Enter My Dungeon and you may never want to leave. I am always in
search of naughty boys and nasty girls I might find worthy of my time,
attention and abuse. Submit to your dreams and desires in a place where
fantasy becomes reality. If you think you are worthy, then kneel before me on
your submissive knees and prepare for your subservience. I just love playing
with my collection of toys. There's no end to the torture I can do with them.
Do not come up to me and say. “Hi my name is Roy 24 and a sub. How may I help
you” I will tell you good bye.
Before looking for a Domme, you need to decide
for yourself what makes you different. If you've taken the trouble to sit in a
channel and slowly get involved with it, at some point, someone will ask you
about yourself. This is a key moment in your search for a Domme, so use it
wisely. Here are some of the classic errors that are made at this point:
Your comment: |
Our thoughts: |
I'm very submissive. |
Big deal, so are all
submissives. |
I do exactly what I'm told. |
Well yes.. and? |
I'll do anything for the right
Mistress. |
This one is desperate! |
I'm excellent at pleasuring my
Mistress |
Oh, ok... he's desperate for a
fuck. |
I'm rich with my own Penthouse
suite. |
He's a desperate liar. |
I'm available for the right
Domme! |
Totally clueless and arrogant.
|
I'm 23, very fit and highly
intelligent. |
Still totally clueless and
stupid. |
I'm looking for a Domme! |
You're a male sub, of course
you are. |
None of those approaches will work. We see it every
night. What makes much more sense is to assume that we know you're submissive,
that you'll do as you're told and all that jazz. So don't tell us, move swiftly
onto something about you that's interesting. What hobbies do you have? What
skills have you got? What makes you an interesting human being? The fact that
you're a sub isn't interesting. We know that already. There are very
interesting male submissives - I know lots of them, as do the rest of us. But
they are interesting because they are people who happen to be submissive. Do
you see the difference? I really hope so! Don't
continue whittering on about it. If people are interested, they'll ask you
about it. If they do, congratulations, you've moved onto the next stage in your
search. FINDING A DOMME
IS A LONG TERM PROCESS - IT WILL NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT. If you come into a chat room expecting to find a Domme
who will come around and visit you the same evening or the next day to beat you
senseless, just leave the room right now and go to #bdsm_stupidly_optomistic.
After all - why should a Domme want to? She's probably already got a sub she
can phone up and say 'drive over here now, I am in the mood to whack you'.
So just leave it. Don't push it, and don't expect anything to happen tonight.
Or tomorrow night. Or this week. Or probably this month. I'm really sorry - I
know that you're desperate - it's clear for all to see, and there's nothing
that is more off-putting than a desperate submissive. It's not pretty and it's
not attractive.
E-mail me
the Application and I will get back to you
Are there any
particular areas you feel you would like to challenge explore?
Please
briefly describe your idea of an ideal scene. Please write at least a few
sentences in this field or don't bother continuing.
Do you feel
"release" is absolutely essential to a good BDSM session ; why?
This section
gives me deeper insight into what makes you tick & turns you on. Please
describe at least 3 qualities that you envision when you think of your
ideal dominant or submissive.
Also, please
state the first thing that pops into your head when you hear the following
terms. Yes, I am an amateur psychologist! (One or two words is fine)
Power Exchange
Sadist
Masochist
Slave
Master / Mistress
Submission
Domination
Sensual / Erotic
Discipline
Humiliation
Pain
Now we get to
see what things you want to experience in a session. Please choose an interest
level beside each activity and then check off any items below that interest
you. Also feel free to put a comment, concern or question in the box below any
of the categories. Please be as thorough as possible! I like variety A
LOT!
Age Play:
Diaper Fantasies
Depilation
(shaving)
Parent /child
fantasies
Student /teacher
fantasies
How old do you wish to be?
Other:
Want to
briefly describe fantasy scene or share some thoughts?:
Feminization
/ Cross dressing / Transvestism:
I Have clothes
(describe)
Have no clothes need
to borrow (list sizes)
Public shopping trips
Maid service /
training
Sissy slut training
Other :
Want to
briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?:
Do you have
any particular fetishes?
Body Hair
Body parts
Denim
Feet
Lace
Latex
Leather
Nurse/doctor
fetish
Religious (nun /priest
play)
Retifism (shoes or
boots )
Rubber
Scents / smell (what
kind?)
Other or please give more detail to above choices:
Foot &
leg worship:
Altocalciphilia (love
of high heels)
Bare feet
Boots
Enjoys kissing
/licking feet /legs
Gives a good foot
massage
Stocking
feet
Pantyhose
Trampling
Willing to learn to
give pedicure
Other:
Want to
briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?:
Humiliation:
Mild level
Moderate level
Heavy level
Being spit on
Collar & Leash
Crawling
Face slapping
Feminization
Hair Pulling
Kneeling
Public Display
Used as an object
(table, foot rest, ashtray etc)
Verbal Degradation
Other:
Want to
briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?:
Role play:
How important is role play to your ideal scene?
Very
important
Somewhat
important
Not at all
important
What roles are you interested in?
Roles you wish me to play:
Want to briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?:
Miscellaneous:
24/7 (Total Power
Exchange)
Algolagnia (love of
pain)
Autoerotica
(masturbation)
Dacryphilia (arousal
from tears)
Exhibitionism
Other:
Want to
briefly describe fantasy scene or share any thoughts?:
Black Mail
Information - Only For Black Mail Clients
Tell Mistress
ShyAnne your dirty little secret. Also include who you never want to know
about this secret and include their contact information. Lots of detail here
please.
Referral and
Web site commentary: How did you hear about us? Where did you find our web link
etc? (Domme board, banner link other?)
Any comments
or suggestions about the web site? Ease of navigation, ambiance, loading speed,
pictures quality etc?
Photos: I
like to take new photos for the web site. I of course would never do so without
the sub's knowledge and consent, and even with permission I usually take
measure's to protect the identity by covering the face and any identifiable
marks with a hood etc. if s/he wishes to remain anonymous. Please state where
you stand with the idea of taking pictures:
Mailing List: Also as a rule, the email address of every form that is received
is placed on our mailing list that is occasionally send out. This newsletter is
sent out on average 4 times a year so it isn't like you will be swamped with
unsolicited letters, but if you wish to not be included when these updates are
sent out please indicate below. There is also the possibility for you to be
invited to any private parties that are held, would you like an invite once we
get to know each other?
Please read this last bit and initial the bottom.
"I understand that the answers to this questionnaire are to be used only
to plan a BDSM session. My limits will be respected and I may stop the scene at
any time I wish. I understand that the Mistress/Master is a skilled
professional and that care and caution is taken to insure my safety, but I
acknowledge that there is inherent risk to BDSM play. I further understand that
there will be NO sex of any kind, NO illegal activities permitted, and NO
nudity on the part of the Mistress or Master."
Initials:
Finally, did thinking about and picturing all of these things while filling out
the form excite you just a little? (Any last words?)
Ok great and
thank you for your efforts! Once you hit "Submit the completed form will
be automatically mailed to Mistress_Shyanne@yahoo.com
They should respond to you within 48 hours with more information or further
instructions. If however, They do not it may mean They are away for a few days.
They answer all email that They receive. If you do not hear from Them within 72
hours you may wish to send a follow up email in case your email was lost in
cyber space. Best Wishes!!