Realisation...Just last week I thought I was pretty wise, hah what a mistake. The more I live, the more I realise, that I have so much more to learn.
My most embarassing experience... I was about 21 years old and I was staying at the International Students guest house for a while. We had a power failure (no electricity) So me and my friends decided to play hide and go seek. I went to the toilet to hide and thought while I was there I would use it. I lifted my skirt, and sat on a man (yes, I sat on a man) He was an African student doctor who only had one eye. I screamed and got hysterical, the poor man became stiff with fear (no pun intended) I was so embarassed the next day in the dining room when I had to come and meet him at the breakfast table I will never forget that one.
A few other embarassing situations were, once while I went shopping my hair piece fell off, I had the shop keeper tell me that my hair was lying on the floor near my feet.
Once on a bus in Holland my shoulder pad fell off, (can't stand them now) and had a gorgeous man come give it to me. I denied it was mine, and then realized when I got home that he must have known it was mine my shoulders looked lop sided.
Once while modelling, walking down the runway I noticed I had one brown shoe on and one white one. I just could not imagine why I had people looking at me in a strange way.
The meaning of love....... I think its a momentary thing, you feel it and experience it, you should not question it. Enjoy the experience till it fades away. Don't push it, don't force it or try to buy it. Love
is what you think it is.
Then there is the other kinds of love, I was just referring to the love between a man and a woman.
Sex Can be the most relaxing experience, if had with the right person.
I feel men should learn more about sex, instead of speaking so much about it. Very few men know the real way of making love. Very few. It can be a blast if you find the right person.
I know now I am going to get bombarded with emails, but I am speaking about the conversations that I have had with so many truthful women. Sex gets boring and unfulfilling after some time, that is why so many women complain of head aches and back aches. We get fed up of having to put up with the same selfish boring stuff all the time. There is always room for improvement.
Money, A double edged sword
People I don't Like...I don't say 'I don't like them'. I prefer to say, 'I am not on the same wavelenth as them
Secrets Yes, but they are actually 'secret wishes' and I will do anything to make them come true. I would not die in peace. I will write all about it one day, you will be surprised at what it is and most probably won't even believe me. It's such a simple need, some of us have it in abundance and some of us would rather not have it at all.
Children I'm glad I had my son Mario, when I was very young, I would simply not have the patience to deal with them now. I do not like unnecessary noise and distraction.
I do wish I had a second child at the time. Having one child is pretty tough on the single kid.
Blowing my own trumpet I like to help people. Being a genuine friend is important to me, so I am either your friend or nothing at all. I am a good judge of character and have learned always to speak the truth. I am generous and have learned to be honest
Bad character aspects I do not forgive easily, even if I say so, I truly believe in an eye for an eye. Whoever harms me, must always look over their shoulder, cos until and unless I get them back I don't rest.
I Regret....having smoked before, thankfully I have quit for over 5 years. I detest it with a passion. An even bigger regret is not having learned how to drive. I am just so afraid I will have to get over the fear.
If I was a Man... I would try to date Liz Hurley and And as a woman, if I had the chance I would date Jack Scalla and Hugh Grant, my eyes adore them.
GOD? I believe in a higher power
Religion NO organized religion for me
Marriage.. Yes but no insecure, macho type, he should be in touch with his feminine side
Abortion.. Not as a means of birth control.