MEANS OF SKILL-DEVELOPMENT FOR HAPPY-MARRIAGE
Requisites
1) Understanding the other partner's personal values of life and personal sexual values, and their natural complementary differences in attitudes, approaches, priorities and physiology.
2) open, frank and free communication between the couple without hesitation.
3) any discussion, within marital relationship, should be, with empathy, without leading to argument, for common interest; however, argument is allowed, outside their marital relationship, that too, for knowledge purpose.
4) flexibility, adjustability and adaptability for mutuality or common interest.
5) Not allowing one's egoism and selfishness to poke in their marriage.
6) Maintaining maximum possessive intimacy between the couple.
7) Allowing and respecting each other's freedom without affecting their marital values and duties.
Application
8) On analyzing every attribute of the both:
(a) both having positive nature of the attribute, it should be given prominence in their joint approach;
(b) one with negative nature and another with positive nature of the attribute, the two should be fused to nullify the effect.
(c) both having negative nature of the attribute, either it should be rectified, or to be made inactive.
9) Satisfying the other in his/her personal values.
10) Satiating the other in his/her personal sexual values, accepting the other's freedom and initiative, without any sort of inhibition, but however within health norms and social values outside their privacy.
11) Contributing each's best to their marriage so as to benefit each to the maximum, in all respects, in wealth, health, care and personality.
12) Keeping-up social values in family perspective.
13) Familistic duties with responsibility and accountability.
14) Sincere role-play in accordance with socio-personal values of the partner/family.
15) With mutual understanding, bringing-up children with moral, sentimental, educational and cultural values.
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