tombuazit (9:09:54 PM):
how does this apply to things though you ask. Take
free will v. determinism as a debate
tombuazit (9:10:51 PM):
you can utilize your philosophical thought process and "sort" out the
clutter, and see what you find buried. Slowly forming your
philosophical theory on determinism or free will.
tombuazit (9:11:20 PM): we learn how to do the sorting, not what goes
in each pile
kaci (9:13:07 PM): like morality and ethics
kaci (9:13:21 PM): the difference between them I mean
tombuazit (9:14:00 PM): yes
tombuazit (9:14:11 PM): ethics would use philosophy to sort
tombuazit (9:14:18 PM): morality uses rules
tombuazit (9:14:52 PM): those rules come from different places, in
Abrahamic religions those rules come from God and go to Moses, who hands um out
tombuazit (9:15:16 PM): Socrates debated why morality was wrong and
ethics correct
tombuazit (9:15:44 PM): I am not sure he is correct, but then I think
that ethics are merely an attempt to hold onto our morality.
tombuazit (9:15:52 PM): but then I am a sadian
kaci (9:18:30 PM): huh
kaci (9:18:39 PM): interesting
kaci (9:19:52 PM):
Thoreau said, "do not be too moral. you may cheat
yourself out of much of life. so aim above morality. be not simply good; be good for something."
tombuazit (9:20:24 PM): lol
tombuazit (9:20:30 PM): ya
tombuazit (9:20:43 PM): Sade says force yourself to face freedom
tombuazit (9:22:44 PM): he belived, and I
agree, that the statement "You are free" was true
tombuazit (9:23:42 PM): but also that none of really face that
tombuazit (9:23:48 PM): we don't really accept it
tombuazit (9:24:51 PM):
we fill ourselves with all these bullshit reasons not to do what we want. And only by burning all these "rules, regrets, and concious" out of ourselves will we finally understnad what is free
kaci (9:26:11 PM): and why the pursuit of freedom?
tombuazit (9:27:35 PM): can there be a purer desire, then to fulfill
desire
kaci (9:30:32 PM): what makes pure more ideal?
kaci (9:30:39 PM): it's simplicity?
tombuazit (9:31:07 PM): well pure as a word holds value within it
tombuazit (9:31:25 PM): but deeper then that, you got it
tombuazit (9:31:58 PM):
the simple desire to fulfill desires of the self. that
is the most basic
tombuazit (9:32:07 PM): the one that takes the fewest explainations
kaci (9:32:34 PM): but I don't understand why that makes it
"better"
tombuazit (9:32:45 PM): the more complex a thing, the less likely
that it is one of the basic building blocks
tombuazit (9:33:00 PM): "better" is not really the right
word
tombuazit (9:33:10 PM): the most essential would be
"better"
tombuazit (9:33:12 PM): the most baisc
tombuazit (9:34:03 PM): for sad only when you are compeletely free will you be able to decide what is
"better" and then it will be "better" for you.
tombuazit (9:34:28 PM): not a universal "better"
kaci (9:36:07 PM): but to get there you must first decide
that freedom is "better" or "best" for you and if you
haven't acheived freedom yet, then you don't know
that it is
tombuazit (9:36:12 PM): universal betters are an impossibility
tombuazit (9:36:29 PM): lol
tombuazit (9:36:33 PM): no no
tombuazit (9:37:07 PM):
you don't really rach freedom, or acheive
it. YOU ARE FREE
tombuazit (9:37:16 PM): you just don't realize it
tombuazit (9:37:30 PM): you stop yourself from being free, NO ONE ELSE
CAN
tombuazit (9:38:40 PM): so when you "achieve" freedom its
merely recoginizing your already free, and acting on
that recognition
kaci (9:38:58 PM): okay, so until we understand freedom, not
achieve it
tombuazit (9:39:10 PM): For Sade it was fine that most of the world
would keep them selves in chains
tombuazit (9:39:27 PM): becaus it meant
more slaves for the whim
tombuazit (9:40:16 PM):
He attained freedom, and that was all he cared about. Others
decide the same thing, realize the same thing, because
of his written work.
tombuazit (9:40:30 PM): But you are free now
tombuazit (9:40:46 PM): I am frustrated with people that they do not
see this.
tombuazit (9:41:00 PM): Because unlike Sade I do care that people I
like are not free
kaci (9:41:45 PM): but you said, "only when you are
completely free..."
kaci (9:41:53 PM): this I don't understand
tombuazit (9:42:07 PM): yes, it was a poor turn of phrase.
tombuazit (9:43:18 PM): it should be, "Only when you
realize that you are free, and therefore complete your freedom and taken
ownership of it, then you can decide what is truly "better" for you.
tombuazit (9:43:59 PM):
you are free now, because only your choice stands between you and freedom. So ironicly
you choose freely, to not be free.
kaci (9:44:18 PM): I'm still struggling to understand
tombuazit (9:44:23 PM): but the free choice is in ignorance
kaci (9:44:32 PM): yeah, that is my problem with it
kaci (9:44:38 PM): oh
tombuazit (9:44:52 PM): was that an oh of understanding?
kaci (9:45:01 PM): but, but,
tombuazit (9:45:08 PM): keep asking
tombuazit (9:45:42 PM):
that is how philosophical therories work. Under constant attack, so we know which one is right
tombuazit (9:45:51 PM): or "better"
kaci (9:45:57 PM): I don't know how I can be free, choose freely,
and have that ignorant choice cause me to not be free
tombuazit (9:46:14 PM): yes, that is a hard one
tombuazit (9:46:44 PM): ok,
tombuazit (9:47:13 PM): did I tell you about Sade's time in the Bastielle?
tombuazit (9:47:53 PM):
He was kept in a solid black cell. HIs
only human contact was two guards that would come in beat, rape, and feed him
everyday
tombuazit (9:47:59 PM): did I tell you about this?
kaci (9:49:17 PM): yes
kaci (9:49:18 PM): yes
tombuazit (9:49:59 PM): ok, well it illustrates what he means by free
tombuazit (9:50:38 PM): and his first real realization that he is
always free
kaci (9:50:53 PM): uh huh
tombuazit (9:51:32 PM): ok, now, if he had remainded ignorant of the fact that he is free, then he
would have suffered for 9 years instead of just 2
tombuazit (9:51:57 PM): does that make sense?
kaci (9:52:16 PM): I do understand....
tombuazit (9:52:59 PM):
ok, so he was free all nine of the years. But for the
first 2 he didn't realize it, so his suffering
continued
tombuazit (9:53:15 PM): until he did realize it
tombuazit (9:53:31 PM): does that make sense?
tombuazit (9:53:48 PM): step by step
kaci (9:53:49 PM): yes
tombuazit (9:54:11 PM): ok, so he was free before, he just didn't
realize it
kaci (9:54:48 PM): right
tombuazit (9:54:57 PM): If A then B, IF free then in control of his
actions
kaci (9:55:18 PM): right
tombuazit (9:57:50 PM): the last part is hard to explain now that I
am here
kaci (9:58:11 PM): heehee
tombuazit (9:58:14 PM): he choose his actions, and his actions lead
to his continued sufferign
tombuazit (9:58:54 PM): he was free to choose his desire, or his
suffering
tombuazit (9:59:02 PM): as he proved in the 2nd year
tombuazit (9:59:14 PM): he choose suffering for two years
kaci (9:59:22 PM): yeah
tombuazit (9:59:31 PM): but he choose it only because he didn't
realize he had another choice
kaci (9:59:41 PM): right
tombuazit (9:59:43 PM): but his lack of realization did not take that
other choice away from him
kaci (10:01:23 PM):
didn't it? the other choice was only there once he
realized it? it wasn't available to him before
than....it was there, but not for him, yet
kaci (10:01:50
PM): that, not than
tombuazit (10:01:54 PM):
it was there, it was available. He just needed to stop
thinkign and look
tombuazit (10:02:39 PM):
it was in front of him, our freedom is in front of us all. It
stands at the foot of your bed. It screams for you. But you ignore it
kaci (10:02:44
PM): stop thinking or start thinking?
tombuazit (10:02:51 PM): stop thinking
tombuazit (10:03:03 PM): and look
tombuazit (10:03:17 PM): that is from Witt, but it sums up this well
tombuazit (10:03:45 PM):
your freedom, complete and total freedom stands before you inevery
aspect of your life. You merely need to open your eyes
and see it
tombuazit (10:03:55 PM): instead you choose to keep those eyes closed
tombuazit (10:04:06 PM): nobody else makes that choice for you
tombuazit (10:04:09 PM): you do
tombuazit (10:04:25 PM): it like covering your eyes all your life and
calling yourself blind
kaci (10:04:29
PM): yeah, but I don't know about the thinking part
kaci (10:04:47
PM): just keep going, I'm getting stuck on the details
kaci (10:04:55
PM): I know what you are saying
tombuazit (10:04:59 PM): no, the details are the important part
tombuazit (10:05:28 PM): it is a whole, and each part must be
understood
tombuazit (10:05:44 PM): let me explain the thinking part
tombuazit (10:06:12 PM): for Sade, when you "look" at your
life you see freedom, you see all the things you can do.
tombuazit (10:06:55 PM):
but then you start "thinking" about it. And
all this bullshit external and internal "stuff" gets in the way of
what you are looking at
tombuazit (10:07:30 PM): it is what closes your eyes, to your
freedom.
tombuazit (10:07:46 PM): when you think, you are limiting yourself in
ways you don't need to.
tombuazit (10:07:58 PM): but if you look, you see your choices, and
their effects upon the world
tombuazit (10:08:52 PM):
when you think, you make up shit, about how other people would react or think
or feel, and that is bullshit. Unnecessary, limiting, and
harmful to all concirned.
tombuazit (10:09:33 PM): most importantly, it is UNnecessary,
limiting, and harmful to you.
kaci (10:10:11 PM): I understand the concept, but I think maybe
I disagree with the words or something...I see it as the other way around for
some reason
tombuazit (10:10:39 PM): thats because you
are thinking and not looking
kaci (10:11:13 PM): whatever
tombuazit (10:11:38 PM): lol
tombuazit (10:12:11 PM): I guess "thinking" is seen as
Noise
tombuazit (10:12:34 PM): while Looking seems to be the sound without
the background noise
tombuazit (10:13:07 PM): thinking attempts to be the filter, but it
filters out too much
tombuazit (10:13:59 PM): looking is the meadow in bloom, while thining is the dirty window between you and that meadow
tombuazit (10:14:56 PM): but the thinking and looking distinction is
from Wittgenstein,a nd I
add it into Sade myself, as way to clarify
kaci (10:15:32 PM): I still see it the other way
around....when I look, I see a dirty window between me and a meadow, but when I
stop to think about it, I know that I can find a way to open the window or
break it or something
kaci (10:16:12 PM): things "Look" hopeless, by
"thinking" I realize they are not
tombuazit (10:16:21 PM): but that is because you are looking at the
dirty window and not the problem of finding the meadow
tombuazit (10:16:44 PM): both looking and thinking are used to solve
problems
tombuazit (10:17:01 PM): but you are making it more complex then what
is meant
kaci (10:17:23 PM): of course I am
tombuazit (10:17:32 PM): simplify simplify simplify
tombuazit (10:17:58 PM): but like I said the Think/look distincition not as important
kaci (10:18:54 PM):
but before I get lost, this is what I've gotten so far: I am free. Once I realize I am free I can make choices that will
fulfill my desires, but until I realize I am free I will suffer unnessecarily as if I were not free
tombuazit (10:19:15 PM): close
tombuazit (10:23:23 PM):
you are right, but I would make this change maybe, though it might seem more
confusing let me know "I am a free agent. Once I
realize and start making my choices as a free agent, then I will begin making
choices that will fullfill my true desires. Until I realize all my choices are free, I will make those
choices as if I were not free, which could cause me to suffer unnessecarily."
tombuazit (10:25:05 PM):
the could is important. Because I could make choices
without the relazation that might still give me pleasure.
tombuazit (10:25:17 PM): but ussually you
will limit yourself
tombuazit (10:25:39 PM): think on it for about 5 minutes, i want to go out and play in the rain
kaci (10:25:51 PM): why do you use the word agent?
kaci (10:25:54 PM): okay
tombuazit (10:32:49 PM): the word agent refers to you as an
individual
tombuazit (10:33:16 PM): now lets look at those things that stop you
from freedom
tombuazit (10:33:34 PM): it more then a lack of realization
kaci (10:33:37 PM): so when you say true desire, you mean our
most basic desires?
tombuazit (10:33:47 PM): yes and no
tombuazit (10:34:03 PM): I mean those things you really desire
tombuazit (10:34:18 PM): but they are ussually
basic desires like pleasure
tombuazit (10:34:33 PM): but don't have to be
tombuazit (10:34:40 PM): it will be unique to you
kaci (10:36:10 PM): well it seems like, when there could be
conflicting desires, you would end up choosing the most basic desire as the
more important one because you would argue that any desire more complex was
just you thinking too much
tombuazit (10:37:13 PM): conflicting desires can be caused by many
things
tombuazit (10:37:51 PM): but before we get to what your desires are,
we need to understand what keeps you from those desires, and your freedom
kaci (10:39:30 PM): but this is where I'm conflicted,
because nothing keeps me from my freedom, i am always
free, even if I'm choosing not to fullfill my most
basic desires
tombuazit (10:39:38 PM):
these come form two sources, your conscious self and your unconscious self. Sade called them underfeelings,
the idea of unconscious was not around then, but his idea comes close, and I
think that we can use that word
tombuazit (10:39:40 PM): wait
tombuazit (10:39:46 PM): you're jumping ahead
kaci (10:40:06 PM): okay
tombuazit (10:40:39 PM):
you limit yourself because of these other feelings. Feelings
like "fear"
tombuazit (10:40:50 PM): both conscious fear and unconscious
tombuazit (10:42:21 PM):
you see you are running into the main problem of learning a new system. You refuse to distance yourself from your old system, long
enough to understant. You're
first instinct is to protect you're current system. You
blind yourself to the benifets of others, and the
negatives of your own
tombuazit (10:42:49 PM): you want to defend your choices
tombuazit (10:42:59 PM): your current worldview
tombuazit (10:43:45 PM):
put all that aside, I know you want an excuse to please other people, over
yourself at times. And you assume this theory will
stop that.
kaci (10:44:06 PM): I'm still listening
tombuazit (10:44:22 PM): I know.
tombuazit (10:45:55 PM): tangent over I guess, but it is a tangent
that is related
tombuazit (10:46:38 PM): you have fears, you have traditions, you
have a world view, all these things are trying to force you into a specific
path of action
tombuazit (10:46:55 PM): it makes you feel guilt, or remorse
tombuazit (10:47:07 PM): it is a consious
tombuazit (10:47:13 PM): not sure how to spell that
kaci (10:47:34 PM): conscience
kaci (10:47:47 PM): ?
tombuazit (10:47:49 PM): thanks
tombuazit (10:48:08 PM): the thing that speaks up when you have a bad
idea, the angels and deamons on your shoulder
kaci (10:48:28 PM): the morality organ?
tombuazit (10:49:00 PM): the morality lie
tombuazit (10:49:44 PM): this morality and fear are two of the
strongest blocks to your realizing your freedom
tombuazit (10:50:03 PM): when you open your eyes and see something
you don't like, they close your eyes for you
tombuazit (10:50:23 PM): they fill your head with noise of why you
shouldn't do those things you desire.
tombuazit (10:50:29 PM): they drown out your desire with their noise
kaci (10:51:17 PM): you mean realizing the full potential of
your freedom?
tombuazit (10:51:21 PM): yes
kaci (10:51:40 PM): I'm with ya
tombuazit (10:52:34 PM): if your freedom is standing at your bedside
yelling to get your attention, then your fears and conscience are the ones pluggig your ears and blocking your eyes
tombuazit (10:52:48 PM): now you might have personal issues that go
along with these two.
tombuazit (10:52:58 PM): but just about everyone starts out with
those two
tombuazit (10:53:08 PM): you are afraid of what people will think of
you
tombuazit (10:53:29 PM): you are afraid of hurting others if the
"inner beast" is realised
tombuazit (10:53:49 PM): you are affriad of
being free, because then you have to decide everything
kaci (10:53:49
PM): lo
kaci (10:53:53
PM): l
tombuazit (10:53:56 PM): lol
kaci (10:54:22 PM): well it's unmapped territory in a way
tombuazit (10:54:42 PM): exactly
tombuazit (10:54:51 PM): you are afraid of what will happen
tombuazit (10:54:57 PM): of the unknown
tombuazit (10:55:02 PM): but thats not bad
enough
tombuazit (10:55:06 PM): you have been chained with a morality by
your culture
tombuazit (10:55:15 PM): a morality that many times makes no sense in
the world
kaci (10:55:39 PM): right
tombuazit (10:55:47 PM): but its job is to keep your ass inline
tombuazit (10:55:53 PM): and it is ingrained
kaci (10:56:17 PM): powerful
tombuazit (10:56:20 PM): skipping over all the others you might have,
cause people all have individual hangups
tombuazit (10:56:31 PM): and these two are the most powerful ussually
tombuazit (10:57:16 PM):
both morality and fear can befound in your conscious
mind. A part of your character, you think through your
moral choice, you think about your fear
tombuazit (10:57:20 PM): normal stuff
tombuazit (10:57:33 PM): but more dangrous
are the underfeelings.
tombuazit (10:57:44 PM): because you are unconscious of those
tombuazit (10:58:02 PM): they poke you on this path or that, and you
are mostly blind to them
tombuazit (10:58:23 PM): very hard to rid yourself of
kaci (10:58:30 PM): uhhuh
tombuazit (10:59:00 PM): for Sade, even the most free woman alive has
to constantly guard against these deamons.
tombuazit (10:59:27 PM): so these feelings cause you to blind
yourself to your "true desires"
tombuazit (11:00:52 PM): what you really want in life; you
are afraid to go after, you afraid of what people will think of you, afraid of
who it might hurt, afraid of so many things
tombuazit (11:01:02 PM): any questions on this part?
kaci (11:01:30
PM): not yet...
tombuazit (11:02:35 PM):
ok were pretty much done with the blocks, but I wanted to make a distinction. A distinciton that conects to your earlier line of questions.
Fear of a consequense and taking
that consequence into consideration are two different things
kaci (11:03:20
PM): ok
tombuazit (11:04:31 PM):
Sade said that you might want to kill someone (A), if you do you will be
imprisoned or put to death by the government (B). taking
B into consideration before performing A is ok, but being afraid of B is
unhealthy, because fear will stop you from even contemplating what you desire
A.
tombuazit (11:04:58 PM): Even if you do not do A because of the consederation
tombuazit (11:05:05 PM): it is ok
tombuazit (11:05:11 PM): as long as it is not fear ruling you
tombuazit (11:05:43 PM): you have two conflicting desires A and
"not wanting to be imprisoned or killed" (C)
tombuazit (11:06:01 PM): so your two desires can conflict, and you
are free to choose between them
kaci (11:06:12
PM): ok
tombuazit (11:06:27 PM): as long as it is you making that choice and
not your fear, morality, or whatever hang up you might have
tombuazit (11:06:54 PM): questions?
kaci (11:07:36
PM): but it seems like there is always going to be just the one
real desire, the other one is is just what you don't
want
kaci (11:07:56
PM): I guess not always, but often
tombuazit (11:07:57 PM): but what you don't want will also be a
desire
tombuazit (11:08:19 PM): I desire to never have sex with a man or
have a penis in my mouth
tombuazit (11:08:31 PM): it is a negative, but still a desie
tombuazit (11:09:15 PM): and you could also have a time where,
"I want to have sex with dandan tonight"
"I want to read this new book I got tonight"
tombuazit (11:09:27 PM): some desires are mutually exclusive
kaci (11:09:43
PM): right
tombuazit (11:09:50 PM): as long as your choice is based on you, and
not on your hangups, thats
fine
tombuazit (11:10:11 PM): and these examples are simple, where in life
there will be several factors
kaci (11:12:02 PM):
but just how many "true desires" do people have that aren't someway
manipulated by fear, morality, etc...seems like you
have to ask yourself why you want or don't want something to know if if is a "hang-up" or not
tombuazit (11:12:07 PM): You have a choice now that contains a
negative desire (not negative as in bad, but negative as in -) and negative
desires are common
tombuazit (11:12:14 PM): yup
tombuazit (11:12:27 PM): at first you do
tombuazit (11:12:41 PM): but as you get better at it, you start to
make your own valid choices
tombuazit (11:12:44 PM): but at first it is had
tombuazit (11:12:46 PM): hard
tombuazit (11:13:03 PM): because fear and morality attempt to sneak
in all the time
tombuazit (11:13:35 PM):
but those are not valid reasons to make your choice. You
as an individual agent, make that choice, based on what you desire.
tombuazit (11:14:04 PM): Sade said the best thing to do, is to make a
list of everything your morality and fear tells you not to do and do them.
tombuazit (11:14:22 PM): to begin the process of breaking yourself of
their clutches
tombuazit (11:14:44 PM): and gain experinces
tombuazit (11:14:59 PM): I am not sure if I am as radical with him on
that, but he believed it
kaci (11:15:58 PM): you said that you make that choice based on
what you desire...
kaci (11:16:14 PM): but also what your desire is based on,
right?
tombuazit (11:16:24 PM): nope,
tombuazit (11:16:36 PM): this is why I use the word agent earlier
tombuazit (11:16:56 PM): the true desires will be based soley on the agent
tombuazit (11:17:06 PM): well I guess ya,
if you read my line
kaci (11:17:41 PM): ?
tombuazit (11:18:07 PM): you asked but also what your desire is based
on, right?
tombuazit (11:18:12 PM): and I should have said
tombuazit (11:18:30 PM): Yes, as long as you understand that the true
desires are based soley on the agent in question
tombuazit (11:18:33 PM): the free agent
tombuazit (11:19:12 PM): it is their inherent desire that should
drive them
tombuazit (11:20:59 PM): ?
kaci (11:21:26 PM): I don't understand that, desires based
on my fears are my own desires I think, so how do I know the difference between
what is the "true" desire and what is my conscious or unconscious
telling me what my desire is?
tombuazit (11:21:45 PM): hmm
tombuazit (11:21:49 PM): hard work
kaci (11:22:07 PM): you are considering my fear and morality as
separate agents from myself?
tombuazit (11:22:51 PM): you must first come to understand your fears
and morality, and the desires based on them will fall away.
tombuazit (11:23:00 PM): yes and no
tombuazit (11:23:14 PM): they are parts of you that are instilled by
outside forces
tombuazit (11:23:27 PM): that have been internlized
tombuazit (11:23:46 PM): that is why they need to be understood and
disarmed.
tombuazit (11:24:24 PM): so that the desires that they create can be
forgotten, and teh desires that they block can be
awoken
tombuazit (11:25:36 PM): did I answer your question?
kaci (11:25:42 PM): yes
tombuazit (11:26:24 PM): ok, that pretty much it for tonight, unless
you want to come over snuggle, and discuss it more
tombuazit (11:26:29 PM):
kaci (11:28:40 PM): no it hasn't all finished sinking in yet, so
I can't make any decisions
tombuazit (11:28:45 PM): lol
tombuazit (11:29:04 PM): I am not trying to get you to make a descion like that
kaci (11:29:06 PM): I'm paralyzed
tombuazit (11:29:12 PM): really?
kaci (11:29:23 PM): no, not really
kaci (11:30:15 PM): but I am still working through some thoughts
on all this
tombuazit (11:30:29 PM): my specialty in philosphy
was the self: free will, ethics, how you learn, the basis of you I guess
tombuazit (11:31:07 PM): Mainly I dealt with stuff like this, my
theory is a combination of Sade, Wittgenstein, and ZhuangZi.
tombuazit (11:31:31 PM): so some of what i
said tonight might have my own theory tossed in the mix, but I think most of it
was pure Sade
kaci (11:32:06 PM): hmmm
kaci (11:32:26 PM): well I was going to say, so much for
talking about you, but maybe that's not totally accurate then
kaci (11:32:32 PM):
tombuazit (11:32:43 PM): most of my work was a conglomeration and explaination of them
tombuazit (11:33:17 PM): I did three essays in Anthro
America, and
several articles for a feminsit philosophical journal
tombuazit (11:33:28 PM): THe study of Sade
is desired, but noone wants to read him
tombuazit (11:33:40 PM): so it is a quick way to get your stuff out
there.
tombuazit (11:33:42 PM): and it is genius
tombuazit (11:34:12 PM): "The Self as Controlled Chaos"
tombuazit (11:34:19 PM): you might find some of it online.
tombuazit (11:34:21 PM): but I doubt it
tombuazit (11:35:19 PM): mostly I was attached by christians, hearlded by only a
few crazy's and had a white supremisest use cut and
past to put it on his site, in an infuriating misconsturment
kaci (11:35:38 PM): lol
tombuazit (11:35:56 PM):
but I attacked post modernism and anyletical thought. So I kind of screwed myself there
tombuazit (11:36:05 PM): but it is what I want to do someday
tombuazit (11:36:16 PM): teach and publish my complete theory
kaci (11:36:40 PM): so if not online, where can I find it?
tombuazit (11:36:47 PM):
PM and AT are the two biggest philosophical groups now. Everyone
is one or the other
tombuazit (11:36:48 PM): don't know
tombuazit (11:36:52 PM): I would try online
tombuazit (11:37:40 PM): I can see if the jounrals
still have copies I could buy, or perhaps, an online site
tombuazit (11:37:45 PM): never really checked
tombuazit (11:37:57 PM): I am was kind of embarased
by the few articals
kaci (11:38:15 PM): why?
tombuazit (11:38:18 PM): I use a lot of examples of sex, and stuff
tombuazit (11:38:57 PM): I had just finished with the
complete works of Sade and all his stories are super super
hardcore S&M pain tourture death stuff,
tombuazit (11:38:59 PM): eating shit
tombuazit (11:39:03 PM): that kind of stuff
tombuazit (11:39:23 PM): so it was just a natural part of the process
to discuss his sexualization with everything
tombuazit (11:39:35 PM): sexualization of everyting I mean
kaci (11:40:07 PM): so you would do it differently now?
tombuazit (11:40:28 PM):
it was his attack on the moral fabric of his society. They
demened sex in public and fucked like bunnies in
private, he wanted to open the doors
tombuazit (11:40:29 PM): ya
tombuazit (11:40:36 PM): and no
tombuazit (11:41:23 PM):
I would want the three main articles in Anthro America
to be the same mostly. The feminst
articles, I wish I would have made them more accessable to others
tombuazit (11:41:54 PM): but toning down sade
looses 1/2 the point
tombuazit (11:42:34 PM): I mean part of the process of libireation is becoming desensitized to those things he
talks about
tombuazit (11:43:05 PM): realizing that everyone has crazy insane
desires, and they should not be bottled up and made violent
tombuazit (11:43:17 PM): I guess not to fear yourself,
tombuazit (11:43:24 PM): it is like a battering ram
tombuazit (11:43:44 PM): Also I would change several of my ideas,
because of a deeper understanding I have now
tombuazit (11:44:13 PM): After so many people attacked the theories
and others accepted them, I have really rethought some stuff, and worked it out
better in my mind
kaci (11:44:40 PM): have you read Robert Pirsig's
Lila?
tombuazit (11:44:47 PM): my understanding of ZhuangZi
and Witt, are imensly better
tombuazit (11:44:49 PM): nope
tombuazit (11:44:56 PM): don't think os
tombuazit (11:45:07 PM): is it philosophy?
kaci (11:45:44 PM): it's fiction, but all about his ideas of
morality
tombuazit (11:45:53 PM): oh
tombuazit (11:46:05 PM): whats the books
name?
kaci (11:46:20 PM): same guy that wrote Zen and the art of motorcycle
maintenance
kaci (11:46:24 PM): Lila
tombuazit (11:46:28 PM): oh ya
tombuazit (11:46:44 PM): good?
kaci (11:47:01 PM): yeah
kaci (11:47:13 PM): I wouldn't mind reading it again actually
tombuazit (11:47:57 PM): cool
tombuazit (11:48:29 PM): wish I could tell you some sade to read
tombuazit (11:48:31 PM): but.....
kaci (11:48:55 PM): well next time we do this I want to hear
about your ideas on mistakes
tombuazit (11:49:01 PM): its kind of brutal stuff, and I hardly go
over anything but the highlgithed pats next time
tombuazit (11:49:07 PM): mistakes?
kaci (11:49:54 PM): yeah
kaci (11:50:00 PM): lol
kaci (11:50:09 PM): another time
tombuazit (11:50:25 PM): simple baby, let them go
tombuazit (11:50:44 PM): let me tell you a little story about me
kaci (11:50:55 PM): oh goody
tombuazit (11:50:59 PM): and it will sum up my idea of both responsibilty, worry and mistakes
tombuazit (11:51:22 PM): In my culture, responsibility is huge
tombuazit (11:52:14 PM):
duty is beat into from a young age, well not beat we rarely strike our chidern, humor works so much better. BUt anyway. We are taught and
taught, and it weighs on us like you would not believe, a blanket that cannot
be reomoved
tombuazit (11:52:38 PM): will one day my friends and i decided to take Acid and go for a walk.
tombuazit (11:52:51 PM): We went out the back door of my house and
walked 4 hours
tombuazit (11:54:22 PM):
close to the top of a Butte near
our town I got lost and ended up at the top alone. I
sat and waited for them. Looking down onto world
bellow. All the little cars,
and little lights moving all over
tombuazit (11:54:30 PM): it was getting dark
tombuazit (11:55:15 PM):
and I realized that if I died up there on that mountain. NOthin in that town would change. Sure
there would be some sobs, and crying, but the town would get over it and get on
getting on
tombuazit (11:56:46 PM):
I felt my self pulled out of my body and raised up into the sky. Looking down on the town it got smaller, and I could see
the whole Rez. I realized that if my REz suddenlly died out the US
wouldn't care. The whole Rez could end, and there
would be some look'n into it, but overall it would be
like nothing had ever been.
tombuazit (11:57:42 PM):
and I slipped higher, looking down onto the planet I thought that if Our world
was destroyed the solar system would keep on keep'n
on. I sure some orbital shifts, but it would keep
going
tombuazit (11:58:28 PM): and even if our solarssytem
went down, the galaxy would keep on, and on and on back I fell, until I hit my
head, on the ground as I fell out of a tree I had been climbing
tombuazit (11:58:31 PM): and it hit me
tombuazit (11:59:10 PM):
that if my entire world could just be gone with no big deal. Why
they hell should I worry too much about fucking up my life
tombuazit (11:59:34 PM): I should I worry, or regret, life would keep
on keep'n on no matter what
tombuazit (11:59:57 PM): so since then I just don't try not to worry
or regret
tombuazit (12:00:55 AM):
I figure it all happens as it did and will. I do my
best, I get my rocks off, I try to make the world a better place, and if I fuck
it up, well, I fucked it up. Do better next time, no
next time, then I don't need to worry
tombuazit (12:00:58 AM): hows that?
tombuazit (12:01:12 AM): I was on a lot lot lot of acid
tombuazit (12:01:29 AM): and weed and liquor and some other herbs
kaci (12:01:35
AM): but do you think there are mistakes then?
tombuazit (12:01:44 AM): yes and no
tombuazit (12:02:11 AM): I think we do things on accident, and we
should try to aviod mistakes, but the past is past
tombuazit (12:02:13 AM): why worry
tombuazit (12:02:16 AM): just live
tombuazit (12:02:42 AM): at the casino my attitude saved us time and
again
tombuazit (12:03:04 AM): people who constantly try to aviod mistakes seem to get caught in um constantly
tombuazit (12:03:18 AM): people who worry seem to have things happen
they need to worry about
tombuazit (12:03:38 AM): I don't worry or dwell
tombuazit (12:03:50 AM): best way to run a busniess
tombuazit (12:03:51 AM): and a life
kaci (12:04:41
AM): yes
kaci (12:05:06
AM): an accident is different than a mistake though
tombuazit (12:05:40 AM): Replace the words hon
tombuazit (12:06:09 AM): it should read we do things by mistake
tombuazit (12:06:43 AM): you should be in philosophy with all your argument
over words
tombuazit (12:06:47 AM): semantics
kaci (12:07:40
AM): but mistakes are a moral issue I think, no?
kaci (12:07:55
AM): or can be
kaci (12:08:12
AM): I am a stickler for semantics
tombuazit (12:08:15 AM): ok, what did I tell you about morals?
tombuazit (12:08:29 AM): morals and morality?
kaci (12:08:46
AM): morality
tombuazit (12:09:12 AM): when we were talking before?
tombuazit (12:09:28 AM): morals and morality are bullshit lies of your
culture
tombuazit (12:09:34 AM): forced on you to keep you inline
tombuazit (12:09:48 AM): if you want to say it is an ethical issue ok
kaci (12:11:25
AM): um...
kaci (12:11:54
AM): you are rigaht
kaci (12:12:13
AM): it is an ethical issue
tombuazit (12:12:17 AM): I guess I need to know what you mean by mistake
tombuazit (12:12:28 AM): I mean I can get into the wrong car by
mistake
tombuazit (12:12:50 AM): or belive that my
coming to hawai' i was a
mistake
kaci (12:13:30
AM): that's why it can be an ethical issue, but not always
tombuazit (12:13:46 AM): I can never see when it would be an ethical
issue?
tombuazit (12:13:52 AM): please explain how it can be
kaci (12:14:10
AM): getting into the wrong car by mistake obviously isn't an
ethical issue
tombuazit (12:15:15 AM): ok
tombuazit (12:15:25 AM): give an example of when it would be
kaci (12:16:19
AM): maybe it's not
kaci (12:17:36
AM): I don't really know, that is why I am asking you about it
kaci (12:19:33
AM): semantics
tombuazit (12:19:54 AM): I think of mistakes as accident's I caused
tombuazit (12:20:02 AM): cause accidents don't really have a cause
tombuazit (12:20:07 AM): and mistakes have me
tombuazit (12:20:55 AM): does that make sense?
kaci (12:21:32
AM): yeah
kaci (12:22:02
AM): but I don't think that by definition, there is any chance
involved in mistakes like there is in accidents
kaci (12:22:13
AM): when you make a mistake you do something wrong
kaci (12:22:23
AM): an accident isn't wrong, it's unfortunate
tombuazit (12:22:33 AM): agreed
kaci (12:22:49
AM): but you could make a mistake due to a misunderstanding
tombuazit (12:23:04 AM): true
tombuazit (12:23:23 AM): but then a misunderstanding can be seen as
either a mistake or an accident
kaci (12:23:55
AM): which still means you are wrong, but.... not really to blame?
kaci (12:24:36
AM): no, I don't think you cause an accident by misunderstanding
something
tombuazit (12:24:56 AM): no, a misunderstanding can be and accident
kaci (12:25:01
AM): maybe
tombuazit (12:25:21 AM): as you accidently
misunderstood, because of chance
tombuazit (12:25:32 AM): or you misunderstood because you were
mistaken about what was said
kaci (12:25:35
AM): yeah I guess so
tombuazit (12:25:43 AM): but thats beside
the point
tombuazit (12:25:53 AM): I think mistakes are unfortunate
tombuazit (12:26:00 AM): ussually
tombuazit (12:26:27 AM): good happy mistakes are ussually
not in need of discussion
kaci (12:26:31
AM): but doesn't that mean that the misunderstaning
was the accident, not that it caused the accident?
tombuazit (12:26:40 AM): yes
tombuazit (12:26:44 AM): that is what it means
tombuazit (12:26:52 AM): that is what I was saying
tombuazit (12:26:57 AM):
kaci (12:28:00
AM): lol
tombuazit (12:28:06 AM): but what about mistakes as ethical issues
kaci (12:28:20
AM): I think I'm tired
tombuazit (12:28:21 AM): I think they are just thigns
we did that turned out bad
tombuazit (12:28:45 AM): but i do think that
we can forsee a mistake, and then it is kind of eithical
tombuazit (12:29:10 AM): cause we then have to choose wheter or not to make the mistake, even though we know its
a mistake
kaci (12:29:39
AM): yeah
kaci (12:29:56
AM): hold on...
tombuazit (12:30:00 AM): I don't know if that is as ethical as it is
dumb
kaci (12:31:11
AM): mistake: an error, to be in error in action, opinion or judgement
tombuazit (12:31:45 AM): but ironicly you
can choose to make that mistake
tombuazit (12:31:59 AM): I told you about my ex wife's roommate right?
kaci (12:32:05
AM): to be in error is to be wrong which means it must be decided
what is wrong
tombuazit (12:32:25 AM): so you can choose to do the wrong thing?
kaci (12:33:33
AM): yeah
tombuazit (12:33:51 AM): cause I choose to do the wrong thing all the
time
kaci (12:34:35
AM): then according to you, you are always making mistakes
tombuazit (12:34:37 AM): Many times I know a girl won't be worth the hassal of sex or friendship, but I will still let things go
tombuazit (12:35:02 AM):
thats what I mean. I make
mistakes I forsee as mistakes
kaci (12:35:18
AM): right
tombuazit (12:35:43 AM): I don't think it's really ethical choice
thought
tombuazit (12:35:53 AM): though
tombuazit (12:35:56 AM): not thought
kaci (12:36:00
AM): but what makes it a mistake, that you decided it was
"wrong" or because it has a bad consequence?
tombuazit (12:37:17 AM): bad consequence
tombuazit (12:38:07 AM): a consequence that is not so bad that the joy
of the mistake is not enough to cover it.
kaci (12:38:53 AM): the dictionary definition doesn't speak
to whether a mistake means it is something that turns out badly, just that it's
something that is wrong...
tombuazit (12:39:13 AM): well an error,
tombuazit (12:39:21 AM): like 2+2=5
tombuazit (12:39:32 AM): what about that equation is the error?
kaci (12:39:54
AM): who knows
tombuazit (12:40:04 AM): you get errors becuase
you get a bad result
tombuazit (12:40:14 AM): your process of getting 5 is an error
tombuazit (12:40:31 AM): 2+2= is the situation
kaci (12:40:45
AM): not if 5 is the desired result
kaci (12:41:01
AM): and the situation should be 2+3
tombuazit (12:41:10 AM): but you don't have enought
add up to 5 which makes it not an error, but a shortage
kaci (12:42:24
AM): ?
tombuazit (12:42:50 AM): what
tombuazit (12:43:20 AM): in that equation the process is wrong cause
of the result
kaci (12:43:35
AM): there's too many ways to look at that example, I'm easily confused
tombuazit (12:43:35 AM): the results are always what makes it a
mistake or an error
kaci (12:44:00
AM): there is still an error either way
kaci (12:44:06
AM): there is still a mistake
tombuazit (12:44:31 AM): because of an unexpeted
result, that was not foreseeable and was not suppose to occur
tombuazit (12:44:46 AM): like you having sex with me
tombuazit (12:45:00 AM): i would say the
first time on your part was a mistake
tombuazit (12:45:22 AM): mistakes don't ahve
to be bad
tombuazit (12:46:22 AM): so I disagree with you dictionary
kaci (12:47:59
AM): so...to make a mistake is to be in error (by definition) and
to be in error is to be wrong and to be wrong is to be bad....
tombuazit (12:48:20 AM):
mistake n 1. incorrect act or decision 2. error 3. misunderstanding vt 1. misunderstand something 2. identify somebody or something incorrectly 3. choose something incorrectly mistaken adj
1. wrong in your opinion 2. based
on incorrect information mister n
tombuazit (12:48:25 AM): that is mine
tombuazit (12:49:32 AM): so do you mean the noun or vt.?
tombuazit (12:49:52 AM): or the adj mistaken
tombuazit (12:50:43 AM): still here
kaci (12:52:27
AM): hello?
tombuazit (12:52:35 AM): hello
tombuazit (12:52:42 AM): did you see my post the definitions
kaci (12:52:48
AM): yes
tombuazit (12:52:51 AM): ok
tombuazit (12:52:57 AM): what happened
kaci (12:52:57
AM): I said does it matter which one?
tombuazit (12:53:11 AM): oh, I guess
kaci (12:53:18
AM): computer sucks is all
tombuazit (12:53:28 AM): if you look, they each have their own meaing
tombuazit (12:53:32 AM): subtilydifferent
kaci (12:53:51 AM):
what about that definition says that a mistake can be good?
if it can even be bad?
tombuazit (12:54:32 AM):
2. identify somebody or something incorrectly 3. choose
something incorrectly
kaci (12:55:03
AM): either way you are incorrect
tombuazit (12:55:06 AM): you could choose teh
incorrect thing, and have it be better then the one you were suppose to
tombuazit (12:55:31 AM): it would be incorrect, but still
"good"
tombuazit (12:56:26 AM): or 2. you are on a blind date, and pick the
wrong person, but fall madly in love
kaci (12:56:26
AM): so making a mistake doesn't mean it is bad or good, right?
tombuazit (12:56:31 AM): right
tombuazit (12:56:33 AM): just wrong
tombuazit (12:56:37 AM): or incorrect
kaci (12:56:42
AM): right
tombuazit (12:57:06 AM): did you have a mistake in mind when you asked
about mistakes?
kaci (12:57:31
AM): no, just a general inquiry
tombuazit (12:57:36 AM): oh
tombuazit (12:57:39 AM): ok
kaci (12:58:07
AM): that scared me!
kaci (12:58:10
AM): lol
kaci (12:58:27
AM): you just helped me figure out what I wanted to know though
tombuazit (12:59:13 AM): did yo do that
kaci (12:59:26
AM): yeah
kaci (12:59:50
AM): I'm sorry, we were supposed to save that conversation for
another time
kaci (12:59:59
AM): now it is even later
tombuazit (1:00:47 AM): thats fine
kaci (1:00:51
AM): where did you get him?
tombuazit (1:00:59 AM): my secret stash
tombuazit (1:01:03 AM): come over and find out
tombuazit (1:01:16 AM): game taunts
tombuazit (1:01:20 AM): under games
kaci (1:01:28
AM): ah
kaci (1:02:02
AM): anywho....
tombuazit (1:02:20 AM): so yiou ready to
talk sexy to me?
tombuazit (1:02:26 AM):
kaci (1:02:33
AM): uuhhh
kaci (1:02:35
AM): no
kaci (1:02:56
AM): I'm ready to sleep though
tombuazit (1:03:07 AM): sounds like fun
tombuazit (1:03:11 AM): I will sleep as well