enjoy the prospect of having many men in her life. She has by her own admittance never been faithful to anyone. This is justified by saying that she has only taken on other people towards the end of the relationship. As far as I am concerned if you are seeing two people then you are seeing two people. The Londoner was a place to set up herself with beer smokes and as many free rides as possible. This was done in fine form. Even Greg once went down there to try and make her leave and was accosted by many of her drunk, male friends. Of course she stayed. It still took him several months to throw her out. After speaking to the wait staff there I was told of the many states of mind she had, one. It consisted of get me drunk and I will make you think you can have me by hanging all over you then taking everything you have worked hard for. Special? Special indeed.

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What she said to my Mother.



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Can you believe that one day I was on my way to work and my mother called. I know that my ever so grateful wife was drunk; the reason I knew is because she was awake. Check out what she said to my Mother “I do not know why your son has such a problem with you?” First of all my Mother and I are best of friends and I do not have a problem with her. This took time to build and we realize we have our own issues, which we have worked through to have a very stable and loving relationship. This something, that the drunk one does not have with her Mother, and without a doubt her Father. She did this to try and drive a wedge between my Mother and I. I can only imagine why she would do this. Perhaps because the relationship with her parents was none existent or for the very simple reason she tried to do it with all my family and friends, which is so I would not have any outside influence regarding how she treated me. This way she could continue her behavior without interruption and drink to her hearts content. What kind of person would intentionally try to break a family up for their own gain? Has anyone seen the film “The Last Seduction” With Linda Fiorenttino? This movie could be written for her. Her actions here showed she is without heart or feeling for her fellow person kind.

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Behavior in front of my daughter.



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She did not care that there was a 3-4 year old around. She would drink regardless. If she wanted the booze then the booze she would get. I look back now and wonder if she was drunk or sneaking drinks when I was at the store and they were alone, it makes my skin crawl to think about it. In my opinion she should never be left alone in charge of herself never mind an infant. God knows she did not do her son right, why should I think she would do the right think for my child.

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Play time at the pool.



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She would hang off men constantly. She would not go into work for the sole purpose of hanging around the pool to have fun. Once she was leaning on one guy pushing her chest (what there is of it) into the back of one man, stroking his leg and with her other hand rubbing the tattoo of another guy sitting by her side. When I left she turned to the people there and said “watch this, I bet I can make him come down” Bitch. · She once Called me as I was on the way home, I did not answer, as I was busy getting my daughter out of the car in the parking lot. As I turned the corner in the pool there was Tanya on some guys back in the pool. She basically called me to see where I was so she could estimate how much more fun she could have before I got home. She climbed off the guys back and he made a joke about it, obviously a little afraid, as they both knew this was breaking the boundaries of any relationship. She came towards me and said hello looking very caught. I turned around and walked away. I went to the apartment with my daughter and she came up stairs and got in bed. She ignored me and my daughter. When I said I was taking my daughter for something to eat she said “if you leave this apartment I will lock you and you f@#$*&g daughter out.” At this point I took my Daughter back to her mothers. This was no place for a little girl.

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Drinking with a pedophile.



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On one occasion I was at work (as I was every day with two jobs) and little miss “I can’t control her actions” was doing her usual search for alcohol. There was an older man at an apartment near by. In not only my opinion but also the opinion of everyone else in the complex this person has some issues not only with sex but with alcohol also. He would ogle young girls often and I personally heard him say, “I would f@#k her senseless and I do not care about her color” about a young African American girl, she was 13 years old if she was a day. I pointed this out to him but he did not care. Well my wonderful lady (and the term is used in a very slack manner) saw him by the pool and asked him to go and get her alcohol, and pay for it. He did and not only did she take it but she went to his apartment to drink it. This person does not do anything for free, especially when it comes to females. I obviously do not know any details of what happened in the apartment but can anyone think of any way an addict or alcoholic pays for their fix from a male buyer when no money can be put forward? I can and it wouldn’t be the first time something more than a thank you have been given up for a gift, never mind a gift that is being craved. As was admitted to me after the fact, there was nothing she would not have done for a drink.

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Bumming lifts off strangers.



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This is one of the single most stupid things anyone could do. We teach our children that they should never get in the car with a stranger, not for any reason, ever. How on earth am I supposed, to teach this to my daughter when this person is doing it? She called me from this place asking me to go and pick her up. I went in there and she was playing pool with this guy. She introduced me and then I got on with this guy rather well. As it turns out this was the person that she picked up at a gas station to take her to the bar. The only reason she told me was because she thought I might find out as I got on well with this guy. I then wondered why did he make such an effort to get to know me? What had she done to make this guy be so friendly? This was not the only time she just jumped into people’s cars. She did it to go and buy alcohol or go to the bar. Either way she is irresponsible to an extreme. I am so glad that she is not going to be any kind of role model for my daughter. The part about this that is not taken into consideration by this person is that she does not think that other people may worry about her. She does not care how anyone feels as long as she is doing what she wants then she is happy. Greg once told me that she called him late at night drunk on her cell phone asking for help as she was being attacked, she then hung up. She was not being attacked at all. What she was doing was intentionally causing worry as a form of manipulation. Manipulation is something that shall be touched on soon.

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Emotional manipulation.



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Here we are. This is used to control every one she comes into contact with to get her way. She doesn’t ask or put forward a decent request, she tells lies and makes the person feel inadequate. Every one has their faults, their insecurities, and their buttons if you will. This individual will flick around her blonde hair and show off the legs and men do fall. To use her words, she is not pig ugly. As time went on she even told me the things she did to people. I am not going to mention any names but lets just do a list of the what she has told me about her ex’s and then imagine how you would like to have a similar issue and then have someone tear you down because of it. One person wore glasses and needed them whereever they went, so she used to hide them from him and laugh at him when he was panicking trying to find them. Another had trouble getting an erection so she made fun of him for that. She also said to me that this person never had a problem when he was with her. She also said that they only ever slept together twice as well. Can you spell contradiction? One young man apparently had a small penis. This poor guy was ridiculed relentlessly, so she said. Me, I have a fear of being alone, it is all to do with relationships and how I have seen them fail all around me and with the ones I have had. She took this and constantly hung it over my head. She would compare me emotionally to other men in her life.
Other areas included telling me all about the group sex she had taken part in. She made a comment about two guys. I was shocked as heck. She said “Oh yes, all that attention” and squirmed in her chair as though she was imagining being there at that moment. She implied that this had happened many times in her life. I think there are two comments that stick out in my head more than any, they are “If you can’t f@#* your friends who, can you f@#*?” and “If I was born back in the Victorian times then I would have been a prostitute." Come on people, what kind of person admits that there is every chance they should of been a prostitute? ? ? ? I really do not think the second thing needs commenting on at all, I am sure it is very self-explanatory as to not only the opinion others may have but the opinion she has of herself. Now the first I would like to say something about. You do not have sex with your friends. If you do then they are not your friends. You cannot have an emotional plutonic friendship or relationship with someone you are having casual sex with. This is why this individual does not have that many real friends. I am sure there are many male people in her life that will let her think that but look at this. What does she do to get a friendship? What does she put out there? I would say that there is a little self-esteem issue here, wouldn’t you say. This was justified by saying “this is the culture in New Zealand.” I Think not.
Well, let me tell you all a little something. All her teeth at the front are false. The reason for this is that there used to be a gap right between her front teeth you could park a double decker bus in. Check out the picture section for it. Also, a tooth on the upper left hand side on occasion falls out and one either very drunk or very hung over morning I saw it. She looked just like the small town pig farmer she was brought up to be. Panic, wow! She lost her mind until 'I' found it. Did I hide it for one second? No I did not because unlike her I take no pleasure in others suffering in that manner. No two ways about it, her teeth are rotten and it makes her breath smell.
Boy if I knew then what I know now, things would be very different for me. What confuses me more than anything is if she had all the money she says she used to have, why on earth does she still have those small flappy breasts?

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Caring for a cancer victim.



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The admitted homosexual affair 3 weeks after being married.



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Nexis rehabilitation center and an attempt at sobriety.



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Six weeks after Nexis and that social drink.



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The 3 warrants out for her in Texas.



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Lies in general.



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Truths that were told recently.



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Missing in action in NZ.



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Pictures of abuse.



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I cannot wait to finish this page. I am going to have a blast with it. Just wait for the pictures. Stay Tuned

Please note that everything that has been said on the above page is my opinion. For those who would like to do the research you will find it is all true. If you would like to drop me a line you are more than welcome