Life is good, Good news about my club
Mood:  a-ok





I'm trying to negotiate with the ex about lowering my child support when my oldest graduates high school and turns 18. This way I can avoid lawyer cost. I want to keep an eye on the calculating during negotiations so there's no she said, he said pointing. When I emailed and told her how tough it is for me to get along she replied ( in her silly colored response ), I need to live within my means. I should have fired back and said I was but someone mean changed that.

My Hot Wheels club was featured in our local newspaper. Here are some pics followed by a link.

Newspaper article

The weather has warmed up so I'm doing a lot of yard and house work. Looking forward to spending time with a new friend.

I'll keep you posted......TBB

Yay for May 21
Mood:  cool
Hi there,

I don't use this blog much anymore but I have good news and I wanted to make sure everyone knew it. The evil ex is getting married 4/21/07. This means my last name won't be attached to her anymore. I've been waiting for this. Of all the people with my last name she was the worst. I quit being her friend when she accepted talking behind my back was ok for her. Would you be friends or trust someone who relishes talking about YOU behind YOUR back and doesn't regret it? I have good memories of our raising our kids but I've forgotten the us memories. She's clouded them over with her rude attitude.

Everything is ok. I regret my breaking up with the Baronette. We had different expectations of our relationship. I love her and always will. We grated too much when together.

Spring is upon us and I have plenty of yard work. I will spend a lot of time on the yard when it warms up. I enjoy it a lot.

My Hot Wheels club will be in our local newspaper on 4/25/07. It should be a nice article.

Take care all......TBB

Trashback Cryday
Mood:  energetic








Hello Friends,

I was thinking about how I met my ex. We we're introduced over the phone by a mutual friend. At the time the ex was a clerk at a laundromat. She had 2 years of college but smoked and drank herself to the point where she had to quit school. She would go nowhere. She was underage hanging out in bars shooting pool in a low cut jumpsuit. I know what she learned.
Now I'm with the Baronette. She is well educated and has put her education toward the career she does so well, teaching. I took my 2 years of technical training and had a job in my field before my class graduated. Telephony has been good. My ex claims she inspired me to go for my associates degree. I would have moved that way eventually. I now look back and think about how she has slowed me down at times.
That's it for now. I'm expecting some things in the mail from my buddy in Mexico. Both this and the money I get for brokering blogs to third party blog sites help my current money situation. I'm making it though it's rough.
I made a mistake the other day. The greasy boyfriend of my ex held the door open for me and I said "thanks". What was I thinking? He still, and will always be not worth regarding. He's a call center professional and that's all. What can I say?

I hope everyone of my buds are doing well...TBB

2 faced
Mood:  cool





Sigh, I had to see my mean ex today. She questions my trust in her, which I have none. Here lies an important lesson and I want my kids to be aware of it. NEVER like, trust, hang with, or confide in anyone who has bad things to say about you. It is a sign of low self esteem. I say things not so good about her in my blogs but only after she has slighted me. What good she very occasionally writes is always cancelled by her bad writing. She sets the tone for how I treat her. The perception I have of my ex will always be bad because of the things she has written and the non verbal approval of her weird greasy boyfriend and the things he's said about me and my girlfriend. She's about as pure as driven slush. Maybe one day she'll free her head from her lower region, stop writing bad things, and say she's sorry but until then the only reason I'll interact with her is to talk about our kids.
Things are good with the Baronette. I had some vacation time and we spent it alone together. She is usually with her kids so our aloneness was special. I'm real busy so for a while seeing each other as much will be harder. She is very sweet. Got my daughters this weekend and that's nice too.

TBB

So what
Mood:  chillin'
Sigh,

My mean ex gave me a birthday card the other day. Her name may as well be Janis instead of Tamela. She is 2 faced. It's odd how she imagines herself nice but yet writes bad things about me and my sf on her blog. She will always be regarded as if she's saying the bad things to our faces. Her and her greasy guy are strange on their blog culture.

TBB

Trust my ass
Mood:  energetic
Arrgh, I heard by word of mouth, that my mean bitchy ex wife is trash talking me and my girlfriend again. If she gets to read this, I want her to know I don't trust her as far as I could throw her. She's a self centered legend in her own mind, along with her greasy pony tailed boyfriend for now. I haven't trusted her since she started emailing, talking and gifting to him years ago. In fact in my distrust I "googled" his and her name and found she had gifted him.
One day all her angst and cockeyed self assurance might make her grinchy heart explode. Her time will come. I think she seethes inside knowing I'm far happier without her.
Keep patting yourself on the back deary, maybe one day you'll smack that blackness out of your soul.

Darkness, same as ever
Mood:  a-ok
I guess I'm not surprised that my ex can always top her last bitter action with new, darker bitter actions. What must course through her veins?

Now where did I put that picture disk I copied before my divorce?

TBB

I've moved on for now
Mood:  a-ok
Hi there,

I saw that a few of my friends were still reading this blog. I've contacted them and told them where to find me.

We knew things were going to get ugly and we prepped. Things are ok.

Thanks to all my supporters and benefactors.

I will be back on this blog occasionally. It was primarily created to be viewed by some particular people. I laced it with keywords and metatags for that reason.

c'ya,
TBB......

Hi there, sorry, I've been away
Mood:  happy
Now Playing: AJA, Steely Dan
Hello friends,

Glad to be back. I've had no rants or complaints as of late. I wish work was busier. I could do with the overtime. I did go to a birthday party for my nephew this past weekend. I took my girls. We had a great time. Now more than ever since my divorce we are having the best relationship dads and daughters can share. Not a glimmer of sourness. I love to do things for them.

Below is a picture of Amy enjoying some pool time.

Next is a cake and ice cream pic of my 2 teens (on the right) and 2 of my nieces.

The baronette is doing well despite working and mothering very hard.

Time to publish on my Benrik site...BYE BYE.

A Renaissance Tale
Mood:  flirty
Now Playing: I wouldn't want to be like you...Alan Parsons






The Baron and the Baroness once seemed happy together. They owned and managed a demesne and the castle on it.
They went through some tough times. They achieved many goals. They raised 3 wonderful children. She was a wonderful caregiver and he saw to most of their outdoor activities while she stayed home.
He imbibed in substances and she was opinionated and controlling. These things eventually wore them down. Over time she became disenchanted and he sought out his substances for escape. She eventually consorted with a rogue as an escape herself. She sent the rogue gifts and the Baron found out. The faith of the marriage was lost and the Baron never trusted the Baroness again. The Baroness had already lost faith because she sought promises from the Baron he didn’t keep.
Eventually the Baroness left the Baron. She told the Baron she wanted to remain friends and the Baron agreed. The Baroness acted sincere but in her heart she had a hidden agenda to end up with the rogue as a mate. She thought she would put on an act, feigning to have interest in others, putting time between the revelation to the Baron that she would bring him to be with her.
The rogue was a scoundrel. He spent his time complaining about others. Most vile though, he published crude things about the Baron. These terrible acts created problems which could never be fixed.
When the Baroness revealed her plans to the Baron, the Baron told her he would not remain her friend, and read her like a book knowing that she would do as he expected.
Having her friendship spurned, the Baroness became hateful. The Baroness exercised her wrath by corrupting their children against their father. The Baron had kept the demesne and the castle as he was more able to manage their upkeep for the sake of the children.. The Baroness insulted and spoke down about the people the Baron befriended after having left from the Baroness. The Baroness now sought to pry the castle from the Baron even though she could not have it. In her dark heart the Baroness always waged a bitter battle against those whom had offended her. Her hatred burned like coal.
The Baron had seen this eventuality too. He strengthened his walls. He put stores in his keep for a long battle. He made plans to not lose and to show the Baroness how successful and happy he was now that she was gone.
The Baron in the meantime had met the Baronette, a more petite attractive form of a Baroness. She too had problems from a relationship. They each had their own demesne and castles but one day are considering consolidating their assets.
The Baroness still attempts to chip away at the Baron’s resolve, but in vain.

Next, enter the sappers. The Baron has created many false hidden entrances to ensnare these sappers….More to come.

TBB