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Youth
Ministry: A Second Look
For a
while now, I have intended to write a short exposition on
the modern idea that many of our assemblies have adopted.
This idea is one that has become exponentially popular in
the brotherhood of believers -especially in the recent history
of our fellowship. The idea? Youth ministry! Of course, there
have been thousands upon thousands of writings produced about
this topic, some talking about the effectiveness of this ministry,
(and perhaps how to improve on it), some talking about the
good in the idea of having a youth ministry for every congregation
of saints, and some talking about the blessings of having
a ministry devoted entirely to the youth of today's increasingly
problematic western society.
Never
before have things like peer pressure been such a decisive
factor in the seduction of our young brothers and sisters
into ways and actions that do not give glory to the God we
serve. Never before have so many youth felt so great a pressure
to have sex before marriage, to experiment with smoking, alcohol
and even the life damaging drugs used by worldly youth around
them. The world seems to be invading our youth, invading the
future of our Lord's assembly of believers, and many
of us feel that youth ministry is about the most effective
means by which to minister to them. Even before that, many
of us feel that youth ministry is the only way to reach
them.
This is
all good and well, but let's not forget that all innovative
ideas, especially those introduced into a fellowship such
as ours that stresses restoration over innovation, need to
be second-guessed, constantly reviewed, and constantly compared
to the word of God in order to ensure purity of teaching and
the health of the Church. Of these innovations, youth ministry
is no exception. We must not forget that the mention of youth
ministry, or any equivalent ministry for that matter, has
not been made in the pages of God's revealed word -the very
pattern-setting blueprint for the Church. Our fellowship began
in the midst of a time where "sola scriptura!"
(Scripture alone) was the battle cry, and we believed that
if any idea was without biblical authority, it should be undertaken
with extreme caution.
It is
for this reason that I have chosen to play the devil's advocate
in this exposition. I realize that what I am doing here might
be incredibly risky, since youth ministry is such a popular
idea at present. Indeed, many future leaders in the body of
Christ who are my age, and it is a youthful age, pursue the
path of ministering to youth -the very path I have chosen
to question in these pages. I realize, therefore, that what
I advocate now might meet certain opposition. I am prepared
to face that opposition, however, because I am committed to
truth and because I believe that it would be cowardly of me
to keep from claiming responsibility for my words. I do this
not because I am against having youth ministries in our assemblies,
but because I am committed to the Church. I love the Church
just as Christ loves the Church. Either way, I am merely playing
the devil's advocate here, trying to make the saints think,
question and rediscover the purity of doctrine.
Biblical
Authority
I have
already mentioned that youth ministry is without scriptural
authority. Indeed, the pages of our bibles include no examples
of specific ministries devoted entirely to the service of
youth. In actuality, the New Testament has surprisingly little
to say about youthful saints apart from the pastoral epistles
which were written to Timothy and Titus, both young men, but
both old enough to understand and teach -which indicates that
they must have spent some considerable time in instruction,
certainly enough to hold positions of authority, especially
as Paul the apostle's own representatives, and the odd "children
obey your parents" verse. Even though there are a few
odd passages of this nature, there are no extensive passages
written specifically concerning youth -certainly not enough
to construct the biblical basis for youth ministry.
What we
are forced to do, therefore, is to consider youth ministry
as an innovation. Of course, it is popular in fellowships
right across the board -Baptists, Presbyterians, Methodists,
they all have them. Perhaps these fellowships are the origins
from which we get the idea. Either way, as an innovation,
youth ministry needs to be compared to the bible for authorization,
not to denominational trends. If we can find any better
way to address the needs of youth, written by the hands of
apostles and prophets, would it not be better to use those
biblical patterns over and above the patterns we see in fellowships
around us? Certainly, many of these fellowships don't stress
restoration as we do. Many of these fellowships don't hold
so fervently to the bible as the sole authorization for their
actions, preferring to depend on their various denominational
headquarters for the establishment of pattern, blueprint and
policy. Denominational trend cannot be the light that guides
us; it must be words of scripture. After all, we ourselves
appeal to the well-known II Timothy 3:16-17, "All scripture
is God-breathed and is profitable for teaching, for reproof,
for correction, for instruction in righteousness, in order
that the man who is of God might be proficient, equipped for
every good work."
Mentoring/Discipleship
Let me
begin by proposing something we might find slightly radical
at first, but something that, I believe, is more in tune biblically
than we might first have thought: "Mentoring" or
"discipleship".
As a direct
result of the recent Boston based International Church of
Christ/Churches of Christ split, we have been left a little
sore, and, as the saying so well puts it, we're "once
bitten, twice shy." We look to the idea of discipleship
and hundreds of connotations come to mind. We see controlling
authoritarianism, a fight for some kind of cultic power over
our brothers. Of course, such an authoritarian system is not
biblical at all. The principle of mentor-protégé
relationships does have biblical authority, however. Mentoring,
in fact, is biblical right from the get-go!
Jesus
himself was a mentor throughout the course of his ministry.
The very Greek word mathetes, commonly translated "disciple",
in fact, means "student", "pupil" or "apprentice".
If Jesus did himself was a mentor with apprentices, that's
certainly biblical authority enough for me! But wait, there's
more.
Both Timothy
and Titus were young ministers. Timothy specifically, spent
endless hours with Paul in his various mission trips. Both
were commissioned by Paul at various stages to minister to
the saints in two different locations: Timothy to the saints
in Ephesus and Titus to the saints on the island of Crete.
Naturally, the Pastoral Epistles, (I and II Timothy as well
as Titus), are addressed to these young men -protégés
of Paul. Paul was a mentor to them, one who guided them, and
one who had them as both friends and ambassadors on his behalf.
Paul himself must have understood the significance behind
this form of guidance.
Titus
2 is a particularly attractive text when it comes to pressing
the mentoring principle. Let's look briefly to verse 3 and
following.
"Older
women likewise are to be reverent in their behavior, not malicious
gossips nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good,
so that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands,
to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home,
kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word
of God will not be dishonored." - Titus 2:3-4 [NASB]
Does it
come as a shocker that mentoring is proposed in this particular
example? Why is it that older women are instructed to be examples
to those who were younger? Paul himself wrote this letter,
under the inspiration of God Himself, as has been expressed
in II Timothy 3:16, a verse I have already quoted.
In verse
7 of Titus 2, Paul urges Titus to "show yourself worthy
to be an example of good deeds, with purity in doctrine, dignified,
sound in speech which is beyond reproach, so that the opponent
will be put to shame, having nothing bad to say about us."
Titus himself was to "be an example" - a mentor.
The proof
for the mentor-protégé relationship needs not
to be expanded on beyond this. Simple bible reading will accent
it enough. The issue at hand is the comparison between the
biblical example of mentoring, and what we have in our modern
assemblies as youth ministry.
Is not
a youth minister being a mentor to his youth? Is he not providing
them with teaching and guidance in order to equip them for
the critical issues that they face today? He might very well
be. The problem does not lie in the fact that we have youth
ministries. The problem lies not in the youth minister either,
but in the congregation that feels it needs a youth minister.
Let me explain what I mean by this.
Restoring
the Relationships
Too many
older individuals, individuals who are well equipped and are
certainly apt to teach, stop and look at the problems facing
youth today and feel as though they're not well equipped enough
to deal with contemporary youth issues -issues that they themselves
did not grow up facing. They feel as though the gap in age
and understanding between them and their youth is too great
a chasm to transcend, and in turn, they are compelled to "hire"
a trained professional who is younger, someone who can identify
with them.
What is
created then, is a wall between the youth and the rest of
the congregation. The youth are made to meet together in their
own, sectioned off setting as opposed to meeting together
with the rest of the assembly during times of fellowship.
The youth plan mission trips during the summer, events on
Friday nights and bible studies during the week, but very
rarely are there activities in which the youth are encouraged
to visit the widows and orphans (James 1:27). Very rarely
do the youth have a "youth event" in which they
proceed to a mixed age gathering of saints and spend time
talking to those older than themselves, extracting that vital
knowledge and wisdom that only come through years of life
and experience.
Dr. Don
Shackelford, (who, at the time was a "mentor" himself,
teaching at Harding University), expressed that he had concern
for this very problem in that the elderly needed the youthful
vigor that only the young saints possessed. In turn, the youthful
needed the wisdom and instruction of the elderly. To him,
accentuating differences between youth and the rest of the
assembly was doing a great disservice to the Church. I am
inclined to agree wholeheartedly.
Let
me briefly quote I Timothy 4:12
"Let
no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech,
conduct, love, faith and purity, show yourself an example
to those who believe." - I Timothy 4:12 [NASB]
Clearly,
Timothy was encouraged to set an example for the elderly!
In order for someone to witness an example, they must be there
to witness it. Clearly, Timothy, as a young man, was serving
the church. Part of his doing so was to set an example.
"Crew
Ministries"
When one
looks at the New Testament, one can see that ministries happened
in, what I call, "crew ministries". To explain:
Everyone who participates in a ministry of some sort does
so as a member of a "crew". Let me quote a verse
or two to prove this.
"And
He gave some as apostles, and some as prophets, and some as
evangelists, and some as pastors and teachers, for the equipping
of the saints for the work of service to the building up of
the body of Christ." - Ephesians 4:11-12 [NASB]
Notice
the plurals! "Apostles", "Prophets", "Evangelists"
etc. They work collectively at their individual tasks for
the same goal: the equipping of the saints for the work of
service to the building up of the body of Christ.
"Now
there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit. And there
are varieties of ministries, and the same Lord." - I
Corinthians 12:4-5 [NASB]
This verse
out of I Corinthians 12 is merely the beginning of a whole
three chapters devoted to the explanation of how there are
many people, all equipped with different gifts, but for one
work: The edification of the church. In addition, it can easily
be seen that there were many people with one gift, an example
here being the gift of tongues, or the gift of prophecy.
Why not
apply this to our youth ministries? Why is the model we follow
one of a sole individual who ministers to a group. Surely
there are too many tasks for him to handle! A youth minister
needs to function as a councilor, a teacher, an organizer
and more. How does a youth minister handle all these tasks
without help? Surely he needs assistance from those with similar
gifts -identifying with youth, the ability to teach to a younger
audience, organizational ability. (Of course, some youth ministries
that I have seen do indeed employ the principle of youth ministry
as a "crew ministry". It is far more effective by
comparison).
Teaching
Let me
give you a line that I find myself saying a lot: "You
cannot teach what you don't know". All teachers must
first understand what they're going to teach well before they
present the material. The main role of a teacher is to deliver
content in a way that makes sense to the learner. (Teaching
is nothing more than facilitating the process by which knowledge
is transferred).
Now, given
that introduction, let me tell you a story.
I was
sitting in a college level bible class this last Sunday morning.
The teacher, an intern, had decided that we would read both
the fifth and sixth chapters of the book of Luke. (We had
been doing a textual study of the book of Luke). Once we had
read the text, the teacher asked, "Okay, now, if there
are any comments you would like to make about what we read
or about what we've just done, go ahead and share your thoughts."
After a brief time of silence, a girl sitting on the front
row, with a look of repulse on her face, exclaimed, "I
can't believe we just did that! I mean, reading like that!
That's the sort of thing my grandparents do. Its so
Old-school".
I was
thoroughly disgusted. What??? Reading the bible is 'old-school'???
Learning about Jesus Christ who came down to earth and died
for our sins so that we could have eternal life is 'old-school'???
I couldn't believe my ears! I had just gotten over the occurrence
last Sunday when the girl sitting next to me whispered, "Why
are we doing this? This is the sort of thing is what we do
in bible classes at school. Why are we doing this here?"
to which I politely responded, "What? You don't want
to learn about Jesus?" She kept quiet.
My point
is this: My generation has not been taught growing up. The
youth ministry we were a part of failed to do its primary
goal: Teach the word of God. Now we sit here in a situation
where, because none of us have ever been taught the word of
God, we cannot bear sitting through it when it is taught.
My generation is largely biblically illiterate. I would even
go so far as to say with some confidence that my generation
despises bible study! All of this is the result of a lack
of discipline, a lack of spiritual mentoring, a lack of teaching.
There
is no need to expand on the need for teaching. It's just too
clear in the bible. But let me give you a verse or two anyway.
"As
a result, we are no longer to be children, tossed here and
there by waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine,
by the trickery of men, by craftiness in deceitful scheming."
- Ephesians 4:13 [NASB]
"But
the Spirit explicitly says that in later times some will
fall away from the faith, paying attention to deceitful
spirits and doctrines of demons." - I Timothy 4:1 [NASB]
"The
things which you have heard from me in the presence of many
witnesses, entrust these to faithful men who will be able
to teach others also." - II Timothy 2:2 [NASB]
The list
goes on and on. These passages are right off the top of my
head. Teaching is a definite must -and is vital. To fail to
teach is to fail to secure a future for doctrinal purity,
the future of what the assembly of Christ believes! If we,
as the people of God, are not going to be taught, then we
will believe any deceptive, demonic doctrine that comes into
our midst. It is happening already because of this. Above
and beyond all, teach, teach, and teach some more!
Conclusion
So let
me try to wrap up what I'm saying here. It really is quite
simple. If we insist on having youth ministries, and I'm sure
we do, let us correct them a little, because for the most
part, they've failed to do what we intended them to do. Let
us work together towards destroying the chasm we have built
between our youth and ourselves. Let us spend time working
on relationships with them, mentoring them, teaching
them correct doctrine, and let's do it in groups, as a network,
using our gifts collectively for the edification of the body
as a whole -not in segments. We are all one body, the body
of Christ. All glory be to Him!
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