Mood:  incredulous

   The not nice ex mentioned something in an email to the me the other day. She said something like I should "get over" my non friendship with her these past 6 years or so.

   Folks, I've said this before, don't hang with people who are mean to you. If the write mean things about you, if they create problems, if they bring you court issues, keep them out of your life as much as you can.

   My ex thinks she's always right. She can keep that thought. The past few years have been nicer because I DON'T talk to the ex as friends. I know I have more piece of mind that she is off my friends list.

   Long ago I tried to work for a resolution to the differences my ex and I have. She wanted no part of it. She was convinced she and she alone was correct. To get along we would have had to find a middle ground for both of us. Things have gotten worse between us since then. It looks like we will never fix things.

   Is this so bad? I think not. My 2 older kids have been impressed by their mom to believe she is correct. I believe in time they will understand. Not getting along keeps the tension and anxiety down.

Later,

TBB