Michael J. Losier wrote an amazing book, "Law of Attraction." (ISBN 0973224002)
It is a book about the science of attracting more of what you want and less of what you don't.
If you are an independent thinker, but have some trouble keeping your head above the water sometimes, get this book. It will make you realize that how you think really changes what happens to you.
It's almost like, if you say and think something enough, it will come true.
I had recently ended a long term relationship and I wanted something WAY different with my next guy. So I told myself and anyone I knew what, exactly, I was looking for:
Someone atleast 6 feet tall, maintain a job, have his own place (roommates ok, but not living at home,) 6-pack abs, Dodge Ram. I was really specific. And the next guy I dated was 6'1", owned his own business, lived in his own house, had 10-pack abs, and drove a red Dodge Ram.
No word of a lie.
But there were still things about him that I didn't want in a relationship.
That is when I remembered that I used to always tell my mom that I wanted to marry a black man to have chocolate-milk babies with. And my roommate moved in (yes he is black), but I wasn't specific enough and I was sent something totally not acceptable.
So now, here I am, looking for something, but what?
I want a man, who is atleast 6 feet tall, works a steady job, makes enough money to treat me like a lady when we are out on a date, drives a nice new vehicle (truck preferably), has drive and ambition but not too much that it takes up all of his waking moments, and someone who is an animal lover, just like me.
Is that too much to ask for?
Hugs
Shan