Mood:  bright

  10 years now I've been free of a being with my ex wife. To the present I'm still very happy about it. She sometimes carried lots of heavy chips on her shoulder over people or things that made her upset. The largest downside is that our kids aren't able to realize a cohesive family. The ex used her self righteous vindictive nature to get as much money out of my pockets as she could. Still, the peace of mind having her away from me is a reward that any money can't beat. I gave her plenty of chances to work together to be friends. To get along like 2 amicable adults should. Always her self righteousness wouldn't allow it. I would welcome a day for our kids that would see me and the ex be friends. I'm not holding my breath over it. We both have enjoyed walking out in our post divorce suns.