Chakram
newsletter #18, 2002
Reneé O'Connor Remembers Kevin Smith
I think I knew of Kevin before I met him. So it wasn't like meeting
a stranger. I was aware of his work on Hercules. I'd seen his
movie Desperate Remedies with Michael Hurst and Jennifer Ward-Leland.
I saw Tim Omundson, Alex Tydings, Eric Gruendemann and his wife, Patricia
Manney, and some others last night. We were having chats about Kevin.
My most recent memory was of telling him that Steve and I were pregnant.
I told him before I told the crew and even before I told a lot of
my friends because he and I had always chatted about his boys. Their
soccer games and how he was going to be the dad at home with the boys
while Sue, his wife, was playing soccer. That's how we bonded over
the last years on Xena.
Every time I met him, I thought, 'what a talented, amazing man'. And
he was such a humble, loving person as well. Someone who didn't know
him would think he would have such an ego. But he was the antithesis
of that. I keep thinking of his family. Sue and his boys grounded
him. They were such an integral part of his life.
When I saw him during "Soul Possession", I just had
to tell him I was pregnant because I knew he was going to be so
excited. He'd met Steve a few times being fellow South Island boys.
Steve's from Christchurch and Kevin's from a place not far from there
called Timaru. It really surprised me, but when I saw him I thought,
"I've got to tell Kevin!"
He's such a family man. He was very private, but you could tell from
the way he talked he was a proud dad and thought Sue was the
most amazing woman keeping them all in line.
I was with Michael Hurst when Kevin passed away, rehearsing Love
Letters. We were talking about Kevin being injured and what an
invincible, strong man he is. We were praying for him. Then later,
Michael called me and said we'd lost him. It was odd being here in
LA where my friends don't know Kevin and what a great man he is and
could appreciate our loss. I wanted to be around the crew who knew
him to share memories and celebrate his life.
Eric Gruendemann told us how moving the memorial was in New Zealand.
I think fourteen hundred people turned out. All the productions in
Auckland that were ongoing at the time, closed down early so the crew
members could go to the memorial. Isn't that amazing? It shows the
love that Kevin created in the industry. He was an icon in New Zealand.
Part of him was the kiwi bloke who wanted to take you out for a beer
and talk about rugby. He was everyone's buddy. So accessible. That's
why people loved him so much. Here's this gorgeous man who's so physically
formidable and yet there was so much depth to him as well.
It took me a long time to get to know Kevin since I only had a few
scenes with Ares in the first few years. But as we started to work
rogether more, I would see other sides to him. Initially, I would
go to certain events in New Zealand because I knew he was working
in them. And I was constantly astounded by how talented this man was!
I saw him in Othello directed by Michael Hurst. And now that
I've been attending a Shakespeare seminar, I can really appreciate
how difficult that was. He was amazing. Afterwards, I saw him in a
music version of Peter Jackson's Braindead (AKA Dead Alive).
Michael Hurst transformed the film into a musical play. It was hilarious
seeing Kevin camping it up on the stage.
Steve and I often went to Theatre Sports on weekends. They get up
and say they're going to do, say, a Shakespearean poem. Three people
in the audience pick topics for each of the three actors on stage.
And they make it up right there on the spot. He was amazing every
time we saw him. There's no safety net. You don't have a script to
rely on. It's all you and your own quick-thinking wit. He's a very
clever man.
I also sw him in The Blue Room with Danielle Cormack. He played
this one character who was like a young boy. And I kept imagining
Kevin's own son, Oscar. It was astonishing how he could transform
himself. So charming.
I sw him at a wedding where he was performing with his band at the
reception. We were talking about the conventions and he said he wanted
to get into a different type of music with Joel Tobek that was more
hard rock and roll. As opposed to the retro music he was performing
at the reception. After he did the cabaret with Joel, Kevin said it
was pretty gritty. I really wanted to see them.
There are so few actors who can do everything. Except dance! I remember
him freaking out, in a joking way, during the first musical, "The
Bitter Suite". He said, "I'll sing whatever you want,
but, mate, just don't make me dance." He was so worried about
them putting tap shoes on him. Then he had that gorgeous tango with
Lucy that looked fantastic. He kept making so many hilarious jokes
about himself trying to dance.
I remember during "Ares Farm", Kevin had been working
out very hard. The last few years on Xena, he looked especially
amazing. Not that he didn't before, but he was just so strong. During
"Ares Farm", because he was on the set all day and
couldn't go to the gym, he would do pushups or grab sandbags and use
them as weights. Lucy and I sat there watching him and asking ourselves,
"Okay, how come we're not doing that?" We were just sitting
there like slugs. So we both started doing pushups, whenever Kevin
wasn't looking, trying to get stronger. It was hilarious. lucy and
I both on our knees trying to get a couple pushups in.
I miss him.
The Kevin Smith Trust Fund
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