FIRST JOURNAL ENTRY (10/8/01) | DROP OUT...AGAIN? (XANGA, 1/29/03) | ||
I KNOW WHAT TO DO (10/16/01) | GHETTO VAN/INTERROGATION (XANGA, 1/30/03) | ||
WINTERBALL (12/18/01) | YOU ATE IT ALL? (XANGA, 2/2/03) | ||
AM I ATTRACTED TO HER? (1/21/02) | JUST LEAVE ME ALONE (XANGA, 2/8/03) | ||
I'M SORE/IN PAIN (1/30/02) | STUCK ON THE FREEWAY (2/13/03) | ||
HAPPY BIRTHDAY (4/12/02) | YES, DROP OUT AGAIN (XANGA, 2/18/03) | ||
WE BEAT LINCOLN! (5/2/02) | MY LIFE IS BORING (2/24/03) | ||
AND THEN, IT HAPPENED... (5/12/02) | SOME RANDOM THOUGHTS (3/19/03) | ||
GRADUATION/GRAD TRIP (7/3/02) | MORE RANDOM THOUGHTS (3/26/03) | ||
I NEED TO GET OUT OF HERE (8/5/02) | CHAUFFUER (XANGA, 4/10/03) | ||
CLOSURE (8/16/02) | I DIDN'T EXPECT MUCH TO HAPPEN (4/12/03) | ||
SJSU, HERE I COME! (8/23/02) | I'M SORRY, I CAN'T. I HAVE WORK (5/17/03) | ||
HOOBASTANK! (11/9/02) | ON MY ROOF (5/19/03) | ||
HMMM... (1/3/03) |
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it seems like my life gets more and more depressing every day. school is coming up again. my last year. one more year that'll go by fast and i'm gone. i haven't taken my SAT'S, i haven't taken my swim test, i got a D in U.S history and didn't bother to make it up, and i still don't know what to do with my life or where to go to college. probably the only good thing that's happened recently was my house warming. 10 of my friends came over. it was fun. turns out mikey and matt were the only guys. ok, back to school. i was thinking about becoming a pilot in the navy or air force. i love flying. this year i was thinking about not playing volleyball. i hate to admit it, but i think it's in the way of my school work.BACK TO TOPsomething happened last night which is the reason why i started this journal thing in the first place. a couple of weeks ago, rozanne told me we needed to talk. i guess i'll tell the whole story...
four years ago, i met rozanne on aol. actually, first i met her cousin. when i saw her cousin online again, i IMed her, but it was rozanne. so we started talking online a lot. freshman year was when we started talking on the phone almost everyday (at the time she was living in daly city). sophomore year she moved to vallejo and we sorta lost touch. we rarely talked online. then junior year i moved to daly city. one day when i was talking to her, she told me to page her cause she said she could call, so i did, and we started talking again. a little bit later, we bought this house in antioch. during the school week i would stay @ auntie elvie's house. february was when me and nella starting going out. but we broke up a month later cause it wasn't really working out. we hardly saw each other during school. so i told rozanne. she told me that when i told her i had a girlfriend, she started crying. so, we basically confessed our feelings towards each other, and said we never said anything b/c we didn't want to ruin our friendship (a common reason for many friendships/relationships). well we got closer but the weird thing is, at that time, we still haven't met. we've seen pictures of each other but that was it. she told me about how vallejo changed her. how on her "4th" b-day (leap year), she did so many bad things. but she said she didn't like it, which is good. one thing she didn't mind doing (i guess) was sneak out with her friends late at night. anyways, last month i went to l.a. for a church conference. i bought her an angel-like, blueish, purpleish stuffed eeyor. (they didn't have a stuffed belle at disneyland). when i got back from l.a., i decided to drop it off. so i asked for her address, saying my parents will let me come over some time. on my way there i bought a yellow rose (i know yellow means friendship, but that's her favorite color). so i got to vallejo, thinking i knew how to get there. after an hour of driving around, i call her and ask for directions. so i finally get there and park across the street. i casually walk across the street, casually walk to her driveway, casually place the items i got for her down, then RAN across the street and hid behind my car. i had my dad's cell phone so i called her and told her to look out at her driveway: "hey! you came here?" "nah, my friend dropped it off for me." so she went outside and walked towards the gift. and i tell her, "hey look across the street. do you see anything?" "uh... no" "okay, look right, down the street." "uh... no.. oh wait! uh.. no." then i got up from my hiding place. "look across the street again." and she looked... "you're such a dork." we didn't really get to see each other cause she had to go back in. so i drove all the way there, got lost, dropped off the gift, just to see her for less than a minute... but it was well worth it.so now it brings me to last night. one day she said we needed to talk and that it would be better in person. last night my parents slept in the city so i drove to vallejo after 11, when her parents were at work. it was the first time i've seen her up-close. well, we started talking and she told me the story. when she snuck out w/ her friends, they would sometimes go to fairfield. in fairfield, she met this guy and started liking him. a lot. she told me other stuff like how he's the jealous type and all. i didn't mention anything about us b/c i knew she was over me. she kept asking if i was concerned about anything. i said no. we went to jack in the box cause she was craving a shake, but i ended up buying her chili fries. hehe. that was when i asked. i asked about us. she said that she's liked me for the longest time, even when she had a boyfriend she said she would sometimes think about me. but when she met that guy, she lost all feelings towards me. i acted like it didn't bother me cause at the time, it really didn't. i got home at 2 in the morning. that night i coudln't sleep. it felt like i was stabbed in the heart and the knife was twisted so the wound wouldn't heal. i wrote about it in my aol profile. i changed my profile a lot, writing what i felt. i know i'll get over this. i just need some time. i loved her so much. i guess we'll just wait and see. school hasn't started yet and already it feels like the worst year of my life. i guess the reason why i want to be w/ a girl is b/c i'm so lonely. every time i would start to have feelings for someone else i'd force myself to stop b/c i loved rozanne. now i don't know if i want to deal w/ relationships. i'll just stay single my whole life, and die a loner. right now i'm watching dave letterman. i'll probably go to sleep at 3 again. staying up late, waking up late, living my boring, loser life on the internet, beating everyone at yahoo pool. i go on so much. it's addicting. i'll just wait til everyone goes to sleep so they won't want to use the phone. i want to cut my hair now. i tried growing it out, but it's hard. it's about 3 inches now. i bought these clippers but the longest is ½ an inch. i might cut it that short. it's just hard getting hair the way you want it. i need a hairstylist. hehe. oh well. i'll see you later.
oh! cirocco's in the play too. so is david, wayne, charisse, april, christine, sue may, george, davin,
and other people. the usual singers and actors, and some new people. i can't wait to start performing.
it's going to be so fun. hold on. let me try to call rozanne...what the hell is 808? i dialed that, then
528. what is that? anyway, it was busy, as usual. i wonder who she's talking to. should i page her?
i really want to talk to her. well, star trek's almost on. damn i'm such a trekkie. hey! but it's cool
and you know it! 9:55PM
9:31PM wow. i haven't written in a long time. i finally finished my homework early...well, somewhat
early. so much stuff has happened. i took my SAT's last saturday. i think i did okay. i was more
relaxed than i thought i would be. i finally figured out what i want to do & where i want to go. i
want to be an air force pilot. in order to do so, i must have my degree. so, i really want to go to
san jose state b/c they're pretty big in flying, i think. and they have an AFROTC. if i join that,
i can get a scholarship. i'm really stressing out w/ apps & school stuff. i'm doing pretty bad in
all my classes. the only thing close to relaxing is the musical b/c it's fun. i play bud frump. what
a character! it's pretty funny but i feel that i say things certain ways that doesn't make it funny.
and my singing isn't that great. at least i can hit the high notes. i've been going home every weekend.
we have cable! yes! it's still boring. cable makes it worse cause you get hooked on it. i really need
to send my apps in. hmm...should i call rozanne? haven't talked to her on the phone in a long time.
it's always busy and i don't want to page her. i read her profile over the weekend. it's a song about
missing someone. is it me? she IMed me and asked when i was going to visit her again. what does this
mean? i think i still like her. i always did. she said she might go to sjsu also. ain't that cool? we
could be roommates! ha! i wish.
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novdec 2001
9:24PM i can't believe i wrote nov. why? i don't know. winterball was last weekend. the place was cool.
i went to jenna's house to pick her up & meet alla there. her whole family was having a party. as soon
as i came in, everyone started making that cheering noise & stuff. all loud. it overwhelmed me. hehe.
her cousins were upstairs helping jenna get finished. they all kept looking at me. i met jenna's stepmom's
dad. he was hard to comprehend (whoo...big word). he talked very softly and it was loud. alla got there
by the time jenna was ready. we took pictures by the christmas tree. then me & jenna (jenna & i) followed
alla to her date's house. we decided to take 1 car b/c it was easier. we got at the metreon a little early
but decided not to eat. too bad. i was starving. we walked around for a while. by the time we got to the
fourth floor, there were hella people. as soon as we got in, we took pictures. the photographer told
me to put my hand in my pocket. i tried to be all smooth and swung my jacket around to my back. i ended
up knocking the tree over. everyone was laughing. i didn't know what else to do, so i just bowed. after,
we walked around the place, trying to see what was there. it was pretty interesting. then we started
dancing, & dancing.... & dancing. when they were announcing the king & queen, some guy threw up...
"and the king and queen...morgan wallace and sami-" braghfoughbrahf!!!! it was pretty nasty. they
started clearing the area. i thought they did it b/c the court was dancing there. people stepped on
the barf. vomit. throw-up (including kim...hehe). that's basically all that happened. on our way back, i
fell asleep without knowing. i was hella tired b/c i didn't eat anything after v-ball tryouts. i did
horrible in the tryouts. my hip was still bothering me from when i dove on it the week before. plus
my shoes sucked like hell. they have no cushioning & it felt like i was playing barefoot. i was tired &
in pain when norm made us do our 5 lines (the whole gym). then he made the returning players sprint
4 laps. he told me to sit out b/c i was dizzy, but i jogged the laps. after tryouts i drove laura,
lin. & cherrylenne to walgreen's on 9th st. i had to pick them up first, of course. i went to guitar
center to play the electric drums. i love double bass pedals. hmmm... this pen is running out of ink
already. i bought a whole pack of these. i hella blocked norm today. i made this face at him & realized
after how stupid it was. it was my warface w/ me yelling...hehehe. damn it felt good. i'll most likely
hit tomorrow. i haven't hit in a while. well, i guess i'll go now. see ya. 10:00PM
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10:37PM damn it's been hella long since i wrote. well, new year, new semester. i didn't pass trig,
so i had to switch out of my adv. math topics. it's okay. i write like a girl. i got all the classes
i signed up for, which is cool. i got to see rozanne the weekend before she left for the philippines.
spent a couple of hourse at her house. i found this kick butt website on drawing. hopefully i can get the real book. oh! i found out why i
haven't gotten my letter from sjsu yet... i told you about my receipt right? how it says sprign
<-- whoa. spring. well, i talked to a worker lady there & she said i applied for fall. then she said,
"since i'm talking to you, you didn't turn in your application fee yet." and i was like "yo hol' up
biznatch! i did foo! i gots mah receipts right heres yo! besta recognize mah nizzle!" and she said
"oh, you're right. i see. the secretary forgot to check your name."so yeah. oh and i'm eligible for
the scholarship. i have to get interviewed. i'm scared. you know, i think i'm attracted to sue may.
do i want to be? no, but i am and i can't help it. i've been flirting with her a lot. she's been
hugging me and stuff. okay, maybe just that one time. i never thought i'd have feelings for sue may.
i'm in dance with her so i get to dance w/ her everyday. hehehe. i bought these plaid pajama pants
for dance class. i wish i had more stuff to wear. i'll wear volleyball stuff like shorts. hehe.
wouldn't that be weird if we started going out? i guess not. i can see
myself with her. but i am such a pessimist. rozanne doesn't like me anymore. aw boohoo =(. my back
hurts. it feels like it's been rubbed by sand paper all day. 11:06PM
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8:27PM i'm writing kinda slow. i guess that's why it looks a lot neater. dance class is cool. i got
confused & lost & i can't do turns & i can't do anything else but that's okay. trig is easy. it's just
going to be a semester of review. last night tamiko came over. oh, no. i think it was monday. she
wanted to do soemthing so we went bowling. it was fun. we kept fooling around. after, we went to red
robin & had this apple pie crumb thing with ice cream on top. it was really sweet but good. i wasn't
used to tasting hot & cold at the same time. it was weird. wow. i'm writing like a girl...cool(?) i'm
still sore from condition yesterday. after we did our sprint relay, i had this pain on my back legs,
then i started cramping up like hell on my foot. now my right thigh hurts & my right forearm hurts
b/c tony ran into it full-speed. yesterday norm told the setters not to do as much. we brought a ball
out w/ us (the setters) & norm made this stupid rule about how we have to hold on to it at all times
& if one of the players hits it or gets it away from us, we have to do 20 burpies. oh & we're not
allowed to put it in our bag either. harvey dropped it off the bleachers when we were doing froggies.
hmm...what else should i write about? i'm waiting for rozanne to call back but i doubt she will. maybe
i'll bring my football to conditioning. today was a light workout. we got out at 4:30 b/c norm had to
go to costco to buy more candy. i sold... 2 bags. yes! alex sold.. what.. 21? i think. that boy works
too hard. chris didn't come so we had to run 2 extra laps. i'm lazy and i'm out of shape. brb. i had
to get the laundry from the van. hehehe. they're watching candid camera. they drew a hopscotch thingy
on the floor & filmed people as they walked by. some of them did it. sue may was bored last night so
i tried to make her laugh. it worked. yay! i got her LOL...ing..hehe. woo! oh yeah. i have this project
for dance class. we have to make a collage. i'm gonna use a bunch of pictures. my nephew aj came over
last night. he's so cute. he found this can and said "de agua" (of water). "i shake et." he was pointing
to a yellow lightbulb and said "ball." so i told him it was "luces" (lights). he still wanted it. i
want to bring him to school one day. such a chick magnet. well, goodbye. 9:03PM
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happy birthday to me! i am finally "legal." i can honestly say this has been the best b-day so far.
my first surprise was right at midnight. sue may was the first one to greet me happy b-day. my mom
called in the morning too. during spanish the group around me was writing a "card" and gave it to me
during class. tamiko was there too. she painted this really cool picture for me. then sharon, sue may,
felicia, and aldina came w/ me to my car b/c sue may had to go home to pick up stuff. when i got to my
car, it was decorated. sharon tied balloons to my mirror, taped streamers in the back and wrote "it's
my birthday" with masking tape on my back window. sue may gave me this journal that i'm writing in.
during volleyball practice we had a meeting in room 21. then norm told everyone except me and harvey to
go back upstairs. i forgot what he told us. when i got upstairs, they surprised me. they put this banner
on the net. we had cake and ice cream. some of them pitched in and got me diesel shoes. after that i
went to the hospital to visit dad and mom gave me $100. i was glad to see that dad was recovering well.
i tried calling sue may on her cell cause they were eating dinner for sharon's b-day, but she didn't
answer. i finally got a hold of them and went to the beach. i got there before them so i walked around
by myself. i got back to my car and sue may
was there. she scared the hell out of me. so we had a
bonfire and hung out.
it was pretty relaxing, but kinda cold. it was around 11:30 when the fire started
to die out and we wanted to start heading home. i dropped georgiana off, then sharon. i told sue may i
didn't want to go home. i was on my way, or we were on our way to her house when she said she didn't
want to go home either. so we went down sunset, went through the park and looked for the ghost on 19th
ave, went down geary, ended up on market street, then we went to treasure island. we got there at around
12:30. it was nice and calm. we just chilled in my car, talking. we talked about everything, from fobs,
to our past. we stayed there until 3 b/c she said it was pretty late. i actually wanted to stay longer.
i just didn't want to go home. plus it was cool just hanging out with her. we didn't talk at all about
our feelings. i'm not sure if she does share the same feelings for me. i really want to know, but i think
it's wise of me just waiting. i think she's still "confused". last night was probably one of the best
days of my life. i didn't want it to end. i couldn't help wondering if sue may does like me. why did she
want to go out w/ me? she had a party to go to, but she stayed w/ me. then i thought that she would have
done it w/ anyone. well, i'm talking to her right now (big surprise). oh yeah. it's april 13 today. i
wrote this over a two day period. ok. just to clear things up a bit. good....morning. happy birthday
sharon!
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WE BEAT LINCOLN!!! oh man, this was the best game ever. everyone was so pumped up. they pulled ahead
first b/c i messed up. but the first game was closer than i thought. harvey set me this nice 3 that i
hit so hard & it found the hole! well, there was no block. hold up, my hand is starting to cramp up.
okay, i got so many blocks today i don't even remember how many. the scores were 16-14 (?) lincoln,
15-8 lowell, 15-11 lincoln, 15-4 lowell, 21-19 lowell!! i don't know where to start! okay, i got 2
kills off the 3, a couple from right side, and a few from outside. i got blocked once (it was a 2) and
dug a couple of times. my favorite hit was a tip from right side. i started smiling even before i jumped
b/c i somehow knew this was gonna fall. i got two kills from setting the ball to campfire, and one by
an overpass in a critical part of the game (last set). i'm not sure how many assists i got, but i was
way off on the outside. i kept pushing the sets too far out. i can't believe how many blocks i got
(or touches). they actually avoided setting my side! i'm talking to thomas about it now. it easily could
have went either way. so much crap man. we had more chances of winning though. damn i can't believe
we won. okay. moving on. a couple of days ago i IMed sue may saying she was beautiful. then i said,
"sorry, i couldn't help it." you know what she did? she smiled and said i was so sweet! i feel special
when she asks if i'm okay or how my legs are (hehe). it's like she really cares for me. i don't want
to get too confident though. wow. she just said i made her smile when i walked into her store looking
happy. she said the more i'm happy, the more it makes her smile. that makes me happy. wow. a lot of
happiness going on here. every time i see her, it makes me happy. there goes that word again. happy
happy happy....
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i was wrong. what could have happened....happened. it all started at charisse's cotillion.
(which was fun btw). we got through most of the night. everyone was walking around. i sat in my chair with my arm on the
next chair. sue may came over and we started holding hands for a while. i really didn't care if people
saw us holding hands. i wonder if she did. it was kinda under the table. hehe. later on that night the
dancing started. i was too hot to dance so i waited for a while, sitting in my chair again. sue may came
over again and sat next to me. my arm was around her shoulder (in clear view of everyone). hehe. pat came
over and was pointing to the both of us. he gave us that look of "you two? really? wow." then he gave us
the thumbs up. we both started laughing. we just sat there laughing at everyone dancing cause they were all
fooling around. especially chris. a while later alla and jenna came over and started talking to us. then
alla saw me holding the room key and was like "you two going up to the room?" riiiiiiiiiiiiight..... sue
may got me dancing b/c i was falling asleep. will played a slow song but it was "we're not makin' love
no more." people were planning to sleep in the room & charisse didn't want me to leave yet so i went upstairs
too. it was about 1 in the morning and only me, sue may, charisse, and hansen were there. sue may couldn't
stay cause she had work today, and i couldn't stay cause i'd get in trouble, but charisse & hansen were like
"just stay, we're leaving in the morning anyway." i was too tired to drive and charisse gave me a good reason
to tell my parents, so i stayed. charisse and hansen were knocked out. me and sue may couldn't really
sleep. i guess i kept waking her up. i guess i just wasn't used to the room yet. we fell asleep a couple
of times but we kept waking up. sometimes i laid there, staring at her, and then she would open her eyes.
well we couldn't sleep at all. it was around 5 in the morning when we started "waking" up again. we kept
laughing at charisse and hansen. i forgot why. they just looked funny (not in a bad way). i think it was
b/c hansen was so big, taking up all this space, and hiding inside the blankets was charisse. you wouldn't
even know she was there. hansen's alarm went off @ 7:45 but we were too lazy to get up. we just stayed in
bed. charisse and hansen left a little later and we tried to get more sleep... didn't happen. we got a couple
of minutes but that was it. i was about to fall asleep when sue may dug her nail into my hand. it hurt
like crazy. she didn't even know cause she was sleeping. she planned to be home by 9 cause she had work
at 11. i got out of bed at 9, only to use the bathroom. finally we both got up and got ready. on our way
home we both looked half dead. i was so tired. i didn't really get in trouble. i told them it was too
late to drive home last night. well i dropped sue may off and that was the last that i saw of her this
weekend. well, i'll see her tomorrow, and i'll see you later. imma try to catch up with some sleep.
goodnite...
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well, to update on summer, yay! my nephew's here. haven't seen him in a while. we're supposed to be going
to l.a. to visit cameron, then we're going to vegas to stay with my sister a couple of days. me and sue
may talk on the phone pretty much everyday. last time i saw her was last week. we just watched tv at her
house cause she couldn't take the car. speaking of cars, mine is broken. the radiator had a crack in it
and it overheated when i was going from sf to antioch. the engine kept shaking too. last friday i went to
sjsu w/ kingston, helen, and nina. it was fun, but boring at the same time. after going there it made me
want to go there even more, but at the same time, it made me scared. scared of doing bad and maybe failing
out of school. they said 1 out of 3 students will be on probation by the end of the first semester. that's
scary. i turned in my college stuff, oh & i'm looking for a job. hopefully @ guitar center. oh yeah, sue
may visited me here. that was the day my car overheated. after i drove her home. mikey's planning to come
here w/ some volleyball people, but not this week cause he has work & i'm going to be gone. i finally
started dling mp3's. cool huh? it's about time. i am so computer illiterate, but i'm slowly learning. i'm
listening to the radio to find more songs to get, but i don't know the names of them, and i don't know who
sang them. okay, i'm pretty much done with this looooong entry. hopefully i'll keep writing, if i'm not
too lazy. which i am. seriously, i've been waking up at noon. it's horrible. i know... so is my writing.
it's been over a month since i last wrote in this. okay. grad trip was fun. i didn't take that much photos.
oh. let me come back to that. graduation... yes, we finally graduated. it was an emotional day for a lot
of people. helen, for one, started crying when we started walking in. as i was standing there, waiting to
sit down, i started to reminisce(<--eh?) about the past four years. i had a lot of good times at lowell,
and now my experience is over. it sucks. i know i'm hella gonna miss lowell. i admit it was tough holding
back tears (i'm a big softy, i know), but i did manage to hold them back. well graduation was pretty long,
but finally, it was my moment. i started preparing by cracking my neck, & getting loose, you know.. hehe.
then, mr. dayco called my name. i heard this loud cheer as i walked towards mr. chang. shook his hand, and
walked down. i don't know how i felt at the moment. all i could do was smile. afterwards, all the hype of
graduation slowly began to fade until eventually it was as if nothing special happened. it just came and
gone. after i picked up my diploma i went looking for people, sue may of course. i followed behind her. she
was looking for people too. she stopped and turned around. we stared at each other until we came to each
other and hugged. i spent the rest of the time there taking pictures w/ everyone. then i ended up eating
at sizzler with brian, jeff, and george, which is very ironic, being that i've never really hung out with
them. my parents left me to go eat, so i was feeling alone. hehe. the next day was senior last dance but
i went to school early to take care of last minute business. ms. chan wanted to give me something as a
going away gift, and for joining that little focus group. i ended up in the yearbook room and stayed there.
i picked up sue may then went home to change. dance was cool. it was really fun actually. afterwards everyone
was getting emotional, hugging & crying. it was a good way to end the year, to end the last day of our lives
as high school seniors. we went to jess's party after. people getting drunk, of course. not me. well, the
night ended w/ someone getting maced by a "regulator", starting all this crap for no apparent reason. then it
was time for senior trip. oh man was it a long trip to l.a. the air conditioning in our bus was broken. it
sucked. it was so hot in the bus. plus we sat in the back where the engine was (and restroom, might i add).
then there was about an hour or so left and the bus driver announced we could open the emergency hatch on
the ceiling all the way open. everyone was mad. hehe. the rush of wind felt so good though. later it got kinda
cold. so we went to hard rock café first. it was alright. we had a choice of hamburger, cheeseburger,
or gardenburger, like i expected, but it was good. then we went to disneyland for "grad night": 11pm-5am. oh
that was tiring. i was too tired to really enjoy it, but it was fun. we got back and i fell asleep in the girls'
room. we only got 3 hours. hehe. we had to go to the beach. it was really relaxing. i made my lounge chair in
sand, which has become an unofficial ritual of mine, so-to-speak. it was very comfortable. well we tried to
leave but some people went off somewhere and didn't come back, making us about an hour late. we got ready
for midieval times. now that was cool. we had to eat with our hands. nope. no utensils in this place. we had,
what the girls like to call, the "hot/cute" blue knight. ALL the girls were jocking him. i got seperated from
everyone else. the knight threw the rose to sue may. that bastard! =) it's okay cause he gets killed >=). after
that people decided to party since it was our last night. ever since we got back to the hotel i was roaming around
everywhere. i was bored. i went to the 8th floor, where no students were, down to the 3rd floor where everyone
was partying, then down to the lobby. later i tried looking for sue may but i couldn't find her, so i assumed she
went to bed. i ended up in the lobby by myself at around 1 or so, just chillin there, playing cards... by myself..
i played with christine and karen later. pat and alla came down later, then desiree, and we just started talking.
some serious issues man. i actually prefer
just sitting there, talking about nothing than partying. i don't know what's wrong with me. well i got back to my
room at 5 in the morning and accidentally fell asleep. later i found out sue may went back to her room at 3. oh
well. i fell asleep on the la-z-boy. i woke up at 8 and got ready for six flags. some people were running late,
oversleeping, with their hangovers... a lot of people fell asleep on the way there. i'm sure they were tired from
last night. six flags was, of course, fun. i've never been there. the trip back home
seemed to take half an hour cause everyone was asleep. sharon stayin in l.a. w/ her sister. when i was sleeping
in the chair, sung was sleeping across the aisle from us. he had the whole row to himself. anyways, while i was
sleeping, i suddenly felt something poking me. by the time i realized it was sung's toe, he had his whole foot
on my ribs. what the? eh, it's okay. after a pit stop, sue may fell asleep on the whole chair, so i stood
up behind the chairs, in front of the restroom. then i ended up falling asleep on the floor, which turned out
to be rather comfortable. it was warm. hahaha. we got back to lowell at 4 in the morning. we said our goodbyes,
i said goodbye to sue may, and i slowly walked up eucalyptus drive to the M stop. i missed the train. darn. so i
had to wait an hour in the cold for the next one. it was really really cold. so we get to west portal, but the
tunnel wasn't open so we had to get out and wait in the cold for the bus (we meaning people that were
crazy enough to be awake at 5 in the morning). anyways, i got to powell and caught the FIRST bart train of the day, to
pittsburg. ironic how it worked out that way. then i had to wait for my parents to pick me up. i got home
at 8am, yes, 4 hours later. plus i had choir rehearsal at 1, so i went to sleep and my mom woke me up later.
and that... was it. the last adventure as a group w/ lowell. i didn't want to end it. i didn't want to go
home, or leave l.a. i didn't want to stop seeing my friends, but i knew it had to end sometime. i've made
so much friends at lowell, more than i expected. and unfortunately, i lost a few. it was a new experience
for me, growing up as a loner, basically. i never really started haning out with friends until i got to
high school. it was fun. the best four years of my life so far, and now it's over. on my way home, even
though i was dead tired, i couldn't help but enjoy the morning. that day, i really felt like i accomplished
something huge. something i never thought i would accomplish. i had this sense of independence... of being
able to do anything. so, what's next for me? well, college. that means new experiences, a new "life". i
must take what i've learned in high school and use it to survive. not only the things i learned in class
(which isn't a lot), but also what i learned from life experiences. it's pretty scary, but i know i have
friends that are going through the same thing. i can't wait. the only thing i have to say to the world
out there is, "i accomplished this, now bring it on" (yes. very corny. i know).
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i really don't know what the date is today. or what time it is. i don't have a clock in my room. judging
by rex's 4 alarms going off... 7 times, i'd say it's around 3:45am. i just finished reading sharon's
memory book. it reminded me of the good times at lowell. i tell you, that girl can write! reading her
journal really touched me in a way i can't even describe. so many memories. you know, a girl like sharon
doesn't come around too often. i can't believe how lucky i am to know her. okay, my brother's getting
ready to take a shower. today was the first day i've seen sharon since grad trip. if you ask me, that's
just way too long NOT seeing that girl. she made spaghetti, then we went to the beach. it was so beautiful
there. it looked so different. so.. so...clean. the whole beach was flat and the wind made the sand smooth.
it was actually a little too windy. i dropped her off and went to play volleyball. i don't really want
to get into that right now. i think i pulled a muscle. man that was a quick shower. well, after v-ball, i
picked up sharon and we went to get her album at cheryl's house. then we went to kinkos. i had a lot of
fun today. and now i'm really tired but i don't want to sleep yet. well, college has been on my mind a
lot. i'm afraid i won't be able to go to sjsu. thanks to housing. i got a loan which covers tuition, it's
just that housing is way too expensive and my parents can't afford it (notice how i said my parents and
not me). they're trying to get a loan right now. oh, remind me to turn in the request form tomorrow, before
they run out of money to give to me. did i tell you i bought a guitar? takamine. on sale for $250. it's
an acoustic/electric. nothing fancy. just something i can learn with. so yeah, back to college. mom asked
me a couple of days ago why i wanted to go to san jose state. "it's too far," she said. i didn't say
anything. i didn't want to tell her that i didn't want to be stuck here. i guess i'm just tired of having
to tell them where i'm going or when i'm coming back. i'm tired of them always getting mad at me for always
playing volleyball or always sleeping late. i'm tired of them bothering me. i guess you can say i'm tired
of them... caring for me. yet there's a part of me that doesn't want to leave. but i have to. how else
will i learn? and how else will i grow? hold on. my dad's awake. gotta pretend like i fell asleep.....
okay.. i'm using the tap light as my source of.. well, light. dad turned my lamp off. it's so sad to hear
him so tired from walking up and down the stairs. he's so out of shape. that's another reason why i want
to stay... to be with my dad, due to his condition and all. but i sorta feel obligated you know?. he's
looking really skinny now. lost a lot of weight. his pants are huge on him. i don't know how my parents
are, or how they're dealing with this. i haven't asked. in fact, we've never had one of those heart to
heart talks... ever. here i am, wanting to leave them. it sucks how much i take them for granted. i want
to open up to them, but a part of me can't. i feel a sense of awkwardness doing so. i guess you can't say
that we have a close relationship. i don't know why. i'm the "baby" of the family, so i they can't really
let go. i think. i'm gonna play guitar.
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wow, i just noticed i started writing my dates differently now. you know what i forgot to talk about? how
things are between me and sue may. that day when me, sue may, and sharon were supposed to go out, we
couldn't get a hold of sharon so we just ended up wathcing a movie. i was scared. i didn't know how
things would be. not to my surprise, it was okay. right from the moment we said hi. i am actually kinda
glad sharon wasn't there. it gave me a chance to really put closure on me and sue may's relationship. it
let me see that things were really going to be okay between us. sharon asked me on the phone last night
if i missed sue may. i told her that i did, a little, sometimes. i sometimes think about our time together,
but i've moved on. i know it's over. as for rozanne, well, things aren't really the way i hoped it would
be. then again, i'm not sure how i want things to be. she said she needs to talk to me again, and that
it need to be in person (hmm.... sounds familiar). i haven't been talking to her lately. she said that
she came to a "conclusion" about us. no, it was that she had closure or something. so, i pretty much
can guess that she's going to say. i guess i'm okay with it. it's just we've been through so much stuff
together in the past, for a long time. i can't help thinking about what it would have been like. you
know, with her...
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okay. it's decided. me & rudy are going to get a cheap studio, or a room for the both of us. he said
forget about the other two guys. actually he said something else but i choose not to write it. i went
to san jose state today, for the convocation crap. boring as hell. i got to see everyone though. the rest
of the cool. i spent the afternoon pretty much with jorge, tuan, sam, & rudy. oh and kingston too. okay,
so here's the plan. i have no choice but to commute the first week. kingston said i could sleep over. i'll
sleep over sunday night, since school starts monday. then come home monday or sleep over another night.
man this is crooked. hoep <--- woops. hopefully i can get the van for a couple of days. then, depending
on when i can, i'll get my mom to sign the lease if we need her to. i figure by the end of the week, or
early next week, we'll be able to move in, given that we actually have a place to stay. if not, then i'm
going to have a lot of free time. for books, let's see... i was hoping i could use some of the financial
aid money to pay for it, but since i haven't gotten it yet, i guess i'll have to ask my mom, or borrow
from... oh! rica! yeah. then once i get the money (if there's still enough to give to me) then i'll pay
her back. i can apply for that air force scholarship again. if not, at least for work-study. okay.
enough about that. i just got off the phone with rozanne. it appears that she has a boyfriend. she said
things between us weren't going anywhere. despite knowing how we feel towards each other. she wants to
be friends forever. i expected something like this and prepared for the worst, so i'm okay with it. really.
i think. i guess it's just best for the both of us. i don't know. deep down inside i have this feeling
that we're supposed to be together (cliché, i know). i know someday we will be and regret taking
so long. hehe. i think. i'm not sure. so it's okay. i can wait. at least now i can go around school
(hopefully) meeting new people (or girls, whatever), not having to worry about how rozanne will react to
it. hey. as long as she's happy, i'm happy (another cliché...darn) you know what? i've started a
lot of my journal entries on the back side of teh page. i hate that side. i hate the bottom too! oh well.
san jose state! here i come! (cliché) AOL time!
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HOOBASTANK!!! last wednesday i
went w/ sharon and sue may to see hoobastank @ the fillmore. okay. let me start at the beginning. monday
i started school at ntc. i like it a lot. the teacher's great,
the guys are great (and i do mean guys. 8 guys and we had one girl but she's gone). we're always laughing
and joking around. and omg the secretary is hot! my class is from 12:30-4:00 and all students have
friday off. on wednesday, after school, i picked up sharon and i drove to the city. sue may was in line
already. we got in and the venue was really nice.
greenwheel opened first. then hometown hero. they were a little bit crazy. actually, they were cool.
the guitarist and dummer kept messing with each other; throwing water bottles, knocking over the drum
set, messing with the mic, it was funny. greenwheel was really good, i thought. the lead singer sang
really well. while they were setting up for hoobastank, the crowd started getting a little hectic, but i
guess you expect from a rock concert. so hoobastank finally came on and they just rocked the stage. they
performed every song on their album and one old one since their songs are really short. they finished off
with remember me. we were on the second row of people in front of dan. i enjoyed the concert on another
level, i guess. instead of rocking out like everyone else, i observed more. i just enjoyed the reality
of being in a concert, and i watched almost every move that they made; how dan messed up on running away
and looked off stage at someone and said "whoa", how someone on greenwheel or hometown hero (i forgot)
started smoking on stage, how the guitar that doug played was yellow, how the hoobastank symbol on the
black head of the base drum had a hole on the right part. stuff like that. i enjoyed that. i mean of
course i liked the songs, and sang along, and kinda head banged a while, but.. iuno what's wrong with me.
yeah. hehe. we stayed after and got their autographs. they signed my cd. except dan cause he didn't have
a marker. everyone was gone except for the band, friends, and family. we started talking to
markku, who
is so cool. so laid back. you always hear how celebrities are laid bak and friendly, but you don't really
believe it until you experience it yourself. i didn't really talk much, but sue may and sharon talked w/
them, joking around and stuff. markku freaked sue may! hahaha. he said we should go snowboarding. i
think he was serious. sharon's dealing with that right now. we left at 1:30ish, when it started
raining. we dropped sue may off, then i started the looooooooooooong drive back to davis. sharon fell
asleep cause she was tired and i told her to sleep. there was a nasty storm that night. pretty scary. the
car kept getting tossed around so i had to drive slower, which made the drive longer. after i dropped
her off, i made the looooooong drive back home. i took the long way, since it was safer. i had to stop
in concord to get gas cause i was practically empty. i got at the gas station and the guy was sleeping.
poor guy. he looked so lost when i tapped on the window and woke him up. so i finally get home at 4 in
the morning. to my surprise, the lights are on. so i quietly come in. good thing the alarm wasn't on. i
heard my mom and i thought she was in the laundry room, but she was in the kitchen. i heard her walk
to the stairs so i hid behind the bottom of the steps, where the piano is. but she was in the living room.
i walked towards the stairs and i see her sitting on the couch eating an apple or something, so i ran
into the guest room, in front of the stairs, hoping she didn't see me. she didn't. good. i waited there
for her to go to the kitchen, which took about a minute or too. then i went upstairs. rex was still in the
bathroom, from his shower, so he didn't hear me. i've never had to sneak INTO my own house before. i
somewhat had a hard time sleeping cause my left ear was ringing really loudly. it still is right now,
sometimes, and not too loud anymore. alright. i'm going to bed.
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okay, i completely deleted my website. it sucks. it was horrible. trust me, if you didn't see it,
you're lucky. my parents were nagging me yesterday about sleeping so late. i was up at 2 and my
parents woke up. that's part of the reason why i want to get out of here. we're selling our house
cause we're in a financial situation right now. my dad's on disability and all. but i've talked
about this before. so if you don't know, just IM me. anywho, if no one buys the house, then we'll
be forced to keep paying. but my parents don't know how they're gonna do that. if someone DOES buy
it, then my parents want to move closer to san francisco... which means i move out and get a studio
in sacramento (for school), or i drop out of school... again. yes, i went to san jose state for the
first... week. hehe. it just wasn't gonna work out. well, i thought it wasn't. but i mean it's cool.
i really like this small tech school that i'm at right now (
http://www.ntcollege.com" ). plus the
secretary is really hot. =) i'm beginning to really believe my life sucks. "no it doesn't ronald.
don't say that". that's most likely what you're saying. but trust me, if you knew what i was going
through, what i'm facing, you would think so too. "everyone has a rough time in their life". i can
read your mind. i'm telapathetic. i want to go on forever about how i feel. what i'm going through,
but you're probably bored right now, if you actually are reading (which i doubt). alright. i think
i'm gonna hit the haystack that is my bed. thank you for listening...
"it's never goodbye, but see you later."
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Wednesday, January 29, 2003
it's amazing how a 15 min nap can really re-energize you. i was really tired after class so i took
a nap before i drove home. it's also amazing how 9 mins makes a difference too. c'mon, admit it, you
all push that snooze button. we all have it. well, in my case, it's not 9 mins.. it's 9, 18..27....
63 mins. heheh why is it 9 mins? i've heard of some that's 5. but 9? why not 10? you might as well
make it 9 mins, 37 secs, 8 milliseconds. anyways, after my nap, i started my long drive home on
interstate 5. the thing is, i'm enjoying that drive everyday. the only time it sucks is when....
i'm really tired, it's dark, or near the end when i go pass that cow farm. there's this foul
diarrhea smell. you know, wet crap. sharon said it was the cows taking a bath. but the drive home
is great. the view is sooooo nice. i drive home around the time when the sun is setting. and it just
makes the sky so beautiful. one time it made all the clouds a bright red. oh man. and what makes it
even more better is that song on the radio that just puts you in that mood. that feeling that
you're on a roadtrip, by yourself. an independent person, just driving. living an adult life on your
own. that's what i love. a song like... hide, by creed, or... maybe clocks, by coldplay. what's up
with creed? everyone says they hate them, but everyone listens to them. oh well. there's more to the
drive home that i love, but i'll talk about that another time. oh. my car is on the disabled list,
cause there's a leak, or the alternator is bad, or the battery, but in any case, every morning my
car is dead. nothing turns on when i turn the key. not even the lights. so i'm using the van...
which is one of the most ghetto-est vans ever. let me start from the front, and work my way back...
the left light used to not turn on, and you would have to bang on the side for it to turn on. it's
fixed now. the hood. when you try to open it, something gets caught for a while, then it just pops
open. scares me every time. the fuel gauge is broken, which is really scary. a couple of times it
ran out of gas on my dad. i think the oil gauge is broken too. the turn signal used to be broken.
every time you signal, it wouldn't click and would just fall to it's original position. i remember
having sharon stick her hand out the window when i was signalling right. the driver side window
won't open at all. the passenger side window used to open, but the driver would have to close it.
now it won't open either. the sliding window on the sliding door won't lock, so if you lock yourself
out, just open the window and unlock the door. the radio controls in the back doesn't work anymore.
i don't think it ever did. on the trunk door, there's this huge crack when this truck hit it. all
of the hubcaps fell off so my dad just painted the rims with silver paint. it actually looks pretty
good. some of the tires are really soft and it just makes the whole van bounce so much. i sometimes
bounce along with it, like it's playing a dance song. hehe. and that's our van. i love that van so
much. it's my pimp mobile. hahaha. there was something else i wanted to talk about before i go...
(sorry for making it too long). oh. i don't know if this happens with your parents, but every time
i talk to or tell something to my mom, it seems like she's interrogating me. like with that
scholarship issue. "what did they ask you?" "iuno. lots of stuff." and then i would start telling
her stuff. "oh. what did they say" "what did you say" "what did they say" geez. does it matter?
do you want me to write down the whole thing or record it? even on the phone. "rica (my sister)
called." "what did she say." "she was just looking for you" "what did you say" "that you weren't
here...?" (duh) "what did she say" aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah. it drives me crazy! so now, i just try to
avoid it by saying "iuno. lots of stuff. whatever" but sometimes it still doesn't work. oh well.
alright. my brother wanted to get on, and i promised eve i would call her tonight. so i'll talk to
you later. take care.
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Thursday, January 30, 2003
have you ever been stopped at a red light? (of course you have) there are no cars around, yet the light won't change.
you just sit there, literally for minutes. normally here in antioch, if no other cars are around,
your light will turn green, but for some reason, it wouldn't. i didn't know whether to laugh, or be
mad. my parents are weird. on our way home from church, my dad said he was hungry so we stopped at
kfc/taco bell on the corner of silver and mission. on our way there he just had a banana that he
brought along. they said they wanted to eat at home but they'll half a grilled steak taco. so i
just got them one. and i get myself something. so i got back in the van, and i was eating my taco.
my mom was eating her half of the grilled steak taco. then she hands it to my dad. "here." "that's
okay. i had a banana" "so you're full after a banana?" so my mom forces him to eat it. then after i
ate my taco, i started driving home. then my mom goes "what else did you get?" "nachos" "can i have
some? i want to try it." so she does, and i'm just driving home. while i'm driving, all i hear is
::crunch crunch crunch::......... ::crunch crunch crunch:: nonstop. so i'm thinking, is she gonna
eat it all? why is she eating it all? (why didn't you say anything, ron?) well, at the time, i
didn't really mind. and i wanted to see if she really was gonna eat it all. then i realized i
wanted some. i mean they were mine. so i quickly turn around and say "did you eat it all??" "you
weren't eating it so i ate it." "i'm driving." "oh. here. there's a little bit left." and it wasn't
those small nachos. it was the really big one. in that huge plastic black plate. "n/m, just finish
it." "here. i'll hold it." then my dad: "i'll hold it." so i just put it on my lap. and to my
surprise, how many chips are left? 4...FOUR. out of that whole plate, 4 chips. now, normally, like
i said, i wouldn't mind. but for some reason, this just annoyed me. but in the end it doesn't matter
cause i was full. (so why did you bring up? dork) cause i needed something that was even close to
being interesting to talk about. okay. for the first time, i'm gonna go study.
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Sunday, February 02, 2003
hmm... i haven't xanga.....ed o.O in a while. hahaha n/m. i'ts only been 3 days. let's see. what's
been up. i went to lowell yesterday (agaaain). it was cool. all four basketball teams were playing.
i didn't watch. i was in the caf, messing around waiting to go eat dinner. it was mikey's b-day.
happy birthday mike! 1...2...1! 2! 3! happy happy birthday, from all of us to you. we wish it was
our birthday, so we can party too HEY!. (get a life ron)
i saw jen for the first time since i graduated. all i can say is... wow. WOW. talk about good
looking girls. WOW. WOOOOOOOOOW. makes me kinda wish i were a senior in high school. hehe i think
the only thing i regret is not getting to know her more. she's a really cool girl. she really is.
very friendly. she always has a smile on her face. and she's always...WOW. so for you lowell guys,
or any guy, that knows who i'm talking about, get to know her. =) you won't regret it.
you know what..i'm so sick and tired of my family telling me what i should do or how i should live
my life. as soon as i got this scholarship, my brother's telling me to go to a different school and
get my bachelor's degree. my parents kept bringing up if i was gonna study another subject. my mom
keeps telling me i should be murse (man nurse) since they're looking for a lot of man nurses. my
dad keeps bringing up how i want to be a pilot. you know what? let me live my life the way i want
to live. let me make my own decisions. if i make a mistake, good. then let me learn from it. at
least i'll know it was my fault. but as of right now, this school is the best thing going for me so
just leave me alone. (not you guys reading. my family)
okay, for some odd reason, i'm starting to shiver. okay. back to song writing. see ya.
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Saturday, February 08, 2003
i was running a little late for school, as usual. but little did i know this would be anything but a
usual day. first i noticed that my right rear tire was flat. not completely flat, but flat enough for
you to notice, and to be dangerous. so my dad started his air compressor thing, and started pumping air
in my tire. guess what he finds on the inside... a nail. great. so i tighten the negative charge on the
battery back on (there's something wrong with the fuse, or alternator, or regulator, or any other... -or.
when i leave the car overnight, the battery will completely drain. nothing will start. so after i use it,
i have to unscrew the negative charge, so the battery won't drain.), and my dad starts the
pray-before-i-leave ritual. he just asks God to guide me to and from school, and to have a safe trip,
and so on.
so i get gas, and i'm on way to school. i'm about to reach the toll gate, and i see cars going my way,
but on the other side of the bridge...eh? oh. i see. they closed down the right side of the bridge for
maintenance. so we have to go under the freeway, and around to the other side. that's okay. okay. i'm
near the first draw bridge and the red light is on, meaning we have to stop. i immediately think that
it's just the orange guys and their orange truck, doing maintenance, holding up everyone again. last
time, it took them 10 mins just to throw a rope up to another guy. only this time...wow! the bridge is
actually lifting up! that's a first. i'm kinda far back, and i can't see the ship going under. hmm...maybe
it's one of those small private ones. less than 2 mins later, the bridge goes down, and traffic resumes.
as i'm crossing it, i look to my left... no boat. i look to my right... hmm.. no boat. did the bridge
trap it under? oh. it's just one of the maintenance people testing it. no biggy. so i'm on highway 12,
on my way to i-5 and i'm about to pass this diesel truck. go for it! i do. i merge on to the opposite
lane. there's a car coming, but i'll make it. okay.. i havne't passed the truck yet and the car is
getting closer and closer. oh crap. what do i do? i'm too far ahead to slam on my breaks. i floor it,
and i make it! woo! what a stunt.
i'm almost at the i-5 on ramp, suddenly.. my radio goes out. maybe it's the station? i change the
station. still out. the station is on, but no noise. then i remembered how the red antenna ball that i
put on, ripped off the first day i drove with it on i-5. only it took me about 2 weeks later to realize
that it also ripped the actual antenna off. but that was a couple of months ago. maybe it's just a
glitch. i turn off the radio, then back on. same thing. i see the station, but no noise. i'll fix that
later. suddenly, paranoid thoughts start coming from out of nowhere. what if i didn't put the battery on
correctly, and shutting off the radio is it's way of conserving the battery ( i know this only happens
on star trek, but again, i was being paranoid).
i get to the stop light right before the i-5 on ramp, and what is behind me? a cop. grrreeeeeeeaaaat.
there's nothing like a cop driving behind you to calm your nerves. so i'm on i-5 and i let the cop pass
me. what does it say on the back? not highway patrol, but... OAKLAND POLICE. what? way out here? are
they lost? so i'm driving, running late, and i just happen to look at the dashboard.. hmm.. is that a
very dim red light? or is it just the daylight hitting it, making it appear lit. i can't tell. so i do
a test. i turn on the ceiling light..the one that you turn on at night, when you're lost, to look at
your map. strange. it's dim as well. i signal left, then right. a very dim green light. what's going on
here? okay. so the red light is on. it's a warning light. what is it warning me about.....OOOOH NOOO.
upon further inspection... i see it's... it's... the BATTERY LIGHT!. crap. now what do i do? do i pull
over? for what? what if i can't start it again. so i keep going. i have to make it to school.
okay, i'm almost there. i'm driving on a freeway where homes are surrounding the area. good. it provides
some relief. whoa. did my car just jerk? maybe it's the road. naaah. it's just my imagination. whoa.
there it is again. okay. so it's really happening. hmmm..maybe i should signal to the right and stay
there, just in case....
what the crap?! my car is violently jerking. crrraaaaap. the engine warning light is on. this is a
yellow one. i turn on my hazard lights, but with what little battery power i have left, it's very dim.
and it took turns with the dashboard lights. so it's hazard lights, dashboard lights. hazard lights,
dashboard lights. i have no choice but to pull over. oh okay good. there's a call box. how do i use
these? i've never used these before. well i pick up the reciever, and it automatically dials chp.
"9-1-1 emergency what's your... i mean california highway patrol, how may i help you?" "hi, my car died
on me, and i'm pretty sure it's the battery" "okay, do you have any AAA insurance or anything?" "no"
she tells me about how much it'll cost to tow. "around $50 to $60" "can you send a highway patrol here?"
"the chp won't jump start you car." "okay. i guess i have no other choice then." she then proceeds to
get my info, like car make, color, name, address, all that. then calls a tow truck for me. "just to
verify, the number on the blue sign is 005-182, correct?" "yes" "okay, ronald. we're sending a tow truck
over. be sure to stay away from traffic, if you want to sit in your car, wear your seatbelt. the tow
truck will be there in 20 to 30 minutes."
i'm sitting in my car (with my seatbelt on), waiting. hmm. what could it be. how will i get home? wow.
i'm pretty late for class. i find myself starting to relax more and more, to the point where i'm
starting to drift asleep. finally, 20 to 30 minutes later, the tow truck guy comes here. i talk about
how i don't really have any money with me... and he's charging $125 per hour. "we can charge another card,
but you'll have to get it over the phone." i go back to the call box, and ask the chp dispatcher to call
home. my parents aren't home. crap. they went to san francisco today. then i ask her to call my brother.
what's his number? 260-8676? "that's a miss rosemary perez." "um.. i think it's 206..." "that's the
wrong number too." oh. i have it on my pda. so she calls him and he gives me his credit card info and
stuff. and we proceed the towing. we finally end up at my school, and the tow truck driver is doing the
paper work. he gets on the walkie-talkie to check for approval of his card........DENIED........ now
what. i call him back on the tow truck driver's cell phone. (hey, he said he didn't have one before!
that liar) "rex! you were denied...." so he gets his boss's card. hehe. mr. hugh marasa. a MILLIONAIRE
at Sands Bros. (brokage firm where they work). i hear over the phone "i'll pay you back tomorrow". so he
gets approved, and the guy helps me push my car into a parking spot.
i finally get to class 2 and a half hours late, and they're playing jeopardy in preparation for our
"mid term". now, you'd expect me to be pissed off, but no. i'm not. i'm in a good mood, actually. one of
my classmates goes "wow...you're in a good mood, given your car died on you..i'd be so pissed off right
now." after class i give my brother a call, and he says he can pick me up, but he'll be coming from
oakland (bart station). he's so nice. if it weren't for him, i'd probably still be stuck on that freeway.
so after all this, it now takes us to the present. right now, i'm in the computer lab at school....with
these really really really slow computers (due to the CPU), waiting for my brother. the front doors are
locked, and the hallway lights are off. there's a night class but we have to use the side exit. will i
make it home? what will i do about my car? i don't know. i guess we'll just have to wait and see. thank
you for reading this. i hope you enjoyed it. and don't worry. i'm fine. really =). it was an....interesting..
day. have fun!
my first thought when i woke up today was "maybe i should drive the van to school." i should have
listened...
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okay i decided to drop out of school... again. yeah, i know. this makes me look like the biggest
hypocrite ever. but my brother helped me realize how much of a waste it is going to this school.
first of all, it's really expensive. and we're moving at such a slow pace. one class at a time? plus
the commute. i have to commute 3 hours a day, just to be there for 4 hours. in economic terms, the
cost exceeds the benefit. i'm surprised i still remember cost and benefit. so, what am i gonna do
now. well, i checked recently, and i'm still admitted to sjsu, unless the computer is lying. so i'm
trying to go back there. i missed the deadline for the air force scholarship. i was looking forward
to applying again. but i have other scholarship options right? plus loans. oh, that scholarship that
i got is a one year scholarship for $3750. but that's enough for a year right? i can use it to pay
for my dorm, if i can't stay in that apartment with kingston. but if i can't go to sjsu, i was
already planning to go to los medanos community college. it's just that i really want to go back to
sjsu. there's so much that i want to do in college, and at that school...and it can't be where i go
here then transfer to sjsu in two years. i don't know. i guess it's just a preference. just to be
somewhere for the full four/five years. sigh... oh.... well... i'll just deal with this later.
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Tuesday, February 18, 2003
my life is boring...
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we're going to war! i dont know if i support it or not.
wow. it's 11am. it's so early for me
from the time my parents said "get ready now, we're going to san francisco" to actually leaving the
house, took about 2 hours...
my headaches are kinda gone..
the battery meter in the van keeps going up and down
low gas... bad, low temp.... good... low oil.. bad... high battery.... bad, slow speed... eh..
it's really cold in san francisco...
tall, grande, and venti all pretty much mean big in different languages..
coffee frappucino is pretty good
there is no food or drinks allowed in burlington coat factory....especially starbucks
oh yeah. the teddy bear was named after teddy roosevelt. alex is a nerd
why the hell am i in the lowell library...
this is fun leading ginger to albertson's w/ her eyes closed... hahaha she just walked into the
newspaper box thing..
ginger farts a lot
i picked a damn good day to go to boys volleyball practice
madd eprops goes to randall for today. it takes a lot of guts to do that. he busted out with what
a lot of us are thinking... it might not have been the best thing to do, but still... wow. any more
mad and he would have turned into a 10 foot green muscular monster, ripping off his shirt...
i want to see hulk the movie
on the commercial it says 2 6-piece nuggets for $2.22 but every mcdonald's i go to never have it...
i was drying my hands with that hand blower (heheh.. hand blower) and it got me thinking...are we
still in an energy crisis?
my headache is back...
AND FINALLY....
"you're stealing our money!" hahaha classic........
some random thoughts of the day (in chonological order of course)..
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again... my parents lag.. i get ready at 12. we're supposed to be leaving. what time do we leave? 2.
what time do i get to lowell? 4...
"random" checking at the airport means checking all the non-white and non-black folk.
i write on xanga more than i write in my actual journal. what has become of me.
there is either a stop sign or stop light at every corner on ocean avenue...
wow. i left mikey's door wide open, and no one stole anything, or even had the courtesy of closing
the door. (again, i'm really sorry mikey..)
i miss cable tv
if there are two belly buttons, one outtie, and you stick that outtie into the innie, is that
considered intercourse?
at fresh choice, i was eating a breadstick and one of the ends resembled a thumb.. so i kept it. =)
and now for some quotes that have nothing to do with anything... meaningless... pointless... random..
"time for the no touch drill..... no touch! no touch!"
"animal sex?! animal sex?! animal sex?!!!"
"don't be a ginger"
"she farts like this.... 'pfffffffffffffffffffffffft' "
and finally....
(joke) it's b.b. king's birthday, and to celebrate, his wife gets a tattoo of "b" on each of her
butt cheeks. so when b.b. king gets home, his wife shows him, and pulls down her pants. then b.b.
king goes "that's very nice dear, but who's bob?"
more random...or how mikey likes to put it.. RONdom stuff. we all know how much you like them...
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so i was in berkeley the other day....
isn't that a great punchline?... eh, yeah i wouldn't get it either.
omg, i totally forgot my b-day is this saturday...
anywho... where have i been the past.. two days. well, in san francisco. it all started one lovely
tuesday.. midday. my parents had to go to some court hearing in oakland and (as usual) i had to
drive them. now i was feeling my usually lazy self, but i went anways. plus this gave me a chance
to go to berkeley. which i did after i dropped them off. i got to to the parking lot in that
shopping area. i seem to remember my way around from the last time i was there (for that scholarship
interview.. which i didn't get). the main reason i wanted to go there was to go shopping at urban
outfitters. first i go to tower records. i really wanted to buy the audioslave cd, but i thought
"i'm gonna go shopping so i'll just buy it another time". so then i walk to urban, i see some stuff,
i see this nice black beenie for $18 bucks, which is about the average price for a beenie. but i
decided not to buy it. so i go back to pick up my parents and then i have to drive them to the city.
so i wanted to walk around downtown cause i haven't been there in a long while. so here i am,
driving, sweating like eve or ginger (horse or cow)and we're on the bridge. instead of enjoying the
view of the city from the bridge, as usual, i'm kinda irritated. why? well, the plan was for them to
drop me off at downtown, then i take the bart to my aunt's house, where they will be, and then
drive home. but no. i find out i have to sleep there to drive my dad to pick up his truck for work
in the morning. well thanks a lot for telling me. i could have brought clothes. and they started
getting all confused to the point where they're yelling at each other. (the following was spoken in
tagalog) "how is ronald going to get back?" "he's going to take the bart" "how is he going to get
home from the bart?" "no! he's taking the bart back" "but how am i supposed to pick up my truck
tomorrow?" "HE'S TAKING THE BART BACK TO ESTHER'S (my aunt's) HOUSE". then it got all quiet..... so
i broke the silence by asking "so i take the 120?" "yeah, take it from the daly city bart." and my
dad adds "take the 120 colma" then my mom "there is no 120 colma. it's just one bus." then they
start arguing again. to the point where they're really yelling. it ended with "DON'T EVEN SAY
ANYTHING REYNALDO, YOU DON'T RIDE THE BART." sheesh. i couldn't wait to get out of there.
so i'm walking in downtown, i go to urban, gap, old navy, stuff like that. and i'm really trying
hard to decide what i want to buy. maybe i shouldn't buy anything, but you know what, i dont'
remember the last time i went shopping, and it's not often i have this much money, so i walk around
trying to decide what i want. either that black beenie from urban, or that green one with a brown
stripe from american eagle. maybe those dork glasses from urban, i definitely want that polo rugby
shirt from old navy, and a hooded sweater.. but which one? so here's what i buy: black "skull cap"
(as some people like to put it) from urban $18, blue and dark blue striped rugby shirt from old navy
$10, light grey hooded plain sweater from gap $16.99. three items! for around 50 bucks! that's the
most items i've had AND most money i've spent EVER! so i sleep over at my aunt's. i wake up to the
news of the marines pulling down the saddam statue. it was pretty cool, but it got me thinking about
the aftermath. all the money is gonna effect us, and iraq being a free country is gonna put a lot
of pressure on the other countries there. then i started imagining more wars with them, and
according to the bible, the end of the world is coming. with wars and rumors of wars....and the
other stuff...
so i drive my dad to burlingame, only he's not feeling well, so he talks to his boss about not
working, and he doesn't. so where do i (the chauffeur) drive them? back to my aunts, then i drive my
mom ALL the way to antioch cause she has to drop some PAPER off at some OFFICE. i take advantage of
being home and i shower and stuff. then we drive ALL the way back to sf cause i have to take my dad
to the hospital to scan his cat. i didn't even know we had a cat. i thought we had a dog.... (yes
i know it's CT scan, but hey, i'm irritated. amuse me.) on the bridge, my mom goes "did you bring
clothes?" apparently, i have to sleep over again. (thanks for telling..... again!) it's not that i
DON'T like it at my uncle's (notice the change from aunt to uncle), it's just that i can't get
comfortable if it's not my own home. so i'm pissed off again, and my mom tries to get mad at ME for
not bringing clothes. what the hell? so i take my dad to the hospital, and i go to lowell volleyball
practice......... eh........... then me, mikey and tran go out to eat. right when we got to the
restaurant my dad calls. so i take them to pick up my parents, drop them off, THEN we go out to eat
i get to my uncle's by.. 10:30. the only reason why i had to sleep over again was so i can drive my
dad to the hospital WHEN/IF they call. so i get up at 10:30ish. they didn't call. what a waste. i
finally get home at 2:30 in the afternoon, and i just relax. relax relax relax. thinking about this
kinda makes me irritated again so i'm gonna stop.
if the items i listed inspires you to get me a gift, please please please DON'T! it'll make me feel
really really really awful inside. i can't live with that guilt. so i'm not gonna have a bbq. i'll
just save it for when i turn a significant age like 20 or 22..... >= * (my new "concentrating" face)
last note, i promise. i've been doing a lot of thinking, and i really really really want to get out
of here. away from parents. home. just long enough to really get my head together with life. the
perfect place i picture myself is new york. i see myself with my beenie on, walking, head down, deep
in thought, with an occasional "hi" to workers on the street. new yrok would a great place for me..
not knowing anyone, just being on my own. okay, that's all, and if you read all of this... what's
your problem? you MUST be bored. bye.
p.s. sorry for the long entry. i've just been really annoyed lately.
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Thursday, April 10, 2003
p.s. i tried to pretend it was april 12, but it's the 18th. sorry. i was cheating. =) 1:12AM
11:45PM mikey, thomas & thomas just left. okay they left at 10ish. i didn't expect too much to happen.
i didn't expect anything to happen. i just planned on staying home all day. this gloomy, rainy day. then
mikey called, after rica, and said he was coming here. so i showered and stuff. as soon as they got here
we decided on a place to eat. ended up going to applebee's. a lot of food for me. then we just played
board games at my house, & watched tv. that was basically it. wow. i've had this (journal) for a year now.
i'm about half way. i would be a lot further if i wrote more often. hehe. so what has been happening. well,
i've been driving.... a lot. i went shopping, but you remember. spent $40. my dad has to get another
operation. the cancer was blocking the tube to the liver. it's what made his eyes & skin turn yellow. it
started the first day he went back to work, which sucks. he was so excited about going back to work. i
still haven't found a job. i couldn't really turn my apps in, since i've been my parents' chauffeur for a
while. alright. i will TRY to write again soon. goodnight. 1:12AM
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11:33 PM. "i'm sorry, i can't. i have WORK!" tomorrow is my job orientation @ Hollister. i guess persistence
is the key. i called again yesterday. Haley said she would love for me to work 9-2 and to come in
tomorrow at 9 for the job orientation. i have to bring my passport so don't let me forget. wow. i have
a job. thank you jesus. oh, i think thursday (two nights ago), anna told me to wake her up at 1:30 so
she can study. so 1:30 comes and i call, but she doesn't study. we end up talking on the phone til about
4. although i liked talking to her, i felt bad cause i was taking up her study time. she STOOD in the
hallway the whole time, well almost the whole time. she went to the lounge for a while. last tuesday i
went back to berkeley to visit charisse. it was fun seeing her again. catching up on stuff. i didn't know
she broke up w/ hansen. well, i was w/ her from 2-6, getting "boba", doing the cha-cha in her room, stuff
like that. then she went to her banquet and i met up w/ anna. we played basketball with matt, franklin,
and a few other people...(stuff i chose not to post goes here)...anna told
me how dennis, matt ji, merrit, and matt jeung were planning a road trip to l.a. to visit people. i've
always wanted to go on a road trip w/ friends. but my parents won't let me go. i just know it. plus i
wasn't invited so that's okay...(more stuff i chose not to post goes here)
...but i might just do the whole ROTC thing so i'll be @ berkeley at least once a week. oh well. i
guess i have nothing to worry about since nothing's gonna happen. alright. i have to wake up early
tomorrow. you know. for my job orientation.
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DON'T FORGET PASSPORT 11:58 PM
i forgot my passport =) so i had to go back and get it
(refer to 5/17/03). i was ½ an hour late. i'm sitting on my roof right
now, so it's fairly dark. i think it's about 1ish. conan was on. the moon is just above the horizon on
my left. it has a golden glow. it's size, bigger than normal. later it'll turn blue, and small. it's pretty
windy right now, but it was hot today. i mean really hot. esp in the van. i can't really see what i'm
writing. it's so nice out here. the sound of crickets on a clear night; stars twinkling above, and a faint
distant humming that resembles the constant crashing of ocean waves. if you close your eyes and just take
all of the sounds in; the sound of the wind blowing, the crickets, the waves, and just imagine yourself
in your own fantasy... it's beautiful. the world is asleep, the neighborhood calm and quiet. every once
in a while you'll hear a bird chirp here and there. up the hill you can almost locate the exact spot of
the flags from the new model homes. the cracking of the flags in the wind is crisp. the sky above is a
midnight blue, mixed with the grey tones surrounding the, now, white moon. my sneeze echoes throughout
the neighborhood, as loud as thunder. even the sound of the flapping page hitting my pen can be heard.
not one dog has barked all night. the moon, from this perspective now appears to be 1 inch above the
horizon; slowly moving across the night sky, to meet its destination on the west. in the midst of all
this, i can only think about one thing.... her. i've fallen for her as easily as i do others. i believe
this is different, yet i know, just like the others, this infatuation.. this crush, will soon fade.
unless something were to happen, which is highly doubtful. although there have been signs of some kind
of feelings for me, i still believe nothing's going to happen. that's just my way of thinking; the sum
of many crushes that led to nothing. yet there's still this ounce of hope. there are still those stories
imagined only in my head, of how we come together; how our relationship begins, how it ends up. it's
these stories that let me hold on to that hope that someday, we will be together...forever... 1:37 am
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